11/08/2020
WOW! Thank you to our government for celebrating our 13 week nation wide family campaign!! :) :) IT has been sooo exciting to have over 1200 families and 82 leaders working TOGETHER to see families strengthened around Botswana!! Groups watch the show weekly, read through their marriage workbook, and meet to discuss the tips they learn to strengthen their relationships(in person, via zoom or whatsapp). The result has been AWESOME!!! Families revived! Planned divorces stopping once the couple learns how to work through difference going through the program! Suicides that were attempted and stopped by group members inviting them to join a group to learn how they can actually have a healthy happy family! GBV cases reduced as couples learn healthier ways to manage conflict! IT IS AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE SHARE THIS POST AND ARTICLE so that we can read POSITIVE NEWS!!! Amidst "sad corona news" people should know God is doing some really HAPPY GOOD THINGS in Botswana!!
if you want this marriage book, contact us on Talking with the Thabas page. It is P100 and can be collected at our office in Phakalane.
FAMILIES REVIVAL PICK UP STEAM
In his pledge to transform Botswana’s economy into a knowledge-based economy, President Dr Mokgweetsi Masisi has on multiple occasions vowed to make this a reality with everything at his disposal and as he looks to achieve this; what is it that we can do as a nation to re-enforce the President’s efforts?
Botswana has always been touted as a beacon of hope and a shining example of what a democratic state should be; and it comes as no surprise that her people are at the centre of this amazing peace and tranquility that has reigned.
It has always been said charity begins at home and for one to change the world, you have to change your ways first, and for that to happen the family structure needs to be secure and grounded in love.
It is no secret that the family structure in Botswana has for years deteriorated to a point where divorce rates are high, gender based violence cases are ever increasing, cheating has been normalised, children are suffering from depression due to family stress and consequently struggling to excel at school, substance abuse is common and the list goes on and on.
Most, if not all of such social ills that afflict the society at large can be traced back to unhealthy families and the effects are so tremendous such that if not adequately addressed, they will continue to reverberate at every level of society and generations to come, will be dealt a very difficult hand and navigating life will be extremely hard.
To this end, Ashley and Percy Thaba decided to speak out and be the change that President Masisi has on many occasions called on Batswana to exhibit.
The Thabas have been married for over 30 years and have intentionally decided to assist, advice and guide and be exemplary in contributing to Batswana with various works aimed at strengthening the family unit.
One such initiative is their self-sponsored and pop**ar show, which airs weekly on BTV, Talking with the Thabas and it has revolutionised many families across the nation.
Currently BTV is running the entire season one for a second time, and what is different this time is that families around the country have started speaking up and using the show to improve their communities, which is a campaign the Thabas have started.
A group of over 1 000 families from across the country from areas like Gumare, Rakops, Maun, Tutume, Takotokwane, Bobonong, Borolong, Jwaneng, Orapa, Francistown, Mahalapye, Gaborone, Metsimotlhabe, Lobatse and other areas have decided to commit to watching the Thabas’ show each Sunday night at 7:30pm on BTV and form discussion groups afterwards.
The groups around the country meet to discuss the practical tips the Thabas give and the idea is that if groups gather and discuss topics that are normally deemed secretive, communities can support one another with the real issues that every family was facing.
Many exclaim that what they find so attractive about the show was the Thaba’s honesty about their marital issues.
Speaking in an interview, Nnyaladzi Madzikigwa, one of the many group leaders across the country, based in Rakops said the Thabas’ advice to tackle issues head on before they build up was refreshing, especially because their show offers practical advice with their own lives on exactly what this can look like on a day to day basis.
“In our culture, it is common for many issues to be swept under the rug in an attempt to avoid conflict,” she said.
She said since they started a group discussion in Rakops, the traditional village leadership had also come on board to support their efforts. CONT>>>
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