KUET Whispers

#4538
A mixed signal is a no signal. Stop being played comrades.

~anonymous

#4537
When someone loves you, how important really is physical appearance?

I have had two relationships. Unfortunately, the first person left me because of family pressure and the second time, I was cheated on. After those experiences, I almost gave up on love and relationships altogether.

After that phase of my life, I found a man. we initially met for study purposes. At first, we only talked about our studies, but gradually, we became very close. We started talking and texting almost constantly, watching movies together on Discord, and discovering that we had so much in common.
One day, I jokingly told him that I was inviting you to watch Brand new day with me. I had no idea that he would take it seriously. Two days later, he called me and told me that he was in Dhaka. I was completely shocked because kuet is quite far from Dhaka.
When I met him he gift me a beautiful chocolate box then We watched the movie together and afterward, we went kayaking. While we were in the middle of the lake, he suddenly stopped boat, gave me a bouquet of roses and proposed to me.
I was completely shocked. I didn't even know that he had developed feelings for me to that extent. It felt like one of those dreamy proposals that many girls imagine. My heart was racing, and I didn't know what to say. I simply said him that I really appreciated your feelings but everything had happened so quickly, and I needed some time to think.
When he dropped me home, he stood outside my home until he got his answer. I eventually told him that I have feelings for you too, but I needed some time before entering into a relationship. He understood and respected my need for space. I was quite doubting his feelings so he even told his mother about me and sent me a recording of their conversation.

That was the dreamy part. But now I think I need to look beyond the dream and see the reality.

He is genuinely the kind of person I always wanted. He is humble, caring, understanding and also an intelligent. He studied at ndc and now he is studying eee at kuet. He is also very serious about his career. I admire so many things about him

But there is one thing I can't seem to ignore his height. I'm 5'5" and he is 5'6". I know it may sound silly, and everyone has their own preferences, but I have always imagined that my future husband would be tall. I'm trying to convince myself that when someone truly loves and respects you, physical appearance shouldn't matter that much. But honestly, I can't completely ignore this feeling.
What scares me even more is the possibility that I might convince myself to accept it now, enter into a relationship and then, somewhere in the future, realize that I still want someone taller. What if I eventually find someone who fits that preference better? How could I stop myself from leaving him? I don't want to hurt him or do to him what was done to me.
That's why I'm overthinking everything. I'm afraid that if I enter this relationship without being completely sure about my feelings, I might eventually hurt him, or even cheat, and then one day he might hate me the way I came to hate myself

Idk what should i do???

~anonymous

#4536
কোরিয়ান কস্মেটিক্স ইম্পোর্ট করছি। কিন্তু আমার কোনো নলেজ নাই যে আপুরা কোন কোন প্রোডাক্ট ইউজ করেন, যেহেতু আমার কোনো ফিমেল কানেকশন নেই। আপনারা যদি কমেন্টে, তাহলে সেই প্রোডাক্ট গুলা আমি কোরিয়া থেকে আনতে পারি।

~anonymous

#4535
Replying to #4531

Bruv, pull a break first. No, we didn't go through exact same situation. My situation is way different than yours. I would've never let myself reach your state. I said this before, I'm delusional but not that delusional. He never treated me like his girlfriend. As I said, he has a girlfriend. We just have many common interests. I can't point out the interests because my friends would find out who I am. We are very spontaneous. He is always very him. And I like that him, that's my problem. Not his. There were massive sparks between us for sometime. Maybe because I peaked his interest. Maybe I was a moment of weakness but he never crossed any line. I fell for him and I'm dying. That's on me. I liked guys before but he's the first guy ever to match my energy. We just click. Before him, I didn't even know I could like guys with so many common interests. He checks my every box. We are in the same class. I have to see his face 5 days a week. We have some sort of interaction everyday. I don't have a choice. When I like a guy, it's always very painful. My obsession is like a cul de sac. It doesn't have any route back. But I can't let it go. Before, out of sight, out of mind worked. But with this guy, I can't ever get him out of my head and I tried. As I said before, we have many common interests. I don't even have actively recall him. I see a reel of something I love and he loves as well and boom, my head is full of his thoughts. I have the most amazing girl friends. Just yesterday, I had the most perfect day but at the end of the day, I only have one thing in my mind, what if I had him for a fortnight even. And then the next day, I have to see his face and face the fact that he can never be mine.

~anonymous

#4534
Brothers tmra jara "Mother' department er nah tmra tuition e giye gurdian der nijer department er nam bolba kindly, not your faculty name

~anonymous

#4533
To #4530,

Ever occur to you that a guy might be religious and doesn't want women in his list? :3

~anonymous

#4532
My grandfather's name was found in epstein files.
Being introvert will hinder your ambitions. Clearly state all your goals so that the great murubbis cant tell you otherwise.You have to express what you want even to your parents in order to get what you want. Don't think that this will be so much burden on them. All the resources will be better used by you. If they were so capable they would build generational wealth by now or show potential at least. Grab everything you need by the balls. Don't wait for anyones permission or attention. Be the chaos.
Sorry for the clickbait and late night ranting. I am so agitated by everything and everyone all the time that i cant sleep.

~anonymous

#4531
Replying to 4525,
Gone through the exact same situation, ig. But I hope yours isn’t as bad as mine. He treated me like his gf. He treated me so well that my friends and people around the whole campus thought we were dating. Then, at some point, he thought it was a good idea to inform me that he had a gf.

Anyway, ik it’s hard as hell to move on from this. In my case, at first, I stopped hanging out with him by making up bizarre reasons, then stopped answering his calls and texts as frequently, and ultimately unfriended and unfollowed him everywhere.

And if it’s possible, go to your friends’ or parents’ place for a while, like over the weekend, and try to hang out a lot with your girl friends. Just relax. In a few months, you’ll start making fun of this stupid crush with your friends and siblings.

Tata

~anonymous

#4530
There is a boy I like ], no I should say, now I have started loving him from far. We always have so so little conversations. Oh , he looks like a strict and introvert person. Whatever but the most important thing, he didn't accept my FB friend request though We are in the same department. my poor luck. So so introvert.

~from right infront of the person

#4529
How do y'all survive bad roommates? TT

~anonymous