04/09/2026
You know English too well to remember how strange it once was.
So let me put you back in your child’s seat for a second.
You’re learning to read again, this time in a language that was never yours.
Greek, let’s say. Someone points to a symbol shaped like an upside down U and tells you it makes a sound. Which sound? It just does. Off you go.
That’s the whole explanation. Frustrating, isn’t it?
Now picture doing that all day, every day, then being told you’re behind because it won’t stick.
That’s about the closest most of us will ever get to what reading feels like for a child with dyslexia.
The squiggle and the sound haven’t been connected yet.
For a dyslexic brain, building that connection is so much harder and takes so much longer.
Here’s what I keep running into.
We expect a child to read and spell at a grade 2 level before anyone has made sure they actually know their letters and the sounds those letters can make. Skip that step and of course nothing sticks.
I’m working with a little boy right now, grade 2, who still can’t spell, because he doesn’t know all of his letters yet.
How is he meant to be “at a grade 2 level” when that first gap was never filled? His mum was told he wasn’t behind at all in prep or grade 1. He was.
So we’ve gone right back to the start. We meet him where he actually is, not where the year level says he should be. We find the gaps and fill them one at a time. And it’s clicking now, because it finally makes sense to him.
If this is your child, please hear me. They were never the problem.
👉🏼 Comment WORDS and I’ll help you work out where the gap is and what to do about it. 🐝🤍
Send this to a mum whose clever kid is quietly falling behind 🤍