Gary Purdie Coaching

01/04/2022

28/03/2022

I have continued my learning journey over the weekend with a 2 day online event with @ Wild success the energy that these guys bring to an event is unreal. The NLP tools that we learn and get to use and see the impact that they can have in peoples lives are unforgettable.
Something that has come up in discussions that I had on the weekend and lately has been around
!! BOUNDARIES !!
What currently are your boundaries? For yourself and others?
What would you like your boundaries to be?
What boundaries do you need to set for yourself ?
Why don't you set boundaries?
Are you afraid of what others will think? Do you not think that you can stick to them? Do you think that you can [or have to} just give all of the time? I have found in the past people that just keep on giving end up in a place where there is no more to give..

24/03/2022

Not everything is always as it seems and the way that people react to certain things isn’t always about you.

Be kind Be compassionate you never know what someone is going through.

An elderly woman had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole which she carried across her neck.

One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water.

At the end of the long walks from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.

For a full two years this went on daily, with the woman bringing home only one and a half pots of water..

Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments.

But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been made to do.

After two years of what it perceived to be bitter failure, it spoke to the woman one day by the stream.

'I am ashamed of myself, because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your house.'

The old woman smiled, 'Did you notice that there are flowers on your side of the path, but not on the other pot's side?'

'That's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you water them.'

For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the table.

Without you being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty to grace the house.'

Each of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so very interesting and rewarding.

You've just got to take each person for what they are and look for the good in them.

SO, to all of my cracked pot friends, have a great day and remember to smell the flowers on your side of the path! God Bless You all!!!

UKNOWN
Rumi

22/03/2022

⛳️ What is it that you do for you?? ⛳️

The last couple of years I have been lucky enough to take up Golf as my Hobby/Sport, Me time. On Sunday I was able to play in a fun golf day at my local club. The best part was spending time with family and friends who I know are there for me when ever I need. I have two questions for you about this

1: Have you got something for you that makes you feel better
about yourself or things in general?

2: Have you got someone that you can talk to about anything at
anytime?

One thing that I have learnt over the last couple of years is that you need to have at least two people in our lives that we can call on when we get overwhelmed or can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. These are not people that say just toughen up you will be right. Sometimes there is more to it than that!!
I know this from experience. I have been there and now want to help others overcome these feelings and find there

💥 PURPOSE 💥

Would love to hear in the comments below what you do for you?

17/03/2022

So on Wednesday i was fortunate enough to have a session with an amazing coach and she was able to get through some of my blocks and beliefs. Then after i had shared with some of my journey of life she said to me Gary if only you could see what you have just shared from outside looking in you would be blown away!! We then worked out that this is because i judge myself so harshly.
Then i had a session with a client today and exactly the same thing came up. They were judging them self so harshly even though they had achieved so much and overcome some real adversity in their life.
So my question to you is
WHERE ARE YOU JUDGING YOURSELF OR OTHERS THAT
IS HOLDING YOU BACK??

15/03/2022

So today I feel compelled to post this for someone’s benefit. When I set out to do this ride there were a lot of different reasons not too and plenty of reasons to do it. I chose to focus on one thing (20km)and follow that through until finished. Sometimes we focus on too many things and don’t achieve what we set out to do.
If you are struggling to move forward just focus on one thing that you can do or that you know will make a difference 💥💥