Co Parenting Support Services

06/11/2024

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22/01/2024

Ooohhh... the value of backing up the other parent is demonstrated well here.
The strength that comes from having 2 parents supporting and standing firm with agreed values & boundaries is so important & makes a HUGE difference in the teen years.


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06/12/2023

08/11/2023

Did you know 90% of the thinking that drives our behaviour comes from our subconscious mind?

Our subconscious mind was formed during our imprint years 0-7yrs old. This is the time when our brain is growing the most and forming majority of neural pathways.

The first way we learn is from copying our caregivers. We mirror the way they talk, relate to others, and behaviour habits. Everything our caregivers do has to be right, because our survival is reliant on it.

If they were wrong our survival would be threatened, and that's scarey!

Teach your kids how to related with males and females through your examples and how you treat them.

You are your child's first love!

23/10/2023

This guy says it real!
Are you making your child a priority, or are you pushing your child aside when a lover comes along?

02/10/2023

So important to have the wisdom of knowing what is age appropriate for our children.

A timely quote from Corrie ten Boom.

“Sex,” I was pretty sure, meant whether you were a boy or girl, and “sin” made Tante Jans very angry, but what the two together meant I could not imagine. And so, seated next to Father in the train compartment, I suddenly asked, “Father, what is sexsin?”
He turned to look at me, as he always did when answering a question, but to my surprise he said nothing. At last he stood up, lifted his traveling case from the rack over our heads, and set it on the floor.
“Will you carry it off the train, Corrie?” he said.
I stood up and tugged at it. It was crammed with the watches and spare parts he had purchased that morning.
“It’s too heavy,” I said.
“Yes,” he said. “And it would be a pretty poor father who would ask his little girl to carry such a load. It’s the same way, Corrie, with knowledge. Some knowledge is too heavy for children. When you are older and stronger you can bear it. For now you must trust me to carry it for you.”
- from The Hiding Place: The Story of Corrie Ten Boom
We are asking our children to carry loads that are way too heavy for them. They should not be forced, as children, to see and feel the world through the lens of adults. Innocence is worth protecting and worth fighting for. We need to do our part as teachers, parents and caregivers to carry certain things for them until they are old enough to bear the load.

24/08/2023

The first way we learn is by copying our care givers around us.

Between 0 & 7 years old our brain is rapidly growing & learning, and copying those around us.

A lot of this learning forms our subconscious mind.

Did you know our behaviour is driven by 10% concious mind, & 90% subconscious (so the thoughts of the mind we're not aware we are having)?

Make sure your imprinting your kids subconscious mind with patterns of healthy love, communication, & behaviour.

21/08/2023

Take time everyday to enter your kids world, rather than expecting them to conform to yours.