07/11/2017
No, the secret isn't the ecstasy of love (but it sure doesn't hurt):
https://www.gottman.com/blog/research-reveals-the-secret-to-happily-ever-after/
Research Reveals the Secret to "Happily Ever After"
If you think the way to eternal love is through grand gestures of romance and passion, think again.
07/04/2017
Myth 1: Marriage is just a piece of paper.. see what social epidemiology has to say about that:
https://www.gottman.com/blog/debunking-12-myths-about-relationships/
Debunking 12 Myths About Relationships
Dr. John Gottman debunks 12 myths about Relationships
06/27/2017
When you're blamed, it's easy to be defensive. But what are they really saying?
https://www.gottman.com/blog/why-we-need-to-stop-playing-the-blame-game/
Why We Need to Stop Playing the Blame Game
Blaming is a natural human tendency. When something bad happens, the first thing we want to know is, "whose fault is it?"
06/20/2017
Guys generally shut down and stonewall- but there are some things they can do to help:
https://www.gottman.com/blog/five-things-men-can-do-to-strengthen-their-relationship/
5 Things Men Can Do to Strengthen Their Relationship - The Gottman Institute
You have enormous influence to create change and save your marriage.
06/13/2017
This may come as a surprise: no.1 thing couples fight about is not money, s*x, or in-laws
https://www.gottman.com/blog/1-thing-couples-fight/
The #1 Thing Couples Fight About
It's not s*x, money, or in-laws.
06/06/2017
If arguments about money aren't about money, then what are they about?
https://www.gottman.com/blog/arguments-money-arent-money/
Arguments About Money Aren't About Money - The Gottman Institute
They are about our dreams, our fears, and our inadequacies.
05/30/2017
Fights are inevitable, but let's do it the right way:
https://www.gottman.com/blog/5-steps-to-fight-better-if-your-relationship-is-worth-fighting-for/
5 Steps to Fight Better if Your Relationship is Worth Fighting For
When choosing a long-term partner, you will inevitably be choosing a particular set of unresolvable problems.
05/02/2017
How to keep seeing your partner positively:
https://www.gottman.com/blog/3-ways-to-keep-your-relationship-in-the-positive-perspective/
3 Ways to Keep Your Relationship in the Positive Perspective
Having a Positive Perspective of your partner and your relationship helps to more effectively problem solve during conflict.
04/25/2017
Do you still hold hands with your partner?
https://www.gottman.com/blog/10-ways-rekindle-passion-marriage/
10 Ways to Rekindle the Passion in Your Marriage
A good s*xual relationship is built on emotional intimacy and closeness.