31/05/2022
Pressfield, S. (2012). The war of art: Break through the blocks and win your inner creative battles.
Gallwey, W. T. (1979). The inner game of tennis. Toronto: Bantam Books.
Podcast - The Tim Ferris’ show, ( #501) Steven Pressfield — How to Overcome Self-Sabotage and Resistance, Routines for Little Successes, and The Hero’s Journey vs. The Artist’s Journey
In the excellent books, The Inner Game of Tennis by Timothy Galway, and Steven Pressfield’s notable work, The War of Art, the idea of Ego is explored. It is well worth reflecting on the role of the Ego in the classroom from the teacher and student perspectives.
The Ego is who you are. It has been built by your experiences, your choices, and your understanding of your role in the world. The Ego is very important as it sets the boundaries for who you are as a person. It knows you, it understands you, it worships you, but like the gods of old, it also sets you in a concrete shell from which it does not want you to leave. The Ego knows that you are good at football but not Math. It knows that you excel at reading but not writing. The Ego is familiar with your experience with your students, but your lack of social skills with your peers. The Ego supports you in knowing who you are and it is a net that you can fall back on when things get too hard.
If ever you feel that there may be more of you, more that you can offer, more interests, abilities, and skills that you can develop. The Ego sends the Resistance. The Resistance, as wonderfully realised in The War of Art, does not want you to leave the shelter, the boundaries, the wall that the Ego has built around you to protect you from yourself. It doesn’t want you to fail, it doesn’t want you to lose, and it doesn’t want you to lose faith in the Ego that has supported you and cared for you for your whole life. The Resistance believes it is there to stop you from being hurt. It’s not. It is there to stop you from leaving the loving embrace of the Ego. Anything you (Ego) can do was because the Ego allowed you to do it. Your (Ego) skillset and determination are what enable you to complete that task. The Resistance is what is stopping you, slowing you down, preventing you from moving forward.
The Self is you without the Ego. As it is described in The Inner Game of Tennis, the body can move and play without the Ego. Sometimes that tennis shot, that golf shot, that speech, that idea, that maths solution was so perfect and fluid that it makes you think, why can’t I do that all the time. Your Ego will not let you, but your Self knows. Your Self has the capacity, the skills, or the interests to try and experience new things. The Self engages in conversations and thinking that can be productive if you can keep the Ego away. The Self wants to learn, develop, make mistakes and recognise potential. The Self is the part of you who can be better and can move to greater heights. The Self is the part of you who tries that new subject with no thoughts about failing or succeeding, but about what can be learned in this situation.
When this happens the Ego sends Resistance in to make sure you stay in your lane. Because if the Ego is threatened then who you are may be subject to change. Who you are may be different from who you were. Who you could be may be different from who you are. What you can do is about to be challenged to what you can do now. The Resistance goes against you, puts obstacles in your way, it screams at you that you are hopeless, that you will fail, that you will not be loved, you will be laughed at, and you will lose your friends and family. It will conjure up images of imagined problems, regrets, and hazards. It will put you in touch with others who have failed, and expose you to what they have lost. The Resistance will demand that you obey the Ego and be subject to its limitations. Consider the demeaning words of Loki that express, in the movie Avengers, the very definition of Ego.
“Is not this simpler? Is this not your natural state? It’s the unspoken truth of humanity that you crave subjugation.
The bright lure of freedom diminishes your life’s joy in a mad scramble for power. For identity.
You were made to be ruled. In the end, you will always kneel.”
Loki (Tom Hiddleston) – Avengers (2012) Walt Disney Studio Motion Pictures
Challenge that thought. Challenge that idea. Be bold and brave as a teacher to be your Self. Encourage your students to be them Self. Don’t allow their life choices, experiences, and expectations to be guided by their Ego. Don’t allow their baggage to bear witness to their potential. Don’t allow their limitations to be set by the Ego that wishes them to be less than, to be smaller than, to be shallow. Get students to trust in their Self, to dive into the waters of learning, and experience the rush of new ideas and thinking. Teachers can also be just as susceptible to the Ego, in fact, one could say more so. They have years of thinking the way they think, and they think that this is the way they think. Where did that thought come from – Ego. They have acted the way they have because that is all they can do – the Ego told them that. They may only be a teacher because that is all they thought they can do – the Ego has set the terms for their life and now we live in that path, that lane. We are directed that way with the Ego setting obstacles to avoid us going down Creative Street, and blocking us from accessing Possibility Avenue. It is only through intentionally exposing ourselves to new ideas that we begin to challenge our Ego, and begin listening to the opportunities that Self wants to show us.
Reading books exposes the Self to different perspectives. It draws out the Resistance into the light to be seen and understood. Reading books allows you to identify the different roles that Ego, Self, and Resistance have played in your life. Listening to the excellent Tim Ferriss podcast, Steven Pressfield — How to Overcome Self-Sabotage and Resistance, Routines for Little Successes, and The Hero’s Journey vs. The Artist’s Journey ( #501) enables you to recognise the different sides of you.
Teachers and students spend their whole school life defending their Ego and listening to Resistance. No one is safe from this, and everybody needs to be directed to see their true Self. Most importantly quality teachers need to resist the Resistance and follow the Self for the most important reason - Students will travel down a path based on the Ego of the teacher:
“I am no good at teaching Maths” – now a whole class of students is not engaged in Maths because of the teacher's Ego.
“I can't teach Science” – the teacher's Ego is now affecting the next generation of potential scientific thinking in students.
"Let's just use worksheets" - fear of student engagement, and the teacher's Resistance, now affect a generation of students from thinking creatively.
To be a quality teacher you need to consider the Ego, the Resistance, and the Self. When you teach, when you plan, and when you live, you will be taking advice from someone. Take care of whose advice you are listening to, and check if they have your best interests at heart.
The War of Art by Steven Pressfield is recommended reading for everyone, but especially teachers. So to the Inner Game of Tennis by Timothy Galway. The lessons that can be drawn from those books in teaching are numerous and important. If you can't find the learning, maybe it is because the Resistance is not allowing you.
Read these books to step up into Quality Teaching.
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