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04/12/2022
08/07/2022

What is Autistic Burnout?

An autistic life is not an easy life. There is the potential for great stress and chronic exhaustion from trying to cope with social and sensory experiences, being misunderstood and criticized, high levels of anxiety and, for many reasons, not feeling in touch with or able to be the authentic self. In addition, there may be self-imposed expectations that are greater than coping mechanisms and abilities. Subsequent stress can build up over time that can lead to autistic burnout, which is characterised by increased social withdrawal, a form of ‘hibernation’ and reduced executive functioning, the frontal lobes are “closed” awaiting recovery.

Signs of Autistic Burnout
The concept of an autistic burnout has come from autobiographies, Internet support groups and clinical experience. The provisional criteria for autistic burnout, according to Higgins et al (2021) are:

1. Significant mental and physical exhaustion
2. Interpersonal withdrawal
3. With one or more of the following:

* Significant reduction in social, occupational, educational, academic, behavioural, or other important areas of functioning
* Confusion, difficulties with executive function and/or dissociative states
* Increased intensity of autistic traits and/or reduced capacity to camouflage/mask autistic characteristics

There can be associated features such as:

* Low self-esteem and not knowing what to do to restore mental energy levels
* Confusion as to whether the signs are indicative of a clinical depression
* Loss of self-care skills and ability to regulate emotions
* Persistent difficulties with daily living skills.

When considering whether someone has autistic burnout, it is important to review the similarities and differences between autistic burnout and depression. In comparison to the signs of depression, in autistic burnout, there is increased sensory sensitivity and the need to isolate in order to recover. The current clinical and experiential wisdom is that autistic burnout is a cause of depression and that the depression is likely to reduce if measures are taken to resolve the causes of autistic burnout.

Although autistic burnouts are not covered in our succeeding as an autistic teen or young adult webcast on 22nd July 2022, we aim to equip participants with specific skills and strategies to make the teenage and young adult years a success, with the hope to reduce burnout or depression in teens. The presenters will focus on a range of areas known to be important to autistic young people including the transition into high school, the learning profile and specific strategies to encourage academic and social success, the management of anxiety, stress, anger and depression, friendships, relationships and sexuality, what to do about bullying, and transition into a career.

Live Webcast, 9.30 – 4.00 pm Australian Eastern Standard Time (AEST – Brisbane)

https://attwoodandgarnettevents.com/.../succeeding-with.../

What You Will Receive:
* Access to the recording for 60 days following the live event
* A Live Chat Room for Q&A with Tony & Michelle throughout the day
* Downloadable Handouts to complement the course
* Certificate of Attendance

This live course counts for 5.5 hours of Continuing Professional Development or Teacher Accreditation hours. (For NSW Teachers: the course may be recorded as an elective PD with NESA).

Does your Child or Adolescent have NDIS Funding?
If you are self-managed or third-party-managed and parent education is in the Plan you can use your NDIS funding to attend this event.

Do You Need a Tax Invoice Receipt for this Event?
Please email us at [email protected] and we will send you one.

** The information in this post is from peer-reviewed research and the perspectives and experiences of many autistic individuals from clinical experience and communications and may not apply to each person.

08/07/2022
08/07/2022

What “I’m Bored” Really Means for Autistic Kids and Teens

The comment “I’m bored” is often said by teenagers in high school, but autistic teens may use this phrase to express a range of thoughts and feelings. A translation of “I’m bored” can be:

I do not have the energy to do this:
In high school, autistic students consume mental energy to process not only the academic curriculum but also the social curriculum as well as manage anxiety and sensory sensitivity. A typical day at high school is mentally exhausting, hence the comment “I’m bored” means “I have no mental energy to process this activity”.

This activity is pointless and irrelevant:
Components of the high school curriculum may not have relevance to modern life or the future of the autistic student. Typical students recognize that the activity is futile but will persevere to comply with the school’s expectations, maintain peer engagement and to pass exams. The autistic student may not follow such conventions and if the activity is perceived as irrelevant, it may well be boring, and the autistic student may repeatedly express their opinion to the teacher.

This activity is too easy for me:
The cognitive profile associated with autism can include abilities in advance of same-age peers. The teacher usually presents the activity based on the average abilities of the students in the class. Thus, the autistic student may have completed the activity in advance of his or her peers and now has nothing to do and is bored.

The teacher is uninspiring:
The style of teaching or personality of the teacher may be uninspiring, or the teacher may be depressed. The lesson is then boring for all students.

I am being treated like an idiot:
Some autistic adolescents may not be successful socially or in school sports. Academic success then becomes important to achieve respect and for self-esteem. Thus, the autistic student often wants to demonstrate intellectual abilities. To say, “I’m bored” may translate to “I cannot demonstrate how smart I am”.

It makes me sound ‘cool’:
One way of achieving social acceptance and inclusion is to imitate peers, especially the ‘cool’ students, who may often say “I’m bored”.

My imagination is more exciting:
In the early grades of school, some autistic children may recognize that he or she is different to their peers, and are often excluded socially. One of the adjustment strategies is to escape into imagination, perhaps as a superhero who has special and valued powers or in an alternative world such as Hogwarts or being with animals. The imaginary world is exciting and with achievements that are elusive in reality. There is a huge contrast between the social and academic classroom and an imaginary world, hence the lesson is boring in comparison to enjoying a vivid imagination.

I cannot understand what the teacher is saying:
Autism can be associated with specific language and learning difficulties, such that the teacher may be talking too fast or using complex language structures for the adolescent to cognitively and linguistically process the information. There may also be difficulty discriminating the teacher’s voice from the voices of nearby children quietly talking to each other, or the teacher may be using idioms and sarcasm that are confusing.

I am feeling depressed:
There is a high level of depression in autistic teenagers. One of the characteristics of depression is anhedonia, an inability to experience pleasure or interest in a formerly pleasurable activity. Favourite subjects such as mathematics, information technology, art or drama are no longer enjoyable due to feeling depressed.

Thus, parents and teachers may need to translate the phrase “I’m bored” as an expression that has many meanings.

We will explore how the teenage years can be stressful and exhausting for many autistic adolescents and young adults in much more depth in Succeeding with Autism in the Teens and as a Young Adult on 22nd July 2022. Live Webcast, 9.30 – 4.00pm Australian Eastern Standard Time (AEST – Brisbane)

https://attwoodandgarnettevents.com/.../succeeding-with.../

What You Will Receive:
* Access to the recording for 60 days following the live event
* A Live Chat Room for Q&A with Tony & Michelle throughout the day
* Downloadable Handouts to complement the course
* Certificate of Attendance

This live course counts for 5.5 hours of Continuing Professional Development or Teacher Accreditation hours. (For NSW Teachers: the course may be recorded as an elective PD with NESA).

Does your Child or Adolescent have NDIS Funding?
If you are self-managed or third-party-managed and parent education is in the Plan you can use your NDIS funding to attend this event.

Do You Need a Tax Invoice Receipt for this Event?
Please email us at [email protected] and we will send you one.

** The information in this post is from peer-reviewed research and the perspectives and experiences of many autistic individuals from clinical experience and communications and may not apply to each person.

10/05/2022

MANAGING STRESS AT SCHOOL - AN AUTISTIC STUDENT WEIGHS IN

This graphic, which we share regularly, is an excerpt from an 'I CAN Profile' that one of our mentees created for all of her Year 7 teachers to support her transition to high school here in Australia.

In addition to identifying her own strengths and interests, this student highlighted the things most likely to stress her out and ways that teachers could make her more comfortable. We love seeing Autistic young people taking steps toward self-advocacy!

To see the full version (de-identified), including text, please click here: https://icannetwork.online/2020/11/10/an-i-can-profile-a-student-driven-strengths-based-tool

09/05/2022

We often hear autistics, parents or loved ones feeling the need to explain or defend their or the autistic person’s behaviours around them. If wearing headphones, engaging on a device, or stimming is needed to help the autistic person cope in society, there should be no need to disclose a diagnosis to others to explain. Although you might sometimes experience some looking or comments, use your energy to enjoy the moment or towards strategies needed for you or your young person.

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