26/01/2026
Training done.
But the real work has just begun.
Over these few days, I was reminded that helping isn’t about having the right answers, it’s about showing up with presence, humility, and boundaries.
What stood out about this group of officers and lecturers from Politeknik Brunei was their depth and courage to share. Different academic backgrounds, different experiences yet united by one intention: to listen better and support students more safely.
The interventions were real. The conversations were honest. Many in this group are emotionally attuned, aware, reflective, present. These are exactly the qualities needed for first-line support and paracounselling, when guided with clarity and ethics.
They didn’t come to “fix” students. They came to humanise support to hold space, recognise limits, and refer responsibly.
This is EMPOWERIOR’s niche. Strengthening institutions by strengthening people. Conversations like these give me hope that student wellbeing can be humanised, one safe student at a time.
Until the next journey.
PoliteknikBrunei
04/08/2025
📍 Yogyakarta x Brunei
🕌 Islamic Wellness in a Modern World
🎤 Alhamdulillah, honoured to be invited as one of the distinguished speakers at the International Seminar hosted by Universitas Ahmad Dahlan 🇮🇩 — exploring how Islamic values can guide us in cultivating faith-rooted resilience, holistic health, and spiritual well-being in today’s rapidly globalized world.
In my session titled “Reclaiming Wellness in the Age of Disconnection,” I introduced two of Empowerior’s signature frameworks — the Qalb-Based Intervention (QBI) and the S.E.E.D. Framework — as practical pathways to nurture qalbun salīm (a sound heart), inner alignment, and conscious living rooted in Islamic tradition 🌱
Wellness, in Islam, is not just about feeling good — it is an act of ‘ibadah. It is how we respond with purpose, regulate with sabr, and realign our hearts in a world that constantly pulls us away.
Grateful for the insightful exchanges, spiritual reflections, and the opportunity to share what matters most 🌍✨
03/08/2025
🌿 MFT: More than a Course - It Was a Heart Reset.
Al-Hamdulillah, our 3-Day Practical MFT Skills Training for High Conflict & Disconnected Relationship has officially come to a close and what a journey it’s been. 💫
From holding space for couples in crisis, to learning how to speak to the qalbu when words fall short, this training wasn’t just about techniques. It was about reconnecting hearts, softening pride, and guiding love back home.
🧠 Module by module, we:
✔ Navigated chaos with clarity
✔ Practised emotion-focused interventions
✔ Explored healing after betrayal
✔ And ended with a Qalbu-based reset rooted in compassion, faith & presence.
To all our participants, thank you for showing up fully. Your energy, openness and insights made this training deeply transformative.
💌 Many have asked, “When’s the next one?”
👉 We hear you! A new cohort is in the works.
Stay tuned and if you missed this one, make sure you don’t miss the next.
This isn't just professional development. It's soul development. ❤️
19/07/2025
🎤 Counsel & Chill 🎤
Real Talk with the Pros!
It was pure magic ✨ We gathered for "Our Mission as Helping Professionals’ Calling: Reflections & Realities" - an unfiltered heart-to-heart with the incredible Dr. Shake (Counselor) & Dr. Ken (Psychiatrist).
From their early career stories to the clients who changed them forever, they kept it 100% real - no sugarcoating, just raw wisdom and laughs. 🍵
📌 Key Takeaways:
✅ Burnout hacks
✅ Why “imperfect” counselors heal best
✅ The one question they wish every trainee would ask
Shoutout to PERKAB & UBD Grad School for making this happen!
isn’t just a session - it’s a reminder that we’re human first, healers second. Who’s ready for the next one? 👀
19/07/2025
🎯✨ SUPERKIDZ: Learning How to Learn ✨🎯
💥 4 powerful sessions.
🏫 23 amazing Tutong primary schools.
🧠 444 brave and brilliant students.
📆 11, 12, 17 & 19 July 2025.
From mastering ultimate notetaking, super memory techniques, cracking power reading, to learning how to rewire your mindset and tame exam stress - these SuperKidz are prepping not just for PSR… but for LIFE. 💪📚
They laughed, they clapped, they learned… and they left one step closer to becoming the Hall of Famers of their own story. 🏆💫
🧠📖 Because when you learn how to learn…
You unlock a SUPERPOWER that lasts forever.
09/05/2025
Honoured to begin my third term as Chairman of the Board of Advisors for the Probation Program (KRK), 2025–2026.
Today marks our first official meeting, and I’m reminded why this work matters:
Not just to supervise but to rehabilitate, to restore dignity, and to believe that change is possible.
This role is not about status, it’s about service, about guiding young lives back on track, and ensuring our system heals more than it punishes.
04/05/2025
On this year’s RBAirF Safety Day, held in conjunction with World Safety Day (28 April), we had the honour of contributing in multiple capacities - As a professional counselor, mental health advocate, and former Chief Counseling Officer of the Royal Brunei Armed Forces.
I was privileged to:
✈️ Deliver a talk titled “Mental Health Awareness – RBAirF Strategic Asset”,
✈️ Join the panel discussion on psychological readiness and resilience, and
✈️ Support the launch of the Mental Wellness Guide for RBAirF as well as mental health-related exhibition.
This event wasn’t just about safety on the ground or in the air — it was about psychological safety, open conversations, and eliminating the stigma around mental health in military life.
Let’s keep reminding each other:
Kesihatan mental bukan beban. Ia adalah aset strategik.
Stronger minds. Safer missions. United force.
04/05/2025
Day 1 of 5: The Quest for Brunei’s Brightest Begins!
This morning, the first batch of Sultan’s Scholar candidates stepped into the spotlight - and into our psychological lab! This isn’t just a test; it’s a journey into the minds and hearts of tomorrow’s leaders.
Empowerior has proudly partnered with Yayasan since 2016 to go beyond grades, crafting psychological profiles that reveal the character, resilience, and potential of each candidate.
Let the search for excellence continue.
27/02/2025
🔹 Ever felt unsure how to support a struggling colleague? 🤔💬
🔹 Workplace counseling isn’t about being a therapist—it’s about listening, empathizing, and guiding.
Empowerior recently conducted a Workplace Counseling Skills training for NiAT (Network Integrity Assurance Technologies Sdn Bhd - Brunei's first satelite service provider), equipping their team with essential tools to foster a supportive and resilient workplace. 💙
🚀 Key takeaways:
✅ Mastering active listening 🎧
✅ Understanding emotional triggers ⚡
✅ Building a positive support culture 🤝
Because a healthy workplace starts with supportive leadership! 🌟
💬 How does your workplace support mental well-being?
24/02/2025
🌟 **Selamat Hari Kebangsaan ke-41, Brunei Darussalam!** 🌟
This year’s theme, *"Bersama Mencapai Cita Negara"* (United to Achieve the National Aspiration), reminds us of the power of unity, resilience, and collective effort in building a brighter future for our nation. 💛🤍🖤
At EMPOWERIOR, we are proud to contribute to Brunei’s aspirations by empowering individuals and organizations to unlock their full potential. Through our heart-centered approach, we strive to:
✅ Foster **mindset transformation** and personal growth.
✅ Build **resilient, purpose-driven leaders** for tomorrow.
✅ Promote **holistic development** that aligns with our national values.
Together, we can achieve the dreams of our nation – one empowered heart at a time. 💪✨
21/02/2025
Whether you’re an individual or an organization, Empowerior® is here to empower you. 🚀
✅ Professional Counseling & Psychological Services – Mental wellness, therapy, & psychometric testing.
✅ Workplace Learning & Corporate Training – Leadership, resilience, & workplace transformation.
✅ Life Coaching & Personal Development – Helping you live with clarity & purpose.
Your journey to growth & success starts here. Let’s talk. 👥
20/02/2025
At the heart of Empowerior is Rusli Bujang, a professional counselor, visionary leader, and behavioral transformation specialist. 🌟
With over two decades of experience, Rusli champions the Qalbu-Oriented Approach, believing that the wisdom of the heart is key to personal growth.
💬 “When we align our hearts, minds, and actions – true transformation happens.”