31/07/2023
Question posted and answered on Quora:
๐๐ฐ ๐๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ท๐ข๐ฉ'๐ด ๐๐ช๐ต๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ด๐ด๐ฆ๐ด ๐ข๐ค๐ต๐ถ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐บ ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ซ๐ฐ๐บ ๐ฑ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ค๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ค๐ฌ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ'๐ด ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ด? ๐๐ด ๐ช๐ต ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ข๐ต๐ฐ๐ณ๐บ?
Answered by a Jehovah's Witness 31 years in the "Truth".
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The typical family experience of being a Jehovah's Witness on a weekend, kind of goes like this
Itโs Saturday ---------
Your alarm goes off at 8am. Rather than hit the snooze button (because itโs the weekend) you get out of bed, wash, put on a suit (or a conservative dress, if youโre a woman) and drive to another Jehovahโs Witnesses house to โmeet for field serviceโ.
If youโre married, your spouse is there doing the same. If you have children, guess what, they also got up at 8am, put on smart clothes and are there with you. Doesnโt matter if theyโre 12, 5 or even a baby. It doesnโt matter that this is their only opportunity to rest from a week of school.
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แด ษดแดแดแด: Everyone there pretends to really enjoy the Ministry, if you don't, you think you're the only one who doesnโt. Many members who don't enjoy it, end up thinking they aren't doing enough of it, or they donโt have โJehovahโs blessingโ.]
You pair up. You try to make sure youโre paired up with your spouse, or child but โ ah, noโฆ the elder โ๐ต๐ข๐ฌ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅโ (who definitely isnโt a leader, heโs just taking the lead โ totally different thing) pairs you up with the certified crazy that every congregation seems to have. She claims to be one of the anointed and she hears voices. Great! What a test of endurance, or patience!!
So, you strap on your heavy bag of propaganda magazines (๐ธ๐ฉ๐ช๐ค๐ฉ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ๐ฏ'๐ต ๐ฃ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ. ๐๐ต๐ด ๐ซ๐ถ๐ด๐ต ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ข๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐ณ๐ฆ-๐ฉ๐ข๐ด๐ฉ ๐ฐ๐ง "๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ญ๐ฅ" ๐ง๐ฆ๐ข๐ณ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐จ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ, '๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ฃ๐ข๐ฅ ๐ช๐ด ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ญ๐ฅ', '๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ข๐ธ๐ง๐ถ๐ญ ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ' ๐ฐ๐ณ '๐ช๐ด๐ฏ'๐ต ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฏ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐๐ฐ๐ฅ๐บ ๐ธ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ง๐ถ๐ญ'. ๐ ๐ฐ๐ถ'๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ญ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ด๐ช๐ฏ๐ค๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ธ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ฅ๐ช๐ข๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด).
Your children are tired and bored, they wanted to stay home and watch cartoons. You chastise them in case anyone hears. Heaven forbid any other Jehovahโs Witness hears you, or your kids, admitting that itโs boring.
You approach a door, pretend to knock and stand there for about 2 mins, then walk away. Repeat the charade for as long as you can. But unfortunately the crazy person youโve been paired with, actually knocks on the window with her walking stick, peers inside and shouts โI can see you hiding!โ.
The householder comes to the door annoyed. You get told, in no uncertain terms, to go away because itโs Saturday morning and theyโre not interested. The entire group of witnesses working in the street are overjoyed that someone was mean to you !! You all feel justified and that the religion must be true, because you were โ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด๐ฆ๐ค๐ถ๐ต๐ฆ๐ฅโ like Jesus and the Apostles. You of course, don't realise you have been the persecutor and harrasser, of this householder, by disturbing their peace and right to worship who they want.
After an hour of this you finish and go home. Relief. Although you have to do this again tomorrow. And every weekend until Armageddon comes (which has been โ๐ซ๐ถ๐ด๐ต ๐ข๐ณ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ณโ since 1875), or until the day you die (Whichever comes 1st).
Your kids? They donโt get a lie-in. Ever. They have school every day, door knocking Saturday morning, meetings on Sunday morning & yet more door knocking afterwards. Some people have never had a lie in on a weekend until they leave the religion. To those people, theyโre wonderful and a new concept.
Would you enjoy this?
During the long decades in this โreligionโ, some jw only know say, 2 or 3 people out of the โ literally โ hundreds, who actually enjoyed the door to door ministry. Even the pioneers, who devote up to 90 hours a month to it, would say they only do it because they have to.
Only an former-member would say this. No active Jehovahโs Witness would admit to this. Theyโre not allowed to. To admit that would mean โThey aren't doing it enoughโ or Jehovah isnโt blessing them.
Of course - all of this door knocking is โvoluntaryโ (๐ธ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฌ-๐ธ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฌ) and nobody is โcompelledโ or โforcedโ to do it (๐ธ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฌ-๐ธ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฌ). Youโre just expected to fill in a report slip each month informing the leaders of how many hours you spent door knocking. That bit is mandatory.
So, the next time a Jehovahโs Witness calls at your door. Please be kind. Remember that this person doesnโt want to be there either, doesnโt enjoy it and may not even believe it anymore.