20/08/2026
A shout out to Ellenbrook Secondary College for inviting my colleague Daniel Principe and I to work with Year 9 students again this year.
We’ve had the privilege of working with this school for the past four years, and one thing I particularly appreciate is the way they prioritise the time needed for talking about s*xualised media, po*******hy and so much more! Every time I visit, they set aside two full periods so we’re not trying to squeeze important conversations into a rushed session. That time really matters. It allows us to build rapport, explore the topics properly and have meaningful conversations.
And a very special thank you to the Year 9 girls themselves. You were polite, respectful, engaged and an absolute pleasure to spend time with. Thank you for your willingness to participate and your contributions. It’s always a privilege to work with young people who are insightful and curious. To all the girls who came and spoke with me in the break, thank you. There were moments when we had a good laugh, and there were also experiences shared privately with me that were heartbreaking to hear. They really reinforced for me the importance of comprehensive, inclusive, positive and shame-free relationships and s*xuality education.
At a time when young people are receiving messages about relationships and s*xuality from almost everywhere except trusted and caring adults, I want to acknowledge the world you’re growing up in. Social media, online influencers, personalities, po*******hy and popular culture are shaping you in ways that many of the adults in your life didn’t have to contend with when they were growing up. The sheer volume, accessibility and influence of these messages is something previous generations have never experienced in quite the same way.
Whether relationships and s*xuality are sacred, significant or recreational, they shouldn’t just be free from violence, they should be far from it. You deserve relationships that are safe, respectful, mutual and pleasurable for everyone involved.
Finally, to the group of girls who told me I looked 38, you are the ultimate hype girls!, but please get your eyes checked. 😉