09/26/2026
I am in the process of obtaining an IEP for one of my children. I have done this before, years ago, and I am disappointed to see that the term "Special Education" is still widely used.
The word "special" has been weaponized for decades. It carries a heavy, toxic stigma, and clueless internet strangers and schoolyard bullies alike have twisted the label into a punchline to mock, belittle, and isolate disabled students or anyone they dislike. When a term is routinely used as a slur, it’s not protecting or uplifting anyone. It’s isolating them.
Beyond the stigma, labeling basic accommodations as "special" frames human rights as a luxury. A visual schedule, a sensory break, assistive tech, or extra time isn't a "bonus favor, " it’s a basic civil right. It’s how a student accesses their learning. "Special ed" implies the student is "broken" and needs to be shoved into a separate category to be fixed. Using the term "Accessible Education" correctly places the blame on a flawed system. The student isn't the problem, the inaccessible environment is.
Besides, "special education" magically vanishes the second they graduate. Workplaces and colleges don't have "special needs" programs, they have Accessibility Services. Let's give our kids the real-world vocabulary of self-advocacy from day one.