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Vulnerability post incoming...

2 years ago I was that person who'd write a post 17 times just to delete it. Who'd literally feel sick before hitting publish. Who'd watch others in my industry crush it while I stayed hidden behind my laptop screen.

I was making ok $ but was operating at like 20% of my potential because I was terrified of being truly seen. And wasn't really able to get the amount of clients I know needed my support..

Why?

Because somewhere along the way (thanks childhood programming 🙃) I learned that being visible wasnt safe. That rejection would break me. That staying small kept me protected.
( even though im 8ft11)

Then one day I was sitting there watching another 'competitor' land a massive speaking gig (the type I knew I could crush but was too scared to put myself forward for)... and it hit me:

My fear of being seen wasnt just costing me money. It was costing me my purpose. And potentially the help that human that needed my help was missing out on knowing I existed..

Fast forward to now:

Multiple cash positive months
Fully booked with dream clients
Speaking on stages I used to dream of
Showing up daily without the anxiety
Running a business doing what I love & having the freedom I only fu***ng dreamed about literally a couple of years ago

Not sharing this to brag AT ALL (trust me, that old me is cringing even typing this kind of stuff)

But to show u whats possible when u finally rewire those old patterns keeping u stuck and I'm sick of seeing incredible humans with incredible business' not be seen by the humans who need our help

This is exactly why I created my 6 Week Rapid Rewire Program

Its a 1:1 intensive for successful business owners who deep down know their meant for more but something keeps holding them back.

In 6 weeks we literally rewire:

That visibility fear that keeps u stuck
Thhe rejection fear thats blocking ur growth
The overthinking that kills ur momentum
The self doubt that makes u play small

You get:

✓ weekly 1:1 deep dive sessions with me
✓ daily private access to msg me
✓ custom rewiring processes
✓ all the resources u need
✓ emergency support where needed

Only taking 5 people who are actually ready to:

Stop watching others claim their spotlight
Break free from those old patterns
Step into their full power
Make 2025 their breakthrough year

If you're feeling this in ur gut right now

Drop "REWIRE" below or dm me

But only if you're actually ready to stop hiding and start leading.

Cause I'll be honest - seeing u play small hurts my heart. I know that fire inside u. That vision. That potential.

I want more TECHNICIANS out there doing this from their heart and soul..

And another your of hiding behind "not ready yet" isnt just costing you the money you deserve and need to make the real impact this world actually needs..

Its costing you your legacy.

Ps - Maybe dont overthink this one 😉

Also - If you're reading this feeling triggered... thats not random. U know exactly why this landed in ur feed today 💫

Anxiety in business isn't your enemy. It's your body screaming "This matters!" Don't eliminate it..harness it. Make fear your fuel.​❤️‍🔥

The choices you didn't make have shaped your life just as much as the ones you did…

What's your biggest anxiety trigger as a business owner?

Comment below

Now…I hear a lot of people say ‘it’s just a choice’ make the conscious choice.. choose to change.. choose to stop.. etc. I’ve probably said it before too.

But as I continue to be open to always learning, owning my s**t, knowing I’ll probably have changing beliefs and knowledge.. and be willing to be challenged and open to ever changing and diversifying perspectives of our modern world..

Here is my view on that matter now: 👇🏽👇🏽

While personal responsibility and choice do play a role in change, it's overly simplistic and potentially harmful to reduce complex personal challenges to a matter of "just choosing." This approach can lead to feelings of shame and inadequacy in people/clients who are genuinely struggling.

A more compassionate and effective approach would involve:

1. Acknowledging the challenges and complexities of change 🤔

2. Providing education and tools to support the change process🚀

3. Offering empathy and understanding for struggles😮‍💨

4. Helping individuals identify small, achievable steps
🤍

5. Addressing underlying issues that may be hindering progress 🧠

It's important to recognize that change is a process, often involving setbacks and requiring patience, support, and perseverance.

While personal choice is part of the equation, it's far from the whole story.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Would love to hear your thoughts on this one 🫡

Ps. Metaphor: it’s like asking someone to choose a fu***ng charizard when all they have in their pokeballs is a magikarp.. sometimes people don’t have the necessary programming to make the choices needed for true change 👀 🔥

OVERTHINKING...

That word was the bane of my existence for most of my life.. writing and editing text messages over and over worried how the other person would think about it

2 weeks leading up to footy games I'd make myself sick to the point I'd get depressed and then more often than not make up excuses because I couldn't handle the crippling pressure I was putting on myself to perform and play well

The worst ones was always " how am i going to hide my ti***es today" before school.. especially when we had pool days. I can't remember the amount of times I would say I've got an injury or Im sick because the overthinking of worrying about what everyone thinks of my body was horiffic

The stories could go on for fu***ng days.. Anxiety had its grips on me my entire life and to be honest as I wrote that word ' life' it wasn't really a life I got to live when i was younger

Every moment was calculated.. every moment was scruitinised

The feeling of constant pressure on my chest and brain every single day

It's wild to think I'm about to step on stage in front of 100's of grade 7-10 kids in a big school and I dont feel nervous AT ALL

The smile on my face right now knowing how cooked life was before I decided to change it all and learn the tools and tactics I have now to help with this sort of stuff

The smile I have knowing that on Thursday there will be at least 1 or 2 kids that hear my story and then go on and change their lives because they see that it is actually possible to live without that brutal voice that says those things that stop you from truly living

Anyone got any overthinking stories to share in the comments?

7 Brutal Ways Anxiety Might Be Showing Up In Your Life..

The Snake of Self-Doubt: You constantly feel like you're not good enough, no matter how hard you work. It’s that voice hissing in your ear, telling you that you’re a fraud and everyone will figure it out sooner or later.

The Bull of Overwhelm: The weight of your responsibilities feels like a relentless charge—unstoppable and crushing. Every task, every obligation, piles up until you can barely breathe under the pressure.

The Shadow of Fear: Fear wraps around you like a suffocating blanket, making even the simplest decisions feel impossible. You’re haunted by the ‘what ifs’ that keep you from moving forward.

The Fiery Eyes of Perfectionism: You burn yourself out trying to be perfect, obsessing over every detail. The fiery eyes of anxiety never let you rest, convincing you that anything less than perfect is failure.

The Ghost of Social Anxiety: The thought of interacting with others makes you feel invisible or like you just don’t belong. You avoid social situations, haunted by the fear of judgment and rejection.

The Eyes of Paranoia: You’re constantly watching your back, expecting the worst. Whether it’s health, work, or relationships, you’re always convinced something is about to go horribly wrong.

The Skeleton of Relationship Struggles: Anxiety gnaws at your relationships, making you feel like a burden. You pull away from the people who care about you, convinced they’d be better off without you.

I wanted to be able to make this very visual for anyone who might actually be struggling with these to help it sink in. I cannot stress enough how much anxiety destroyed my life and I don't want anyone to be sitting there thinking they ' just have to deal with it'

There is a life where you can actually thrive..

Message me if you'd like some support on it 🤍

Im not here to save you!!

I want to see you become your own TECHNICIAN

I want to give you your own tools, tips and tactics that help you become your own super hero in your own story

I'll stand next to you..i'll support you.. but I wont do it for you

I want you to remember you always had it in you, to remember and see how fu***ng amazing you actually are and always have been.. you're not broken, you dont need fixing

Beneath that stressed out, anxious, hesitant current self.. you have everything you need to succeed

I just want to help show you that so eventually you dont need me anymore.. and who knows, maybe you go on to help others in the same way and we make a big beautiful change in REWIRING this culture of ours

ps. this was the best i could get ai to do, dont judge me haha..im clearly this jacked 💪

What is it that triggers the most stress for you?

"What's one recurring challenge you face in your relationships that you think might be linked to past experiences?"

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