06/08/2026
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A parent recently shared that she chose a childcare centre for her daughter because she wanted her "prep ready"- academically ready before she'd even started school.
I understand the fear behind it. But in 20+ years working with young children, the thing that has never determined how a child settles into school isn't whether they knew their letters or could count to 20.
It's whether they could sit with a hard feeling without falling apart. Whether they could ask a friend to play. Whether they felt safe enough in themselves to walk into a room full of strangers and believe they belonged there.
I think of my own daughter, a "younger" child in her year. At her principal meeting before prep, she couldn't yet write her full name. I wasn't worried. I'd spent her early years advocating for play, nature and time outdoors over time at a desk, trusting the academics would come when she was ready.
By week two of school, she was writing her full name. No drilling, no flashcards. It simply arrived, in its own time.
Academic skills can be taught in a classroom in a matter of weeks. Confidence, resilience and connection take years- real relationships, real risk, real play. They take childhood.
So, if you're wondering how to get your child "ready" for school next year: let them play. Let them fall out with a friend and repair it. Let them fail at something small and try again. Let them build the emotional muscle now, while you're right there beside them.
The ABCs will come. They always do.
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