12/04/2020
When I asked Alex what his biggest 'aha' moment was after taking Alison Armstrong's Course 🚺UNDERSTANDING WOMEN🚺 he said: "that you're sooo different!!".
He continued by saying "it is IMPOSSIBLE to have a perfect relationship without this understanding. And as a single man it would probably take a lot of guess-work out trying to figure out whether SHE's into a man or not".
And I thought, wow, this is so true.
Alison always says that we as women assume that men are just HAIRY WOMEN who are misbehaving and men think women are just more gentle and more emotional men.
And how true it is. And how much pain, heart-ache and fighting this MISUNDERSTANDING causes...
For example, one of the biggest things men don’t know about women is that we constantly monitor whether we're safe.
There's a little constant whisper within us, asking: "am I safe? Am I loved?"
And we cannot hear the answer to the second Q until we have the answer to the first Q.
It blew even my mind, because it's so true🤯🤯🤯
The experience of not being safe will DISPLACE any experience of love. That means AS A MAN you won’t get the best out of women until they feel safe!!!
That means as a man it can feel so FRUSTRATING to show a woman that's she's loved or that you like her. Because you can have the feeling "no matter what I do, it's never enough..." but it's not because it's not enough, it's because she literally cannot SEE and FEEL it because she feels unsafe in the first place.
I could go on for ages telling you why this knowledge on how different we operate as women and men is so profound and how much easier it'll make any relationships with women, or I can just make you aware that there's NOTHING wrong with either you, nor the women, nor the men, it's just this MISUNDERSTANDING that causes all the pain.
So I rather give you the opportunity to swap Netflix for something that will not just change how you see women and men FOREVER, but which is also so hilariously entertaining that you won't be able to stop watching...so instead of buying tickets to the movies this weekend invest it in Alison's brilliant course UNDERSTANDING WOMEN (you'll thank me later🤗☺️🥳) and there's only 1 day left to save $100 bucks, too: https://bit.ly/UNDERSTANDINGWOMEN100off
And if you one of those people wondering why I'm endorsing her and her course...it's because since I started taking in all her knowledge 3 years ago it changed not just 👉my view on men, from a very unhealthy one tbh to "wow, I had no idea that men are soooo amazing at their core", 👉how I see myself as a woman ("thank God there's nothing wrong with me, I'm just a woman"🤣🤣🤣) and 👉it made our amazing marriage EVEN BETTER and turned it into an unbelievable love-fairytale❤️
P.S. the photo of Alison and Tony 📸 was taken by us, last year at Tony Robbins' exclusive Relationship Event in Maui.