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Ausomenest A mother's experience; daughter with autism; difficulties with communication & sensory processing.

"Coach me and I will learn; Challenge me and I will grow; Believe in me and I will win," R.H.

Oral sensitivity ... Elyza has sensory processing challenges when it comes to food. The question is how to get her to ha...
04/10/2026

Oral sensitivity ... Elyza has sensory processing challenges when it comes to food. The question is how to get her to have a balanced diet ... and have a variety of food.
Bananas are definite NOs. So need be creative and get her to eat bananas. What can be crunchy? Crunchy she likes. But not just fried stuff and where we can also have other healthy ingredients in? Gato banane Mauritius style. Crush ripe banana and mix with flour, an egg, milk, and little to no sugar, then deep fry. Added other ingredients to the original recipe to get more and other food into Elyza’s diet.
For Elyza, I first do small bits so they become crunchy, and after she had a few of the crunchy, i give her the actual size gato banane (Mauritian banana fritters) - same taste different (not so crunchy) texture, and she eats :)
Banana eaten checked :) Along with a visit back to her roots in Mauritius. A bit of history lesson:
Gato banane is tied to the colonial history, slavery, and cultural survival of Mauritius. During the era of slavery in Mauritius (under French rule and up until British abolition in 1835), enslaved people were given meager food rations, consisting almost entirely of corn and manioc (cassava). To supplement their diet, they added bananas that they could grow or find for free all over the island. Bananas grows easily in the tropical climate of Mauritius. Mixing overripe bananas with a bit of flour and frying them made nice gato banane that now are nice tea time snacks :)
Gato banane is also one that the "maroons" (enslaved people who bravely escaped into the island's dense forests and mountainous terrains like Le Morne Brabant mountain) would make wirh the many bananas around the island, as it would provided them with the quick energy needed to survive on the run.
The frying technique and the use of bananas is cultural blending ("creolization"), namely the African and Malagasy roots as many enslaved people were brought from Madagascar and west/east Africa, regions where cooking, mashing, and frying bananas or plantains has been a traditional culinary staple for centuries. And the Indian contribution: After slavery was abolished, indentured laborers arrived from India. They integrated into the island's culture and added their own touch to the recipe, sometimes adding cardamom or fennel seeds (gros lani), which made the snack very similar to traditional Indian fritters like gulgula.
Today, the humble gato banane stands as a direct product of this historical melting pot, without any official documentation of such but from what has been passed on over generations to help us understand Mauritius history. Gato banane born from hardship but preserved as a symbol of Mauritian identity.

Yesterday the whole day I was in a haze ... in an off mood ... it was Yesterday 9 years since Trystan (Elyza’s big broth...
19/09/2026

Yesterday the whole day I was in a haze ... in an off mood ... it was Yesterday 9 years since Trystan (Elyza’s big brother passed away) . And after dinner, Elyza came to me gave me a big hug ... out of the blue ... at night, when I put her to bed, she hugged me, gave me a kiss and said "I love you". No words needed with Elyza for her to read me and know when I need a hug and voice out a cute I love you to cheer me up.
Elyza has always have a good 6th sense. She sees and understand things without any words required. Trystan knew Elyza was coming to say hello world even before I knew I was pregnant with Elyza, now Elyza displaying similar sixth sense, makes me make the link back to Trystan. A good link between brother and sister :) A wonderful unspoken brother-sister bond

When your daughter who is with autism spectrum disorder and communication challenges asks you for pizza and you dont hav...
12/09/2026

When your daughter who is with autism spectrum disorder and communication challenges asks you for pizza and you dont have what you need at hand to make pizza, you take bread slices, cut them in bitesizes, mix some mascarpone and tomato sauce, spread it on the bitesize bread pieces, stuff them in the oven, then add torn into bitesizes cheese slices onto each bitesize, and you get crunchy "pizza" to the liking of your daughter who loves crunchy butesize snacks to meet her oral sensory processing challenges.

This morning I started work later than usual so decided to make mushroom, brocoli and cheese omelette. Elyza came to the...
10/09/2026

This morning I started work later than usual so decided to make mushroom, brocoli and cheese omelette. Elyza came to the kitchen as I was making the omelette and said "eggs" and by the time I made my omelette, Elyza had eaten almost all of her 2/3 of their omelette. Thats about 2 eggs, 3/4 of a mushroom, 3 florets of brocoli, and a slice of cheese.
As baby was eating her omelette, Elyza came to take take one of baby's omelette bite, and then another and then another. So maybe next time it will be 3 eggs for her instead of 2. It is a complete meal for Elyza who struggles with food. Omelette used to be in her diet then it was a total no. And now it seems like we are back to it :)

07/09/2026

This morning as we reached school and Elyza saw her teacher, she signed on herself while saying the words "I see slide" then spelled playground on her board with her fridge magnets, and then came to me and took my hands to get me to sign the same words "I see slide" while she would say those 3 words as she made me do the corresponding signs.
I was impressed at her signing and saying and spelling, and thought she was telling her teacher she wanted to go to the playground, it is only around mid day that chatting with another of her teachers telling her about this that I understood what Elyza was actually doing. She was telling her teacher about her weekend, how she has seen a slide on the playground over the weekend.

24/08/2026

PECS to support the learning process. Last night as I was putting elyza to bed, I casually told her "today is Sunday, tomorrow will be?" And after a bit of processing time, she answered "Monday". Not in a song, not sang, not hummed, not drawn, not signed, not using PECS, ... but simply her orally answering my question.
Last year in SFO mornings, het support teacher used visuals to teach her this, and it was in her morning routine to cover today is ... tomorrow will be ... I tried to do it over the holidays, but it did not quite work as i wanted ... and then yesterday for the very first time - without any visual support, she said it !! Elyza interacted with me in a casual conversation, out of her routine, different context to when she would have used it, without support...

22/08/2026

Elyza added some more to her big sister duties for morning drop off. It is not just carrying her baby sister's bag, opening the door to the classroom area, and placing baby's bag on the trolley. It is also taking off baby sister's shoes and jacket off. First time she did it, it was spontaneously on her part without me askign her or directing her to do so ... she naturally went to her baby sister and removed her baby sister's shoes then helped her baby sister to take her jaxket off.

13/08/2026

Big sister happy to be back on the morning big sister duties dropping baby sister at school, leading the way to class, carrying baby sister's bag, accompanying baby sister to school ...

Elyza resuming school for a new academic year has always got me super anxious. This year, for some reasons, it was a dif...
12/08/2026

Elyza resuming school for a new academic year has always got me super anxious. This year, for some reasons, it was a different stress ... one that paralysed me, brain fog, knotted stomach, ... and it took me a good hour to calm down, ... funny thing is that this year I was aware of it all happening to me, as if I was observing myself from outside of my body, analysing and highlighting what was happening to me, shaking myself and trying to snap myself out of it ... all of it the before, the during and the after, even after that hour I mentioned it took me to calm down ... I would say the whole day until the kids been to bed ... I was 'dans un etat second' ... in a daze ... a trance ... spaced out ... weird feeling ... and with the kids to bed this weight, this foggy feeling just went away ... the whole day I was there but not really there ... luckily I have good friends and colleagues who are of great support ... and this I am the most for.
The day went by really well, started really well, and ended with no major issues ... I did not choose to stress out, it just was, but with my feeling towards the whole situation this time, I tell myself I am moving in the right positive direction ... I guess the unconscious stressing out for my big girl will always be there ... but at different degrees ... I just need to learn to auto regulate myself as need be to the best of my capability...

When you leaveyour phone with your daughter.who is with autism and lives editing images, you get the picture of her baby...
09/08/2026

When you leaveyour phone with your daughter.who is with autism and lives editing images, you get the picture of her baby sister edited to match the current holidays status!!
It cracked me up as I open Google fotos and I see this edited picture edited by the one and only Elyza :D
I went to her in her bedroom, showed her the edited picture, told her "good job! High five!" She gave me the high five then swiped the screen to rhe original picture back and forth original to edited, smiled and said "very good". She seemed so of herself and her work, so am I
And good sense of humour, and good creativity going on there :)

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