Hnaub Muslim Student Society

I wish Every parent would read this till the end.

There is a picture and video of 3 kids less than 10 years having a th*****me.
What is a th*****me? For those who don't know: A th*****me is 3 people having s*x at the same time.

I personally refuse to share the picture because of child abuse laws against child po*******hy so I'd ....

Rather describe the picture so you can understand what is happening. A girl is bent over a boy with her mouth over his private part, another boy is behind her with his private part inserted into her. All at once. Yes this happened, and they recorded it themselves.

My question - how did these children get here?
Where are their parents?

It is obvious the children (child one of them) has/have been exposed to po*******hy or/and actual s*x. By the way abusers are usually people children know and are already familiar and comfortable with... Infact usually they are close to the family

*This is a call to every parent to seat up*

As a counselor I am speechless at the sheer ignorance and unawareness many parents display. To say I am upset doesn't describe how I feel. I have heard countless stories of broken children. Children who their parents have failed.

*3 Facts about parenting*
1. Parenting isn't a fanfare
2. Parenting requires a lot of deliberate work, not seating on the couch watching telemundo and wishing your child would grow up to be normal
3. Parenting today is a different ball game than it used to be.

*3 facts about your children you may not know or you are denying* children
1. Know more than you think they know
2. They are exposed by virtue of the times they are born in...especially now that they are forced to go online to learn
3. What they want isn't all the money or gifts you're giving them, they want your undivided attention

*3 Steps to take now if you love your child*
1. Spend time with them daily
2. Show them by example how to live right
3. Speak to them about your values and about life, don't shy away from talking about s*x, internet safety.

*3 Things to teach your child about s*x*
(There is age appropriate s*x education for every child, this is just a general statement, you can get detailed age appropriate s*x education for your child)

1. God created s*x for a reason and one of it is for married couples (Daddy and mummy) to bring (children including you) into the world
2. Your body is yours and you have the right to protect it. No one should touch you, or ask you to touch their private parts. Anyone who does this wants to hurt you.
3. Once you feel uncomfortable with anyone please tell me and I would believe you

*3 Things you must teach your children about online safety*
1. Not everything you see online is true, there is a lot of fake information online, because anyone can send information online. That's why it is called world wide web. It may be hard to know what is true and what is not
2. Not every information online is meant for children. Some bad adults go online to share bad pictures of themselves or others, and try to force others to do the same
3. Going to strange sites or sites not permitted by (me) your parents is like walking out on the streets all by yourself (scary), it is dangerous and must be discouraged.

*For those who advocate that children should have phones early*...my question to you...

1. Would you give your child your car keys? At what age would you allow your child drive?
2. Would you allow your child go out by themselves? At what age would you allow your child go out by him/herself?
3. Would you allow your child talk to strangers?

I don't know what you answered, but giving your child an internet enabled phone is like answering yes to all my above questions.

Finally,
some days back I was having a live session with a group of children and I asked them who they admired most? who has had the most influence on their lives?... The highest number mentioned their parents, especially their mums as the most influential person in their lives

I strongly believe this is because the family is the bedrock and foundation of every child. If we fail them at the family level we have failed them at all levels, stop pushing your responsibility to the school.

They want you to guide them, to protect them, to discipline them, to nurture them and show them how to live right. You may make mistakes along the way and that's okay, let them know you're not perfect but you're willing to keep learning and getting better and by all means apologize if you have to. Children are humans too.

From my heart to every parent. Thanks you for all you are doing already. I pray your labor would yield great results.

_Sayyiduna Anas رضي الله عنه narrates that_

_The Messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم said something to the effect:_

Four characteristics are part of evil:

(1)An eye that cannot cry.

(2)hardness of the heart.

(3)Having many aspirations and desires.

(4)And greed / desire for the world.

(Musnad Bazzaar)

*WORDS ON MARBLE*

"It all boils down to your heart. The Almighty will weigh your deeds and not count them on Judgement Day. He looks at your intent and how much heart was in it when the deed was done. Quality over quantity above all. So purify your heart; do it solely for Him and not to show off!"

*~ M***i Ismail Menk*

As salaamu alaykum
Stick to saying:

Laa Ilaaha ila laah anta, subhaanak ,in.nee kuntu
Min althaalimeen.

Because the first is tawheed ,the middle tasbeeh and the last istiqfaar.

Oo Sustainer Cherisher forgive me and my parents.

A morning of blessing to you.

If you believe you are right, but still people criticize you, hurt you, shout at you, don't bother. Just remember TV that, in every game, the only audience makes noise, not players. Be a player, believe in yourself. Confront life with a smile and let the shadows of the past pale into insignificance. Never allow your past to cloud your sense of judgement; let it just be a signpost to guide you in your forward match in life. Never reply when you are angry. Never make a promise when you are happy. Never make a decision when you are sad. Remember you're human and can make mistakes, and so be ready to forgive others. Just learn to forgive even if the other party doesn't deserve it. If you don't, emotionally you would remain a captive to that individual and carry the scar as you regularly think of what that person had done to you. Consider the negative effect of that on your health. Forgive yourself and don't forget that you're not perfect and so sometimes you make bad decisions; you mess up and let others down, but that doesn't make you a bad person. Don't let the sun set on your anger, but make peace with yourself and be of good cheer. Don’t let the troubles of life bring you down. No matter how big your struggle, God has the power to conquer all things. Life's short and so be on your guard because the COVID-19 is still lurking around. Stay alive. Stay safe. Follow the protocols. Good morning.

*LARRY or HARRY*

Larry and Harry, *two homeless men* were given a chance to travel to a third world country on an all-expenses paid trip.

They were told to carry nothing and return with nothing...

They were to make sure they spend all that was given to them.
Provision had been made for their expenses and welfare which they would get upon arrival at their destination.

The only caveat was that neither of them knew when they would be asked to return home.

As they arrived, they were both given a huge sum of money and a credit card with no limits, but reminded to spend it all before returning to their home country.

At this, they became instantly wealthy by local standards.

*Harry* thought to himself. "Wow! This is my opportunity to live like a king for I don't know how long this would last".

So he went and rented a Ferrari and rented the best room in the best hotel in town.

He went to the best stylist, shaved and transformed his looks. He had parties everyday. Everyone in the city thought the cars and the wealth were his and they loved and respected him for it.

*But....*

At the back of his mind, Harry knew he would go back home someday and leave all of it behind but he didn't want to think about it.

Right now he was living in the moment and enjoying himself to the fullest...

*Larry,* on the other hand rented a small Honda to get him around town and stayed in a modest inn.

He thought to himself. "This money will not last and I don't know when I am going back so I have to do something tangible with it."

He decided to *use it to change some people's lives while there was still time.*

So he got busy, went out on the streets and started making a difference.

He didn't just give away money, rather *he tried to help people be self-sufficient.*
He paid off all the school fees of some promising young ones to enable them get an education and take care of themselves and their families.

He found some responsible adults and funded them in a business that guaranteed they would be able to take care of their family and create employment.

*He devised a means of helping some of the homeless people get off the street and getting them into a trade for he thought "I wish someone would do this for me when I get back".*
*_In short, while Larry was there, he was busy changing lives..._*

Then after just two months they were suddenly notified that it was time to go back.

They hadn't even finished spending all the money but still had to leave it all.

They both said their goodbyes and headed for the airport.

At the airport they were given their original clothes to put back on before boarding the plane back to their country...

Harry reminisced on the good times he had but wasn't too happy that he was going back to his old life.
How would he readjust to being homeless?

*Larry on the other hand felt good. He came with nothing and is leaving with nothing, but he at least helped others with a chance at life and that alone meant the world to him.*

Readjusting to being a homeless person wouldn't be a problem because he never lived like the wealth was his anyway and always had it at the back of his mind that he would leave it all someday.

But... Little did they know that each moment they spent on vacation was being secretly recorded and they would be rewarded accordingly.

Now, which one do you think would be cast back out to the slums as a homeless person and which one would be entrusted with large sums of wealth and position of authority?

*The same goes with our lives here on earth.*

*We are sent here on a mission and will return empty handed except for the recordings of our dealings here on earth.*

Yet, many of us walk around thinking that the wealth we have is ours to keep forever.
We look at ourselves in the mirror and think that what we see will always be there, forgetting that we are wearing a temporary cloth, a human body, that would be required of us before we leave this world.

Our vacation on earth is but a short time while eternity is forever. How we spend this vacation determines how we get to spend eternity.

So.... HOW ARE YOU LIVING YOUR LIFE? ARE YOU LARRY OR HARRY ???

Have a day of reflection.....

*Stay Safe, Stay Healthy, Stay Blessed*

*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*,
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*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ᴇᴠᴇʀʏᴏɴᴇ ᴡᴀɴᴛᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴄʜɪʟᴅʀᴇɴ. ᴛᴏᴅᴀʏ ᴍᴀɴʏ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ᴀғʀᴀɪᴅ ᴏғ ʜᴀᴠɪɴɢ ᴄʜɪʟᴅʀᴇɴ.
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*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ᴄʜɪʟᴅʀᴇɴ ʀᴇsᴘᴇᴄᴛᴇᴅ ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs. ɴᴏᴡ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴛᴏ ʀᴇsᴘᴇᴄᴛ ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ᴄʜɪʟᴅʀᴇɴ.
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*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴀɢᴇ ᴡᴀs ᴇᴀsʏ ʙᴜᴛ ᴅɪᴠᴏʀᴄᴇ ᴡᴀs ᴅɪғғɪᴄᴜʟᴛ. ɴᴏᴡᴀᴅᴀʏs ɪᴛ ɪs ᴅɪғғɪᴄᴜʟᴛ ᴛᴏ ɢᴇᴛ ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴇᴅ ʙᴜᴛ ᴅɪᴠᴏʀᴄᴇ ɪs sᴏ ᴇᴀsʏ.
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*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ᴡᴇ ɢᴏᴛ ᴛᴏ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ᴀʟʟ ᴛʜᴇ ɴᴇɪɢʜʙᴏʀs. ɴᴏᴡ ᴡᴇ ᴀʀᴇ sᴛʀᴀɴɢᴇʀs ᴛᴏ ᴏᴜʀ ɴᴇɪɢʜʙᴏʀs.
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*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ᴠɪʟʟᴀɢᴇʀs ᴡᴇʀᴇ ғʟᴏᴄᴋɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄɪᴛʏ ᴛᴏ ғɪɴᴅ ᴊᴏʙs. ɴᴏᴡ ᴛʜᴇ ᴛᴏᴡɴ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ғʟᴇᴇɪɴɢ ғʀᴏᴍ ᴛʜᴇ CITY ᴛᴏ ғɪɴᴅ ᴘᴇᴀᴄᴇ.
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*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ᴇᴠᴇʀʏᴏɴᴇ ᴡᴀɴᴛᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ғᴀᴛ ᴛᴏ ʟᴏᴏᴋ ʜᴀᴘᴘʏ ... ɴᴏᴡᴀᴅᴀʏs ᴇᴠᴇʀʏᴏɴᴇ ᴅɪᴇᴛs ᴛᴏ ʟᴏᴏᴋ ʜᴇᴀʟᴛʜʏ.
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*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ʀɪᴄʜ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴘʀᴇᴛᴇɴᴅᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ᴘᴏᴏʀ. ɴᴏᴡ ᴛʜᴇ ᴘᴏᴏʀ ᴀʀᴇ ᴘʀᴇᴛᴇɴᴅɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ʀɪᴄʜ.
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*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ᴏɴʟʏ ᴏɴᴇ ᴘᴇʀsᴏɴ ᴡᴏʀᴋᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡʜᴏʟᴇ ғᴀᴍɪʟʏ. ɴᴏᴡ ᴀʟʟ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴡᴏʀᴋ ᴛᴏ sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛ ᴏɴᴇ ᴄʜɪʟᴅ.
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*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ʟᴏᴠᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ sᴛᴜᴅʏ ᴀɴᴅ ʀᴇᴀᴅ ʙᴏᴏᴋs ... ɴᴏᴡ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴜᴘᴅᴀᴛᴇ ғᴀᴄᴇʙᴏᴏᴋ ᴀɴᴅ ʀᴇᴀᴅ ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ᴡʜᴀᴛsᴀᴘᴘ ᴍᴇssᴀɢᴇs.

*40 YEARS WAS 1980, HOW OLD ARE YOU AND REFLECT ON ALL THE ABOVE REALISTIC FACTS*

*These are hard ғᴀᴄᴛ ғᴏʀ ᴛᴏᴅᴀʏ's ʟɪғᴇ.*

You’ve to admit that this year’s so far been a year where we questioned everything we believed to be “normal”. Perhaps this is what the Almighty Allah wants us to learn; to fully submit to His Decree. All our best laid plans have gone out of the window, a reminder of who’s in charge!
May He continue to guide and direct us aright always. May He ease our affairs and give us the best as we go through this difficult period and ultimately, we pray that He ends this pandemic soon.....Aameen.

Oo Allah grant us relief from every worry:

A way out from every critical situation:

And well-being from every plight.

A morning of blessing to you.

Shortest speech ever on Racism by the former Zimbabwean President ‘Robert Mugabe’

" Racism will never end as long as white cars are still using black tyres. Racism will never end if people still use black to symbolise bad luck and white for peace. Racism will never end if people still wear white clothes to weddings and black clothes to funerals.

Racism will never end as long as those who don't pay their bills are blacklisted not whitelisted. Even when playing snooker, you haven't won until you've sunk the black ball, and the white ball must remain on the table. But I don't care. As long as I'm using white toilet paper to wipe my black ass, I'm happy"..
QED

*Laughter is good medicine *

*WIFE*: honey let's play a game?

*HUSBAND*: ok, what is the game all about

*WIFE*: if I mention a country, you will run to the left side of the room nd touch the wall
And if I mention a bird you will run to the
Right side of the room and touch the wall,if you run to the wrong direction,you will give me all your salary for the month.

*HUSBAND*: ok and if you fail, I will have your salary too right?

*WIFE*: (smile) yes darling

*HUSBAND*: ok(stood up and was ready to run to any direction)

*WIFE*: are u ready.?

*HUSBAND*: yes ready

*WIFE*: Turkey

It has been 4 hours now the husband is still standing at the spot wondering if she meant the country or the bird.

*MORAL LESSON*: after God, fear women!!

Alhamdu'lillaah! For the blessing of Ramadan. May Allaah forgive us our sins and accept all our worship, may He spare our lives to witness many more Ramadan, may He grant us Iman, Taq'wa & Al'Afiyah. Allaahuma Aamiin.
The end of Ramadan doesn't mean the struggle to please Allaah is over. It shouldn't make one stop being fasting only in Ramadan Alhamdulillah 3 days Fasting every month is here again.
Fasting is for Allah he will reward for it.
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
“Fasting three days of each month is fasting for a lifetime, AND ayaam al-beed which are 13th,14th and 15th.”
InshaAllah this month will fall on :

5TH JUNE 2020
6TH JUNE 2020
7TH JUNE 2020

Share the information with friends and family.As prophet said directing someone to a good rewarded equal to the doer of the action. May Allah help us to fast 3 days every month year round.Ameen