Tony Cox - Wellbeing Education Solutions

18/08/2026

I can finally share this.

My book, The Wellbeing Ecosystem: How Thriving Teachers and Students Transform Schools Together, will be released by Amba Press this November and is now available for pre-order.

Seeing the finished cover for the first time was a pretty special moment.

This book has been a long time in the making. Longer than I expected, actually. And writing it made me reflect on my own journey through education more than I thought it would.

I started teaching believing that my wellbeing was mostly my responsibility. Look after yourself. Work hard. Find balance. Be resilient.

Then, like so many teachers, I became so focused on the wellbeing of my students that I stopped paying enough attention to my own.

Later, as a school leader, I came to understand that I also had a responsibility for the wellbeing of the staff I was leading.

Eventually, I reached a point where I was stressed, exhausted and burnt out enough to leave teaching altogether.

At the time, I genuinely thought I might never go back.

Five years later, with renewed health, new qualifications, different experiences and a completely different perspective, I returned to education.

I have never regretted it.

What I came back with was a much clearer understanding of something that now sits at the heart of this book:

Wellbeing in schools cannot be left to individuals to manage on their own.

We cannot keep telling teachers to look after themselves while ignoring the conditions they are working in. We cannot separate teacher wellbeing from student wellbeing. And we cannot expect a few programs, activities or wellbeing days to fix problems that are built into culture, systems and the way schools operate.

Wellbeing needs to be part of how a school works.

That is what The Wellbeing Ecosystem is about.

It brings together much of what I have learned over almost three decades in education - as a teacher, school leader, coach, consultant and wellbeing specialist - including quite a few lessons learned the hard way.

I’m very proud to finally be able to share it.

A huge thank you to Alicia, Brooke and the team at Amba Press, and to Tess McCabe for the cover design.

Pre-orders are now open. I’ll put the link in the comments.

22/06/2026

Teachers spend their days caring for everyone else's wellbeing often at the expense of their own.

I've made a free Wellbeing Assessment Wheel: a 5-minute check-in to honestly see where your energy sits across six parts of your life, plus one small step to take this week.

Free, no login. Drawn from the framework in my upcoming book, "The Wellbeing Ecosystem". Simply visit the website below, click on the tab at the top, "Free Wheel" and voila!

How are you, really?
www.wellbeingeducationsolutions.com.au

25/01/2026

This means a lot to these people who have had to contend with horrific conditions with bushfire and heat so far this year. Get on board!

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24/01/2026

As schools prepare for the start of a new year, staff wellbeing is understandably at the forefront of mind, and so too is the risk of overload.

In my experience, many of the most effective wellbeing supports in schools are the simplest. They’re voluntary, informal, and create regular opportunities for staff to connect as people, not just professionals.

Last year, I piloted a simple staff run/walk club model built around that idea. The focus wasn’t fitness or performance, but connection, movement, and shared experience. The feedback reinforced what many of us already know: when staff have space to connect without pressure, wellbeing improves naturally.

I’m opening this idea up more broadly this year for schools that may find it useful. There’s no urgency and no expectation to act now. If you’re a school leader or wellbeing lead and this resonates, feel free to reach out or simply keep it in mind for later in the term.

Sometimes the simplest structures are the ones that last.

21/12/2025

Over the past two terms I’ve had the privilege of working alongside a school community navigating real complexity, real pressure, and real opportunity for growth.

Without naming names, this has been work at the coalface – supporting teachers to strengthen classroom practice, build confidence in behaviour management, and move from survival mode to intentional, consistent teaching. We’ve focused on clarity: clear expectations, clear routines, clear learning intentions, and calm, predictable responses. When those foundations are in place, everything else lifts.

There have been tangible wins. Improved classroom culture. Greater consistency across staff. Stronger relationships between teachers and students. Leaders stepping forward with more confidence. Difficult conversations handled more professionally. External scrutiny met with assurance rather than anxiety. None of this happens overnight, and none of it happens through glossy programs. It happens through trust, presence, coaching, and doing the hard work together.

What’s stood out most is this: schools don’t need more noise. They need practical support, contextual understanding, and someone who can walk alongside staff without judgement, while still holding the bar high. Capacity building strengthens people and systems from the inside out.

I’m proud of the progress made and grateful for the trust shown. Schools that are willing to reflect honestly, invest in their people, and commit to steady improvement are the schools that ultimately flourish – and where students, teachers and leaders can genuinely thrive.

This is the work. And it matters.













Tony Cox Wellbeing Education Solutions

19/12/2025

Tis the season …

I’ve written before about the need to rest and recover when we can, and the need to stay ahead of that need. Today feels like a good time for a reminder.

We talk a lot about work–life balance, as if work sits on one side of the scales and life on the other. As if the goal is to keep them perfectly even. For most people, that simply isn’t how life works.

Work–life harmony is different. It recognises that work and life are not competing forces. They are intertwined. Some seasons require more energy at work. Other seasons demand more of us personally. Harmony is about alignment, not equality.

Balance suggests a fixed state. Harmony accepts movement. It allows for intensity, recovery, effort, and rest – all at different times. It asks better questions: What do I need right now? What can wait? What will help me sustain this pace long term?

Today is officially day one of a break for me. Not because I’ve collapsed, but because I want to stay well ahead of that point. Rest is not a reward for burnout. It’s a strategy for avoiding it.

If you’re feeling stretched, exhausted, or permanently “on”, maybe the goal isn’t better balance. Maybe it’s better harmony – where work fits into life in a way that supports who you are, not drains you.

Rest when you can. Recover before you must. That’s not weakness. That’s wisdom.

For many, this time of year ‘tis the season for turning work down and life up. Take care of you. Enjoy the break. Be kind to yourself.

Happy holidays, and Merry Christmas to those who celebrate it.

To my amazing clients, family and friends, thank you.

Tony Cox Wellbeing Education Solutions

Tony Cox

26/09/2025

And that’s a wrap! A great ending to a terrific term! Have a safe and happy break everyone! Cheers, Eddie ‘six seven’ Blaze.

17/09/2025

Yesterday I attended a PL conducted by Adam Voigt and his Real Schools team. I drove 6 hours for a 4 hour session. So worth it!

The session covered loads of things and provided heaps of practical, ready to use straight away resources but for me, more importantly focused on culture.

Culture is everything. It’s a combination of values, rituals, beliefs, thoughts, actions & more.

Here’s my take:

Culture is the lifeblood of schools.
It flows through every classroom, corridor, and conversation.

Sometimes it’s positive – uplifting, energising, and uniting. Other times it can be heavy, draining, or divisive. Either way, culture shapes everything.

At the heart of culture is one simple truth: how it feels to be there.
Do people feel safe? Valued? Supported? Inspired? Or do they feel overlooked, judged, and worn down?

A school’s culture isn’t written on the walls or captured in a policy. It’s lived in the everyday moments – how we greet each other, respond under pressure, and celebrate success. It’s how we care. It’s if we care.

The challenge – and the opportunity – for every school community is to shape culture deliberately and positively, so that it becomes the oxygen that allows both people and learning to thrive.

Adam Voigt thank you for your heart, your passion and your commitment to improving education and student outcomes beyond simply grades.

Let’s replace judgement with curiosity, blame with compassion. Yesterday I teared up & that was ok. It was ok to be me. To feel my feels. I wasn’t either less or more because of it. But those around me rose and showed compassion and made it ok. That’s what we need in education.

21/08/2025

Lately I’ve been thinking about problems. Everywhere I look, there appears to be problems. Too much to do, not enough time, poor behavior etc etc. but, what if the problems themselves are not actually the problem??

There is a saying I have tried to live by for many many years. I cant remember where I first came across it, nor have a looked into who is credited for saying it. I simply like it and find it very useful. It helps me often and it goes like this:

“It’s not the problem that is the problem, it is our attitude to the problem that is the problem.”

Working in education means living with challenges. Behaviour issues in the classroom, heavy workloads, staff shortages, policy changes, and shifting expectations – the list is endless. These challenges can drain energy and erode wellbeing if we see them only as obstacles. But the real game-changer isn’t the problem itself. It’s the way we choose to see and respond to it.

The Power of Perspective

When faced with a challenge, it’s easy to slip into a fixed mindset: This is too hard. Nothing will change. That mindset locks us into stress and frustration. A growth mindset, however, asks: What part of this can I influence? What’s one step I can take? It’s not about minimising difficulties – it’s about shifting from reaction to response.

One powerful way to make this shift is by replacing judgement with curiosity. Instead of labelling a student as “difficult,” we can pause and ask, What might be driving this behaviour? What am I not seeing yet? Instead of criticising ourselves with, I can’t do this, we might ask, What support do I need? What could I try differently? Curiosity creates space for understanding, while judgement shuts it down.

Why Attitude Matters for Wellbeing

Our attitude determines whether problems consume us or become opportunities for growth. A judgmental stance narrows our view, while curiosity expands it. In schools, this matters more than ever. Students, colleagues, and communities notice how educators respond to difficulty. When we seek to understand rather than judge, we model empathy, resilience, and problem-solving.

From Surviving to Thriving

Reframing isn’t about toxic positivity or ignoring real barriers. It’s about choosing perspective. For example:
• Instead of, This workload is impossible, try, This workload is heavy – what can I prioritise, and what support can I seek?
• Instead of, This student never listens, try, This student is struggling – what might be happening for them, and what strategy could I try to connect?

These shifts change how problems feel and open pathways to solutions that are more sustainable – and kinder to ourselves and others.

A Practical Challenge

This week, when the inevitable problem arises, pause before reacting. Ask yourself:
• Am I judging, or am I seeking to understand?
• What part of this can I control?
• What is one constructive step I can take right now?
• How can I model calm and curiosity for others?

Problems won’t disappear from education – but how we face them can transform our wellbeing and the wellbeing of those around us.

27/06/2025

Teachers are not okay.

I’ve spent 25 years in education – in classrooms, in leadership, and now working with schools across the country to support real wellbeing change.

Here’s what I know:
Wellbeing can’t just be a poster on the wall or a fruit platter in the staffroom.
It has to be lived. Supported. Protected.

That’s why I help schools build Wellbeing Ecosystems – practical, proven strategies that support educators and lift school culture from the inside out.
• Culture that connects
• Leadership that listens
• Tools that work
• Change that sticks

Because when teachers thrive, schools transform.

If your school is ready to stop surviving and start thriving, I’d love to help.