28/01/2016
Wishing everyone a happy and positive beginning to a new school year.
For parents who have children with learning difficulties this can be a very stressful time, as they meet new teachers, or perhaps transition to new schools. So many variables, and for many, some memories of frustration and even anger from past experiences. Parents only want the best opportunities for their children, and often find the school system hard to navigate.
As teachers we need to show care and consideration for parents, and make time to listen to their concerns...not a quick half conversations on the run.
Students may have very mixed emotions...excitement about being back at school, meeting up with friends, discovering their new classroom and the most challenging...who is this person who is going to guide their lives for the next twelve months....?
For students with learning difficulties, new classmates, a different environment, new organisation and routine, even new learning materials....everything is a potential challenge and even a minefield. Do they need to develop strategies to' cover up' the fact that they don't know where to start, can't remember the instructions, don't know the other kids well enough to ask for help.....this is where the anxieties and memories of past failures all keep flooding back.
For parents who know their children will struggle...do they bounce into the classroom and try to let the teacher know about their children, do they sit back and just wait?
There are helpful places out there...websites such as Understood and Sue Larkey (autism) are written for parents. On Facebook check out Dyslexia Victoria and related sites.
When you are ready, make an appointment with your teacher and or learning community leader to share your concerns in a positive and proactive way...to make a learning plan for your child.
If the school is unwilling, you may need extra support from a learning specialist. You can access Learning Difficulties Australia for lists of consultants who can help you, and here in the Geelong area we have a group of Special Education Consultants affiliated with LDA.
There is always help out there, never feel you are the only parent battling for the best learning for your child, whether they are at primary or secondary school, or you are homeschooling.