06/06/2026
This week a mum reached out to me about her Grade 12 student interstate who was in crisis; a 'good student' falling apart.
After a 45 minute zoom session, 3 people were feeling better:
- the student; her key takeaway of what she learnt was that this is the brain reacting to stress, not her falling apart. And there are many, many ways to support the brain once you understand that this is biological - this is a point that you can move forward from, instead of falling further and further into the chaos.
- the mum; because as hard as we try, as much as we want to help, as much as we can support and help, they don't always want it. The urge for independence is also biological. I do this for a living, and my daughter doesn't always want to hear it, and even when she does there is still that faint tinge of surprise when she tries a new tool - "Oh mum, that actually worked." Yeh, it does!!!!
- the study coach - me - because there are hundreds of students all around the country feeling like this, and I know I can help.
Overwhelm is real.
Struggling to find motivation is real.
Avoidance because it's all just too much is real.
Did she sign up to work with me? Yes. And I know I can help, with tools, confidence and of course in the end, academic results.
If you have a Grade 12 student who is struggling, please get in touch.