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Living with Joy Empowering women to thrive: 30+ years as a Fitness Professional & specialise in Menopause Coaching

02/09/2026

For midlife women, I love the sit-to-bench exercise because it trains something we actually need in everyday life:

The ability to control your body as you lower down — and then get yourself back up.

Adding a heavy dumbbell makes those legs, glutes and core work harder, helping maintain the muscle and strength that become increasingly important as we age.

It also challenges balance, coordination and control.

And no, you don’t need to start with a heavy weight. Start with your bodyweight, use a higher bench and build from there.

This isn’t about doing exercise because we hate our bodies.

It’s about keeping our bodies strong, capable and independent.

Because I want to be able to get off the toilet, out of a chair, down to the floor and back up again without needing an emergency rescue team.

Train for the life you want to keep living.

01/09/2026

If menopause were a dog, this would be her.

Absolutely feral. No explanation. Just chaos.

You’re worth so much more…
31/08/2026

You’re worth so much more…

30/08/2026

You’d never know from these photos what was happening behind the smile.

I’ve stood in front of rooms full of women, turned the music up, smiled, danced, encouraged, motivated and yelled “one more!” while privately navigating some of the most painful chapters of my life.

Losing close family members.
A relationship ending.
Depression.
Menopause.
And days when simply getting out of bed felt like an achievement.

But I still showed up.

Not because I was always strong.

Sometimes I showed up because teaching was the one place where I could forget…

The music played.
The women moved.
Someone laughed.
Someone smiled back at me.

And for those 45 minutes, I wasn’t the woman carrying all that grief.

I was just me.

I don’t share this for sympathy.

I share it because sometimes we look at someone’s smiling photos and assume they’re doing brilliantly.

We don’t see what they’re carrying.

So if you’re smiling while quietly falling apart...

If you’re showing up while your heart is breaking...

Please know you’re not failing.

You’re human.

And sometimes, simply continuing to put one foot in front of the other is an extraordinary act of strength.

27/08/2026

Squatting on the Bosu helps me train my balance, stability, coordination and proprioception (the body’s ability to know where it is in space).

For midlife women, this becomes increasingly important.

We often focus on maintaining muscle and strength, and rightly so. But being strong is only part of staying capable as we age.

We also want to be able to move confidently, react quickly, recover our balance and stay independent.

Training on an unstable surface like this can challenge those systems in a different way.

It doesn’t replace traditional strength training — I still want to lift heavy and load my bones.

It’s simply another tool in the toolbox.

Because my goal isn’t to look younger.

It’s to keep feeling capable, strong and confident in my body for as long as I possibly can.

It could really take off….. 😂
26/08/2026

It could really take off….. 😂

24/08/2026

I’m in my selective era…

Asking me if I’m irritated will only make me more irritated 😒🤣🤣
23/08/2026

Asking me if I’m irritated will only make me more irritated 😒🤣🤣

22/08/2026

Preach 🙌🏼

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