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If your gymnast has been in the sport for a few years, you probably already know some of this. But seeing it laid out can still be a surprise.

A few of the numbers from our parent survey:

42% of you said your gymnast has had a significant injury that impacted her training.

65% said she's hit a mental block, fear, or anxiety.

49% said she's felt left out or overlooked on her team at some point.

These aren't a few unlucky families. This is the everyday reality of being a gym parent. The sport asks a lot, and the experiences that go with it can be hard to navigate alone.

We share these numbers not to alarm anyone, but because most parents we talk to sometimes feel like the only one going through it. The data says otherwise.

We're working on resources for each of these areas. Injury prevention. Mental performance support. Team and culture conversations. If you want them as they come, follow along.

Tag a gym parent who needs to feel like they aren't alone in this either.

*Stats from the GO Parent Insights Survey.

She had her kip last term. Now she can't get it.

The slides above are the technical why. This caption is the part nobody writes down: what to actually say to her at home during the regression months. Because the wrong words from a parent can stretch a regression by weeks. The right ones can shorten it.

Phrases that can help:

"It'll come back. Bodies are weird." (Says: I'm not panicking, you don't need to either.)

"I'm proud of you for showing up while it's frustrating." (Names the harder skill, showing up frustrated, over the visible one.)

"Tell me about something else from training today." (Stops the kip from being the only thing she gets asked about.)

Phrases that might hurt, even when well-meant:

"Maybe try harder?" Implies effort is the missing variable. It isn't.

"Are you sure your coach is doing the right drills?" Plants doubt in her relationship with her coach right when she needs it most.

"How was the kip today?" as the first question after pickup. Makes the kip the headline of every training day.

"When [other kid] was your age she had her kip already." Comparisons during regression are devastating.

What's even more important than the words you say: if you look anxious every time she mentions bars, she'll feel anxious every time she touches them. The gymnast who gets it back fastest is often the one who feels least watched.

Send this to a gym mum whose gymnast is struggling to get her kip back (or even to get it for the first time).  She's googling about it tonight, wondering what she can do.  But knowing what not to do is often half the battle.  

What's the one thing you've stopped saying about training? Tell us below.

You can't always see what's happening inside the gym. But your young gymnast spends more hours there than almost anywhere else, so it matters.

Most gymnastics parents wonder at some point: is this the right environment for her? Is what I'm seeing "normal" in competitive gymnastics? How do I know if our club is a good one?

A healthy gymnastics environment isn't perfect. It's transparent, respectful, and athlete-centred. You'll notice it in the small things: how coaches give feedback, how rest is treated, who gets celebrated.

And notice what's missing from this list: medals, levels, scores, who's moving up. That's not an oversight. A club can produce winners and still miss what matters most. The gymnasts who thrive longest are usually the ones in environments that get the culture right first.

If your club has these qualities, that's worth pausing to appreciate. And if you're not sure yet, keep watching, keep asking. Culture in youth gymnastics is built by everyone in the room - coaches, athletes, and gym parents together.

✨ What's something your gym does well? Comment below - and share with a gymnastics family who'd love to read this.