02/10/2026
“CAN I PLAY?” — THREE LITTLE WORDS THAT CAN FEEL VERY BIG.
Joining play is something adults can easily take for granted.
But for a young child, there is actually so much happening in that one tiny moment.
They have to notice what other children are doing.
Manage the excitement of wanting to jump straight in.
Find the words to ask.
Wait for an answer.
And sometimes… cope with an answer they didn’t want.
So we created Can I Play? — A story about playing with others.
Set right here in our Loose Parts area, the story follows Monty as his excitement gets ahead of him. He wants to be part of the play so much that he rushes in — and things don't quite go to plan.
But instead of making Monty “naughty”, forcing the other children to include him, or solving the problem for him, we help him learn what he can do next.
Pause. Look. Ask. Wait.
And perhaps most importantly, learn that asking “Can I play?” doesn't guarantee a yes.
Sometimes the answer might be “not right now.”
And that's okay too.
Because learning how to play with others isn't just about sharing and taking turns. It's learning about boundaries, communication, disappointment, repair, belonging and having the confidence to try again.
This little book will sit alongside our Can I Play? song, giving our children the same simple language they can actually use in the moments that matter:
“Can I play?”
Three little words.
A very big piece of learning. 🌿
Created by our team and the students of Children’s House 2.
Another little piece of The Hills Way. ❤️
PS You can listen to the Can I Play? song here >> https://suno.com/s/tu5vaeHuRINbya6A