03/06/2026
I was travelling for 15 days in May. And this 10-day trip to Italy has probably been the most memorable trip of my entire life.
Getting unexpectedly engaged in Venice with this wonderful man, I met just 10 days after I arrived 1.5 years ago (Can't believe it's already been 1.5 years since I Im back in Germany!). In Germany, after living abroad for 13 years and trying to find the father of my future children for years and endless disappointing dates.
And I think one of the most special parts about our relationship is, that I would have never thought I'd be as unbelievably amazing and fitting! Honestly, we are so different, and there were many moments within the first 8 months I would have quit easily!
And I can't even tell you how incredibly grateful Im, I did not! Each time when differences and conflicts came up we talked our self trrough. It wasn't always easy, but we somehow did it, and came out of the other side even stronger!
So a friend even mentioned that my story gives hope, and that's so beautiful! I know many single woman in my age who would love to have kids and be in a committed relationship.
And the only thing I really, highly suggest, is not to quit too soon. We are in weird times of
"This is the right one” or
“She is the right one”,
but this framework very much limits something that is even bigger and bolder and people tend to stop dating way too early, as it all needs to be so perfect!
A true, real connection grows over time…. The deeper bonding and more meaningful relationship comes with conflicts and experiences.
And for my spiritual girls, keep in mind. The guy that seems not spiritual, might be the most spiritual and connected one. 💕💫🌅