āOMG, I feel so much calmer now.ā
āI actually feel ready.ā
āI had no idea leg position could change how much space you create for pushing.ā
These were some of the reactions after my last Born Ready workshop.
And this is exactly why I created it.
Not to tell women thereās one ārightā way to give birth.
Not to promise how your birth will look like.
But to help you actually understand what your body is doing.
We look at birth biomechanics, movement, positioning, breathing, pushing, core + pelvic floor. The practical MUST KNOWS to take charge of YOUR birth, instead of handing it over to someone else.
And we donāt just talk about it. We practise it.
Because you donāt need to control your birth. But you should be prepared to participate in it.
Iām away for the next 6 weeks, so the next workshop date isnāt open yet.
Want first access when it is? Gold coast and Online option.
Comment BORN READY and Iāll add you to the waitlist. š¤
Elke Hoenisch Pregnancy Health
Pregnancy Strength & Performance Coach
šŖBuild the body that owns her birth
š„Motherhood without losing yourself
š¤°2 vaginal births. Both on my terms.
DM STRENGTH to start with The 3 Pregnancy Strength Foundations Hi, I am Elke, the coach you call when you want to stay shockingly fit during pregnancy! I once feared pregnancy. Not the baby, but what it might do to my strong, defined body. Then I fell pregnant ... and lost the baby. And everything changed. I knew I wanted motherhood - but not at the cost of losing myself. So I made a decision:
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21/08/2026
This has been sitting with me all week.
I would love ALL women walking into birth understanding their body, knowing their options and knowing they have a role to play.
Because thereās a big difference between making an informed choice and simply going along with what happens next.
Thatās what I want more women thinking about BEFORE theyāre in the birth room.
I went deeper into this on the blog:
When Did We Start Outsourcing Birth?
Comment BIRTH and Iāll send it to you.
Source: AIHW: Australiaās mothers and babies
19/08/2026
I did it again this weekš.
I joined a new gym. New women. New bodies. New comparison points.
And within no time my brain had found something:
My bum isnāt as lifted as hers.
FFS. š
Never mind that Iām strong. That I train consistently. That this body has grown and birthed 2 children. That Iām actually really happy with how my body looks and feels right now.
My brain had already found the next thing to improve. Iāve always been a hyper-achiever. Reach the goal. Find the next one. Improve. Repeat.
And I donāt actually want to lose that part of myself. I love challenge. I love growth. I love seeing what Iām capable of.
But Iām getting much better at catching where the motivation is coming from and if I am going down a rabbit hole that wonāt serve me.
Is it: āIād love to see what I can do next.ā
Or: āWhat I have right now isnāt good enough.ā
Because those are 2 very different places to build from.
Thereās always going to be something I could improve.
But thereās always something I can appreciate right now.
I donāt want to become so obsessed with the next version of myself that I stop appreciating the woman and body I already have.
Once you start catching your inner mean mama, life gets a lot easier (and fun) ladies!ššš„
ā¤ļø
They often tell me the same thing - āāI am feeling constantly behindāā.
No matter if pregnant, early postpartum or already a few years into motherhood - so many women tell me the same thing.
Behind at work.
Behind at home.
Behind with my health. And how my body feels and looks like.
Like youāre failing somewhere no matter how hard you try.
But maybe the problem isnāt you.
The latest National Working Families Report with more than 6200 respondents of working parents found:
⢠74% of women say theyāre stressed.
⢠42% struggle to look after their own physical and mental health while balancing work and family.
⢠Half of working parents say theyāre too physically or emotionally drained after work to fully show up for their family.
That isnāt because women suddenly became less capable.
Itās because weāre trying to do two full-time jobs.
One at work.
One at home.
And somewhere in the middle weāre expected to look after ourselves too.
You donāt need to become more resilient.
You need to understand whatās happening and why itās happening to all of us, when we become mothers.
ā¤ļø Follow if you want to finally understand that everything youāre experiencing is not just in your head. Itās part of the process of becoming a mother and thereās a different way of experiencing it all.
A lighter one, a more peaceful one.
Iād love to show it to you š¤.
I read an article this week about why so many working mothers leave the workforce.
But that wasnāt what stayed with me. I kept thinking about the woman who doesnāt leave. The woman who keeps showing up. Who keeps achieving.
Who keeps telling herself...
āJust get through this next project.ā
āWhen work settles down, Iāll feel better.ā
āWhen the kids are a little older, Iāll feel like myself again.ā
The article talked about the women who leave.
But I wonder how many stay while quietly wondering what happened to the woman they used to be.
Not because theyāve become less capable.
Not because theyāre no longer ambitious.
But because no one prepared them for how much becoming a mother can change the way they see themselves, their work and the life they want to create.
Maybe thatās why so many women think something is wrong with them.
Maybe theyāre trying to solve the wrong problem.
Maybe the goal isnāt to get back to who you were.
Maybe itās to get to know the woman youāre becoming.
30/06/2026
For years, I thought preparing for pregnancy meant staying fit, choosing the right care team and getting ready for birth.
And yes... those things matter. Absolutely.
But after becoming a mum, I realised nobody had prepared me.
Not for the identity shift.
Not for the guilt of wanting time to myself.
Not for the fear of losing the body Iād worked so hard for.
Not for wondering whether Iād still recognise the woman in the mirror.
I had to piece it together myself.
Through my own experience.
Through two pregnancies.
Through two very different births and postpartum journeys.
Through studying pregnancy, birth, strength training and matrescence.
Thatās why I coach differently.
Yes, weāll build the strongest body of your life (get ready for it š„šŖ).
Yes, weāll prepare for birth.
But weāll also prepare for everything that comes after.
Because I refuse to let ambitious women walk into motherhood prepared for the baby...
..but completely unprepared for themselves.
I donāt want you to spend years trying to āfind yourselfā again.
I want you to look back one day and think...
āOMG⦠I thought Iād have to choose.
Instead... I built a life where I didnāt have to.ā
If this is you, welcome to my worldš¤š„šŖ.
And when youāre ready, comment READY and Iāll send you the 3 things I wish someone had been honest enough to tell me before I became a mum.
Most fitness advice for pregnant women is one of two things:
Push through. Or stop completely.
Both are wrong. And both cost you more than you think.
Your body right now is not just something you maintain.
It is the foundation everything else is built on.
Think of your body like like a building.
Youāve already built something strong.
But a cracked foundation doesnāt collapse immediately - it shows up later.
In your recovery. Your energy. Your confidence. Your relationship.
Strong body ā calm nervous system.
Calm nervous system ā self trust.
Self trust ā ripple effect on everything.
In Business. Your Birth. Your Recovery. Your Marriage.
EVERYTHING.
This is not motivation. This is what I build with every woman I work with.
Before she needs it. Not after.
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