30/12/2024
**New Year, New You!**
Who’s holding you back? Are you stuck in the past while trying to envision a brighter future?
Throughout our lives, people come and go for various reasons. Some departures are necessary for our growth and healing, while others may be forced upon us by circumstances like death or relocation. Regardless of the reason, these separations often leave behind lingering negative emotions that can last for years, even decades. But I’m here to tell you that it’s possible to release the negative impact and beliefs tied to those experiences.
Let me share a personal story about a powerful negative clearing I underwent.
For years, I endured verbal abuse, belittlement, and even hostility that drove me out of my own town. I received letters—five to six pages long—filled with hateful words and lies crafted to fit someone else's narrative. I cut off all communication—phone numbers, social media, everything.
Then came the devastating loss of my mum, which reignited the turmoil. Lies spread like wildfire, turning my family against me and dragging my business through the mud on social media. Fake accounts were created to stir trouble, targeting my son and daughter when I wasn’t around.
The emotional toll was immense, and I had been trying to cut ties with this negativity for years.
During my NLP training, I learned about negative emotional clearings, including those related to people. It was a confronting process, but I realized these individuals were keeping me anchored in the past through their ongoing abuse. The clearing session lasted 1.5 hours, and let’s be honest—I had years of emotional baggage to release. But I did it.
After returning from training, I found myself in the same room as one of those individuals. Normally, anxiety would build up, forcing me to leave to escape the tension. This time, while making coffee in the kitchen with my husky, Lady, at my feet, the person walked in. To my surprise, I felt nothing. Lady didn’t even acknowledge their presence; it was as if a thick pane of glass had come between us. I was finally free from the negativity that had once held me captive.
In years, I had never felt such a profound sense of liberation. I no longer felt the urge to communicate or even acknowledge them.
Though they still try to play their games through mutual acquaintances, their attempts no longer affect me. In fact, it’s exhilarating to know that I occupy so much of their thoughts, while they don’t even cross my mind.
Imagine if you could erase the pain caused by ex-partners, family members, friends anyone who has hurt you, simply by rewiring your mindset.
If you’re ready to leave the past behind and step into a brighter future, send me a message. Let’s embark on this transformative journey together!
We only need to be with the ones that show the same love we give.
Family or not, we have a choice how we want to be treated if it’s not How we want we can simply just walk away!
