The Couple’s Coach

14/08/2021

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WoXKMugHc-Q

ITS DATE NIGHT Our first episode we share with you our personal story and journey of relationship struggles - culture clashes, communication breakdown, minds...

05/08/2021

13/07/2021

Exciting content becoming available soon!

04/07/2021

Hello 👋🏽
My name is Codey Haase, father, husband and solution-based relationship coach. I have been coaching for many years and have recently moved my services online.

Why am I so passionate about helping others transform their relationships? Experience and gratitude has lead me to this passion of contribution in this area of life. I’ve been married to my Queen for eleven and a half years and have gone through an incredible journey of hardships, breakthroughs and groundbreaking growth.

I have studied strategic intervention coaching. I am a neuro linguistic practitioner and a neuro-encoding specialist. Above all that, I have been studying the dynamics between man and woman for many years from multiple sources. I am of the opinion that men and women are different. This can mean that men and women will either be adversaries and partners according to how we handle these differences.

Uncover your relationship stressors that can break down your intimacy and connection over time. As a relationship coach, I work with you to focus on many aspects of healthy, passionate relationships, one being communication, as communication is at the centre of all successful relationships.

All of this enables me to help you re-establish effective, positive communication habits and help you discover ways to strengthen your relationship and bond.

Book your free relationship clarity call today!

04/07/2021

People say “Love shouldn’t be this hard. Love should come naturally”. 🤷‍♂️

My response - Why believe that though? Would someone who wants to become the UFC heavy weight champion say “it shouldn’t be THAT hard to knock him out”. 🥊 Or, someone who wants a successful career say “It shouldn’t be THAT hard to climb the corporate ladder”. 💼

Their response - “But this is not UFC or Business, this is love! Love shouldn’t be this hard to build if we are compatible. If we are truly soul mates it should be easy!”

The answer - 👉🏽 NO two people are entirely compatible💥

Nothing is intrinsically one way of another. If we leave it to chance, we may be leaving something on the table.

So the real question is ‘HOW do we become compatible?’

04/07/2021

That’s right 😉
The WAY we attempt to connect with the opposite s*x generally causes a bigger disconnection.

Why? Because as men and women we have different operating systems and therefore connect and communicate differently .

Men and women are NOT versions of each other. We are uniquely different.

Having this simple awareness opens the doors to the POSSIBILITIES and METHODS to connecting with your partner. 👩‍❤️‍👨

🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏼‍♂️Adversaries to Partnerships 👩🏾‍🤝‍👨🏼

🤦🏾‍♀️🤦‍♂️Disconnected to Growing Connections 👩‍❤️‍👨

✅ Making the shift is always your choice

04/07/2021

“We will always carry anger and hurt in our hearts as long as we have expectations of other people and life conditions we can’t control.” TR

FORGIVENESS is really an understanding that the only person you hurt when you’re upset (no matter how justified it may be) is ... yourself.

Even if everything in you wants to blame someone else, consider this 👉🏽 GIVE yourself the gift of FORGIVING your EXPECTATIONS.

Ask yourself:
🤔 What if even the pain and problems had a higher purpose in the growth and evolution of our souls?
🤔 What part of me do I need to forgive?
🤔 What if I allowed myself to feel grace and give grace?
🤔 What expectations of my partner can I then let go of?

Healing starts with you - Forgive your expectations and embrace the grace and the love that’s around you.