21/09/2024
So many thought I was crazy but my vision was clear. I spoke to the dead and I knew I would have my beautiful home birth experience.
For years I lived in a place of fear, fear of judgment, fear of getting it wrong and not being good enough. This led me down a path of striving and never feeling like I was arriving causing burnout and severe mind chatter.
June 30th 2020 my beautiful nana passed away, I remember all the beautiful things my family was saying about her, the loving, cheeky beautiful women that she was. This made me start wondering, how would I be remembered when I leave this earth? And if today was my last day would I live in regret. You see at this time I still struggled to fully trust myself, living in self doubt and trying to control everything. There were times I felt like something was missing and was living a life of what I felt like I "should" do.
July that year I was in a personal development course that they took us into a meditation to calm the mind, my beautiful nana came through in my vision. She connected with me and started to hold my belly and told me that I was having a baby boy next year.
That Oct we fell pregnant, Jake and I were so happy knowing our lives would be changed forever. Connecting with my belly and baby completely changed my relationship with my body. I fell in love with my body and how powerful we are to create not only life but a complete other organ to support the baby in your body all while keeping you alive also. The more my belly grew the more love I felt for my vessel. This was huge for me as I suffered from body dysmorphia in my adult life.
In December I had a call with a beautiful healer that had just had a homebirth experience and I was in awe of how strong she must have been to do this, not knowing much about this as Australia doesn't encourage this birth. “She asked me why don't you have one?” My response was “ Oh, I can't do that. Maybe for the second child”, she challenged me on that and I started to question why I even said that.
This seed sent me down an empowerment birth quest. I looked into home births, signed up to a course “built to birth, paid for birthing coaches and hired a doula. Very quickly I learnt that society was set up for failure when it came to the birthing mindset and trusting your body for birth.
When I started telling people I was having a home birth I got a lot of resistance. People saying that I was putting myself and my child in danger, that I was crazy and that they were scared for me. This was a challenging time for me as I was still in a mindset of fear of judgment and questioning myself. Of course my main focus was to make sure the baby and myself was safe and that was why I chose a home birth. Statistics show it is safer to have a home birth than in a hospital where interference is encouraged. The most important thing for a mumma is to feel safe for her cervix to soften, for me that was at home.
This experience helped me strengthen my knowing and trust with myself. I had a choice, listen to all the fears around me or feel into my deep trust and knowing in myself. I chose myself and I am so thankful I did.
June 30th 2021, the one year after my nana passed I went into labor. My home birthing experience was the most beautiful experience of my life and my nana was by my side supporting me through this rebirth and transition into motherhood and complete trust in myself and listening to the wisdom of my body.
This experience taught me how much the mind can take over and when we allow yourself to surrender into the body and heart how you can feel so much bliss and abundance. I was able to completely be held by my birthing team and receive all the love in my beautiful home.
Hudson arrived on earthside on the 30th of June 2021 at 6.39am. Hudson means Heart, Mind, Spirit and that birth taught me true power in aligning my heart, mind and spirit. This activation and rebirth is one of the reasons why today I get to help so many women align back to their authentic self and fully trust in themselves, letting go of self doubt, fear and burnout.
Since that day I have built a thriving business helping women connect back with their truth, knowing their power and having the confidence to go after what they truly desire.
I am sharing this because regardless of if you have had a birthing experience or not I believe everyone can relate to a time in their life that they have gone with what society wants us to do, disconnecting from our truth.
I wonder if you can relate to a time when you rejected your intuition or not listen to the wisdom of the body.
I believe that humans have unlimited potential. This is your reminder that you can are the creator, director and writer of your reality. Do you need to rewrite your future?
What is one thing you can do today to help your future self?
Trust, Surrender, Believe
21/08/2024
Achievement without fulfilment is the ultimate failure.
Your life could look amazing from the outside, like everything is in place and that your killing it but you know that's not true, you feel like their is something missing, that you have a higher calling.
When you know what you are here for and step into your soul purpose, step into your power you feel so much fulfillment,
You feel so much freedom
You come home, you remember who you are.
If you feel like you are missing something
If you feel like there is purpose calling you then talk to me, I have the most incredible opportunity for you.
20/08/2024
The reason why you haven't got to the next level of success is because you are trying to be perfect
You share something, it's not perfect so you start questioning yourself, "should I delete it???"
You get worried that people won't get it.
"What if they think I am weak"
That people will assume something it's not.
"What if they think I am a victim"
You start questioning if you said the right thing.
When you reclaim your confidence and trust that everything you say is meant to be heard.
That your message and your voice matters
You will unlock your unwavering confidence, say what you mean and attract that next level of growth within yourself and your business
In my 1.1 experience you are going to go to the next level of success by owning who you are, trusting yourself completely and always know what's right for you.
10/08/2024
Because you didn't want to lose people, you lost yourself in the process....
You became the girl that did everything for everyone else and acted like you didn't need help, " I'm okay".
You became the girl that is undervalued and learned how to tell everyone "I'm fine".
You became the girl that was taught to say something nice or don't say anything at all, so you said nothing at all.
When you can love yourself more than anything, know your worth and say what you want, you will never hold back, you will never feel undervalued and you will never deny what you need.
You are a queen, you are a goddess, you are the women who reclaims her destiny, you just forgot for a moment.
Are you ready to remember this?
If it's a yes, my work is for you 👑🐦🔥
09/08/2024
You are frustrated that you are back here, repeating the same cycle.
You have done so much work on yourself and you are still acting the same way, doing the same things, over and over again.
This frustration causes leaky energy, makes you feel exhausted and puts you into avoidance on dealing with the issue at hand.
It's not about you needing another certification.
It's not about your kids not doing what you said that made you angry.
It's not about that person that didn't buy your product.
It's about you not trusting yourself.
It's about you being so scared to make the wrong decision that you don't make any at all.
You procrastinate and stay in the same story to allow you to stay in this identity that struggles.
When you fully trust yourself, love yourself unconditionally and you ask the question that help you move past the BS story that is keeping you small. That is when you move forward to the queen that you are.
Are you ready to reclaim the queen that you are? If so I have a 1.1 coaching offer that is too good to refuse. Msg me to claim your spot.
03/07/2024
Feeling like you’re not enough? I’ve been there too.
I felt myself struggling to breathe, I felt the cringe about what I said and the inner critic was loud.
Recently I went to Bali on a business retreat and while there I was trying to create some content and speak my truth but felt my inner critic whispering negative thoughts into my ear.
I wanted to go into avoidance, I wanted to put the blanket over my head and not leave my room. I could see the patterns of self sabotage coming through. Because I wasn't the best at it, I felt I needed to give up.
This experience reminded me of how hard we can be on ourselves to get things "right". We have been conditioned to put ourselves down and avoid the uncomfortability. While reflecting and working with thousands of women, I have seen this trait of the wounded feminine play out all the time. We are taught to fear disappointment.. I see so often women will pull back before they see the gold on the other side. Because imagine if we try and really care and still ain't good at it... Ouch
Did you know that Oprah Winfrey was fired from her first tv gig. She was told that she wasn't fit for TV.
Did you know that JK Rowling was rejected by 12 publishers before she launched Harry Potter. The list goes on....
We are human and humans have unlimited potential but so often we stop ourselves from our success and fulfillment.
I realised I needed to take a moment to meditate and sit with myself.
I connected with the parts of myself that I wasn’t accepting. I guided myself through this activation.
After the activation, I felt so much lighter and ready to bring enjoyment into everything that I was doing.
This experience helped me realised I am not alone. There are a lot of women that need to accept themselves fully.
If you relate to this, I have a special gift for you..
I decided to create a guided meditation to guide women through the inner journey to more inner peace, balance, self acceptance and self love.
Comment below the word ACTIVATE and I’ll send you the video for free ❤️👇🏽
04/06/2024
Reclaim Your Divine Feminine Essence
Peel back the protective layers of masculine energy and uncover your true Divine Feminine self.
For too long, you've been conditioned to give endlessly, leading to a body and mind disconnected from the sacred essence within. We live in a world that often values action over intuition, celebrates pushing through over listening to our bodies, and sees vulnerability as weakness.
It’s time to reconnect with your sacred energy and come home to yourself.
Join us on this transformative embodiment retreat to surrender and receive.
We create a safe space where you can fully embrace and embody your Divine Feminine energy.
This journey is not merely about relaxation; it is a profound spiritual awakening. It’s about allowing yourself to feel deeply, heal past wounds, and awaken the ancient wisdom within you.
This Invitation is for You if You:
✨ Desire to surrender and soften into the feminine, releasing control
✨ Seek to release outdated patterns
✨ Aim to develop self-regulation
✨ Want to deepen your connection to spirituality and the divine
✨ Crave connection with like-hearted women, holding sacred space and becoming a life-long soul family
✨ Aspire to develop self-trust and strengthen intuition
Embrace this opportunity to transform and awaken your true self. Join us and step into your divine feminine power.
🙋🏽♀️ And I'll send you more information
Wild love
Tanya Sully Coaching