Annette Baulch

03/12/2023

Gratitude is so overdone these days that I had stopped using it in resistance to this overwhelm. But some inner prompting started me on it again in the simplest way. Every night before I go to sleep, I feel into my heart and bring to my awareness 3 things that I am grateful for that day. They can be large or small- all the family gathering together, taking time for a pleasure practice, moments of connection with my partner, clients hearing the call for my work, going for a walk in my fave piece of bushland, riding my new electric bike, clients getting breakthroughs, picking new roses in the garden, all kinds of things. And I can feel it keeping my heart open at odd moments through the day, effortlessly...you might like to pick up gratitude again and give it a try...

30/11/2023

These are two questions I hear from women all over the place. They’re questions that I used to ask myself. Can it ever be different? Will I ever be met in my pleasure?

I later discovered that these questions were coming from a place in me that was deeply conditioned to accept the way things were, even though I SO longed for them to be different.

They came from the place of belief in me that believed a man’s pleasure was more important than mine.

From the place in me of belief that a MAN was more important than me.

From a place of anxiety in me that believed my own pleasure was “taking too long”.

From a place of shame in me that believed I didn’t have a right to my own pleasure.

From a place of control in me that feared if I did own my pleasure it would mean I was a slut.

From a place of powerlessness in me that believed there was nothing I could do when he was going for his own pleasure.

From a place of fear in me the believed there was nothing I SHOULD do when he was going for his pleasure.

It is important to understand that none of these beliefs or emotions are about us.

Even though they can feel VERY personal.

They come from what society, patriarchy, often family and religion unconsciously make us believe and feel about ourselves.

And the good news is that you have a choice whether to keep taking this on, or not.

You can choose to say NO.

You can choose to listen to the desires of your own body.

You can choose to rebuild the relationship you have with your own body in its natural, free flowing, self loving state.

You can learn to trust this part of you.

And in doing so learn to more deeply trust yourself.

Are you ready?

15/11/2023

Finding it too hard to get in the mood in the bedroom?

If you're looking for some fabulous music to make love to (you remember lo******ng, it was that thing you used to do back when you had a life...) this is it!
Music in the background makes such a difference to the feeling of easing into things, of relaxing. slowing down and warming up.

Over a lifetime of looking for great lo******ng music (yes I know, I've just got a thing about sound) this is the best I have ever come across! It's simple, yet complex, warm and sensual, yet it also invites your monkey mind (the part of you that is doing tmoro's shopping list, worrying about whether you should have done that thing at work today or whether your thighs are too big or mottled to be seen) to slow down, allowing you to get more into your body and start to flow.

I have found I've even started using it when I want to relax, get creative during the day, or just treat yourself, it works then too. Try it for yourself here :https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cx4J_ms_uE8&t=22879s

14/11/2023

The pleasure you are having now comes directly from all the things you were told about it, and all the things you yourself took on about it.

All these bits of knowledge, experiences and things you heard make up not only your beliefs around pleasure, but also your body's responses.

So what might be limiting your body's response might not be your inability to get out of your head or your lover's lack of skill. It might be what you overheard the boys talking about behind the shelter shed when you were twelve. Or what you heard (or didn't hear) your parents doing. Or how you first learned about pleasure. Or when you first saw p**n.

These things are not right or wrong in themselves, it's the impact they have on your body that counts. Do they open you more deeply to pleasure or keep you from it?

12/11/2023

I love this video, it just seemd to pour out of me. If you're an older woman cared of facing her crone years, or even a young woman with this fear, see what I have to say about it, and the benefits here...even better, feel my excitment about it...😁💜

06/11/2023

I've had SO many women say to that when their ssxuality is missing, when their pleasure body is shut down, when they can't connect to this part of themselves they feel like a part of themselves is missing. Not just their ssxual selves, but some deeper part of them. It's like our ssxuality is connected to something more that just our bodies, and our pleasure. What is that something in you?

For me it feels like part of my personality is missing, that I get to play in when I am being ssxual. But it's more than that. It can feel like my power pack inside me is missing. It can even feel like part of my soul is missing.

A deep part of ME. This doesn't me that my ssxuality is all that I am, far from from it. Yet it does remind me how important a part of me it is.

Does this ring true for you too? Or something else?❤

04/11/2023

Making things fun makes them easier. What's your fun go to?

31/10/2023

26/10/2023

Is your G***t missing in action?
Find out why and what you can do about it. - https://mailchi.mp/oztantra.com/is-your-gspot-missing-in-action

20/10/2023

If anyone happens to be in Ballarat tmoro I will be appearing at the Ballarat Body and Soul Holistic expo, and would love to have a chat with you about all things self loving and sensual! And if you're there around 12.30pm you can catch my delicious presentation on learning How to Really Love Yourself. And anyone visisting my stand will get a special Body and Soul discount for my upcoming Discover Your Inner Goddess workshop Oct 28th..❤️

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20/10/2023

Hear me talking about the fabulous yoni egg on this great Australian business site Wands of Lust that sells all things magnificent for yonis! Check it out...and comment YES if you would like to find out more about how to use your yoni egg and I can schedule a workshop! https://www.wandsoflust.com.au/collections/yoni-eggs