06/01/2026
I have never understood why people think military boot camp is useful in correcting teen behaviour.
Military basic training prepares people to endure hardship, obey commands, and to dehumanise our potential enemies.
While essential in military service, is that what we want in an engaged citizen? Tough, obedient, uncaring? Boot camp trains people for war. We don’t put veterans through boot camp to return them to civilian life. Good training, in the wrong direction.
The change occurred when I had children.
I had already completed Teachers College (English and History!) but I didn’t like classrooms, so opted for professional bushwalking, with a rifle, and 30 soldiers following me out of curiosity.
Children do not respond well to toughness, expectations of obedience, and yet thrive with care. Luckily, my wife has a heart big enough for me to hide behind, and I watched her raise our children, always thinking about my military experience and teacher education
Something was not right.
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