06/09/2026
Lately, Iโve been having more headaches, especially since I started studying again.
And it has made me notice something else.
Sometimes I put a lot of pressure on myself to understand everything, remember everything and perform at the level I would like to.
There are moments when I question whether Iโm keeping up intellectually in the way I hoped I would.
๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ก๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐๐ง ๐ข๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ข๐๐งโ๐ญ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฏ๐ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ๐๐๐ฒ?
It has also made me pay more attention to how much the mind can carry without us really noticing.
Too many thoughts.
Too many responsibilities.
Too much pressure to get everything right.
Trying to anticipate every outcome.
Wanting to keep everything under control.
Continuing to push through when perhaps what we really need is a pause.
Of course, headaches can have many physical and medical causes, and persistent or unusual symptoms should always be properly assessed.
But alongside that, there may also be space to gently reflect on what has been happening in our inner world.
Perhaps the question is not only:
โ๐๐ก๐ฒ ๐๐จ๐๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ก๐๐๐ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ซ๐ญ?โ
but also:
โณ ๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฒ?
โณ ๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ง ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ง ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐?
โณ ๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐ฆ ๐ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฒ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐จ ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ฅ?
โณ ๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ก๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐๐ง ๐ข๐ ๐ ๐๐ข๐๐งโ๐ญ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฏ๐ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ๐๐๐ฒ?
Sometimes the body is not asking us to find another answer.
Perhaps it is inviting us to give the mind permission to rest.
Not everything needs to be figured out right now.
Not everything needs to be carried alone.
And perhaps part of caring for ourselves begins with recognising when we have been asking too much of ourselves for too long.
๐๐๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐จ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ ๐๐ง๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐๐จ๐ฐ๐ง ๐๐๐๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ฌ ๐ซ๐๐๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ?