10/09/2026
I’ve always been fascinated by the relationship between uke (受け) and tori (取り), a concept which is fundamental to karate-do. More than simply attacker and defender, they form a partnership built on trust, responsibility, control and mutual respect.
A simple explanation is that 受け initiates an attack, while 取り executes a technique with correct distance, timing and control. Both are responsible for each other’s safety and development.
This relationship reflects the bond between Sensei and deshi. The Sensei guides, challenges and corrects; the deshi listens, accepts instruction and embraces the discomfort necessary for growth. Like 受け and 取り, both contribute to the development of the other. The Sensei provides knowledge and direction, while the deshi provides commitment, effort and an openness to learn.
This has, and continues to be, particularly evident in many of the lessons I have received throughout my years of training. At times, instruction may appear to be a stern lesson directed solely at myself. But in reality, I may simply be fulfilling the traditional role of 受け—the person through whom the lesson is being delivered.
I have provided the situation and Hanshi Watanabe provides the lesson. While one student receives the correction, everyone in the dojo has the opportunity to observe, listen and learn. For the deshi, the important question is not, “Why is Sensei correcting them?” but, “What is Sensei teaching through this?” The lesson may be directed at one, but its purpose is to develop all.
Kanji
uke (受け) - receiver, one who receives
tori (取り) - taker, one who executes
