23/08/2026
Your brain is constantly predicting what will happen next.
According to the work of Lisa Feldman Barrett, the brain is not simply reacting to reality in the present moment... it's using past experiences, memories, emotions, and learned patterns to predict what is most likely to happen next.
This is efficient for survival but it also means that if your brain has repeatedly experienced stress, disappointment, rejection, criticism, or overwhelm, it can begin predicting those outcomes automatically, even in situations where they may no longer be accurate.
This is called predictive processing.
Your nervous system and brain are constantly asking:
“What do I expect this moment to mean?”
“What do I predict is about to happen?”
“What should I prepare for?”
Over time, those predictions shape:
• your emotions
• your behaviours
• your stress responses
• your habits
• your sense of possibility
This is why intentionally exposing yourself to small, safe, positive experiences matters. Moments of:
• success
• connection
• calm
• joy
• safety
• self-trust
• support
• follow-through
... experiences that gently challenge the brain’s old expectations and teach it that something different is possible.
Neuroplasticity is not just thinking positively.
It’s repeatedly giving the brain new evidence.
So instead of only rehearsing worst-case scenarios, begin consciously practising:
“What if this goes well?”
“What if I can handle this?”
“What if support, success, or ease is available to me too?”
Your brain learns from what it repeatedly experiences and predicts.
Teach it to expect good things.