05/01/2026
There are moments as parents when we look at our child and think:
I don’t understand what’s happening.
Why is this so hard?
What am I doing wrong?
The behaviour feels big.
The reactions feel intense.
And nothing you try seems to work the way it’s “supposed” to.
You read the advice.
You try to stay calm.
You tell yourself to be patient.
And then one moment tips you over —
and suddenly you’re raising your voice, feeling flooded, or fighting back tears.
Afterwards comes the guilt.
The replaying.
The wondering if you’re damaging them.
The fear that you should be able to handle this better by now.
Please know this:
When children’s behaviour feels confusing or overwhelming, it’s not a sign that you’re failing.
Behaviour is communication — especially when children don’t yet have the words, regulation, or skills to tell us what they need.
What looks like defiance is often distress.
What looks like overreaction is often overwhelm.
What looks like “attention-seeking” is often a bid for safety and connection.
And when we don’t understand what’s underneath, our own nervous systems react.
We go into problem-solving mode.
Or control mode.
Or shutdown.
Not because we don’t love our children —
but because we’re overwhelmed too.
Parenting was never meant to be done from a place of constant self-control.
It was meant to be done with support, understanding, and space to regulate — for both children and adults.
If you’ve ever felt lost in your child’s behaviour…
If you’ve ever blamed yourself or felt ashamed of your reactions…
If you’ve ever wondered why staying calm feels impossible some days…
You are not alone.
And you are not broken.
Understanding behaviour starts with understanding nervous systems — theirs and yours.
When we shift from “How do I stop this behaviour?”
to “What is my child telling me right now?”
Everything changes.
At I AM Education, we believe behaviour is not something to be fixed —
it’s something to be understood.
And parents deserve that understanding too.
15/10/2024
I AM Education website is now live!!!
I AM Education
We partner with educators and parents to cultivate environments where every child can be their authentic selves and thrive.
26/09/2024
The Happiness Code: Your Blueprint for Lasting Joy ✨
Stop chasing happiness, and start living it – TODAY! 🧠💫
Join me for a FREE one-day event where you’ll uncover how to break free from the endless pursuit of happiness and discover the secrets to having it right now!
🚀 What you’ll get:
✅ Live coaching to help you tap into true joy
✅ A powerful Breathwork session to reset your nervous system
✅ Interactive activities that will leave you with your very own I AM Energetic Blueprint – a powerful tool for living a life filled with happiness and set you on the way to designing your ULTIMATE life!
💥 You’ll walk away with practical tools to transform your mindset, unlock your energetic potential, and finally start living the life you deserve.
🗓️ Date: Saturday 26th October 2024
⏰ Time: 9am to 5pm
📍 Location: The Alexandra Hills Hotel, Finucane Road, Alexandra Hills QLD
🔑 Don’t miss this chance to tap into happiness NOW! Spaces are limited – secure your spot today! 💥
👉 Click the link to register:
If so this FREE event is for you... secure your spot here >> https://www.lifebyeight.com/blank-page-a85c361b-9fb8-4dd5-9187-cd7e86fdf1cc
23/09/2024
For those of you on the Sunshine Coast... we will be at Goodlife Caloundra on Friday for our three hour New You event!
Free for Goodlife Members and $17 for the public! You can get your ticket here >>
LB8 X GOODLIFE CALOUNDRA
Join the Life By Eight team for an EPIC 3 hour workshop!
18/09/2024
First video podcast for I AM Education... Jason Alexander speaks into the I AM Behaviour Blueprint >> https://youtu.be/iC7Qm3DJNiI
09/09/2024
This Saturday - join us Life By Eight for our signature New You Event at Goodlife Health Clubs Alexandra Hills
3 Hours of transformation - Connection, Breathwork and optional Ice Bath... We have had over 2000 people complete this event now and its changing lives in less than 180 minutes!!!
Thanks to Goodlife Health Clubs Australia this event is only $17 for the public and FREE for all Goodlife Members nationally!
Get your ticket here >> https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/1003323486557?aff=oddtdtcreator
04/09/2024
AN OPEN LETTER TO EARLY CHILDHOOD EDUCATORS
Today is Early Educators Day and its just one day of acknowledgement for the hundreds of days a year you dedicate to raising the next generation.
As a mother, as an employer, and as a friend I want you all to know that I see you.
I see the importance of the work you do. I see the moments where you have to hold your breath when you change a nappy, and when you have to follow a multi-step process to wipe a nose. I just wish society saw more than this.
I see the moments you have to share your lap with three children at the same time and meet all of their different needs at the same time. I see you juggle the expectations of parents, your team and of your boss whilst trying to remind yourself why you do this work day in day out.
I see the little eyes who look at you for comfort when they are sad, and who hold you tighter when they are scared or when you are reassuring them that their loved ones will be back to get them.
I see how you make them laugh and how they make you smile. How you show them everything you know and create opportunities for them to discover life's secrets and then when they run to you to teach you what you already know - you pretend its the first time you've ever heard it!
I see the struggle you have to make sure you have enough energy and love to go home to your own family and children. And I see the days where you realise you are living your purpose - you are doing what you are meant to and you love every moment.
Keep doing what you are doing. Keep changing the world - one day at a time. One family at a time. One moment at a time.
One day soon the whole of society will realise - you can change the world with how you change a nappy.
Thank you for the impact you have on humanity. Thank you for what you do.
02/09/2024
If you are a parent/ leader/ coach/ educator/ speech or occupational therapist / personal trainer / self-employed - this training is for you!
Imagine being able to make sense of language patterns, to 'read between the lines', to not get scammed/f'd over when being sold to...and when you are selling yourself.
Imagine being able to ask better questions, to understand Values Levels and how it can transform your life plus have your own 'Mary Poppins bag' of resources/processes and techniques that can help you lead people (and yourself) in a more engaging, simpler way that benefits everyone.
With online pre-learning modules PLUS 4 EPIC DAYS in person - this is incredible value which includes food and accomodation.
Join me for this life changing training and receive Certification as a Practitioner and Coach of NLP (Neuro-Linguistics Programming).
Your words create your reality - learn how to have more impact with how you communicate!
https://www.lifebyeight.com/pl/2148511088
22/08/2024
If I could do anything else in the world would I? Honestly - no. Right now I feel the most aligned in my life than I ever have. The creation and ideation that started 12 years ago and my WHY has progressed and grown in unexpected ways and exactly the way its meant to be.
Coaching people - actually coaching humans for the person they want to be/become has had ripple effects on others more than I could have imagined.
I AM Montessori Life By Eight and I AM Education are all part of the bigger vision - even the art I create is.
I love humanity. I love all parts of the rollercoaster ride - even in the darkest scariest moments - I embrace. I face the darkness. I run towards the storm rather than away. It has been humbling, it has been powerful and I am grateful for the experiences.
Where there is light - there is dark. Without the hardest days, we cannot know the extraordinary ones.
I promise that whatever is happening for you at the moment - there is a way towards the light. And that faith and hope and grit and resilience - its there within you. Sometimes we just need to ask for help.
If you cannot see that light right now - reach out to someone you trust, reach out to me if you need - when we ask for help you may be surprised how many people are willing to give you their light so you can find yours again.
You will not be given anything you cannot handle. The rebuild can feel impossible. And yet - how many times have we rebuilt our world? Humanity is designed to build. We are not designed to do it on our own x
If you need help to find your light - please know I am here for you. And my batteries are charged and my torch is ready. Youve got this x
19/08/2024
EARLY CHILDHOOD TEACHER - We are looking for someone to join our team at The Hills Montessori :D
If you or someone you know would love to join our amazing team and small centre located in Alexandra Hills then please share with them :D
You can apply here on Seek at https://www.seek.com.au/job/78196456?ref=hirer-success-posting&_gl=1*1ffp1fh*_gcl_au*MjExNzAyMDQ2Ni4xNzI0MDMzOTM1*_ga*MjA0Mjk5OTUyOS4xNzI0MDMzOTM1*_ga_JYC9JXRYWC*MTcyNDAzMzkzNS4xLjEuMTcyNDAzNDM0Mi42MC4wLjA.
09/08/2024
Reach Your Full Potential with Dual Certification!
Ready to take your personal and professional growth to the next level? We’re thrilled to announce a unique opportunity to join our NLP Practitioner Certification + Nervous System Practitioner Certification training at Life By Eight!
This comprehensive training is designed to empower you with transformative skills that can change your life and the lives of others.
Why This Training?
🔹 Dual Certification: Master the art of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and gain in-depth knowledge of Nervous System Regulation. 5 powerful certifications in one life-changing program.
NLP Practitioner Certification
NLP Coaching Certification
Breathwork Facilitator Certification
Cold Exposure Certification
Nervous System Practitioner Certification
🔹 Immersive 7-Day In Person Training: Join us on the stunning Coochiemudlo Island for an all-inclusive 7-day retreat. Enjoy a serene environment with food and accommodation included.
This is your chance to step away from the daily grind and fully immerse yourself in learning and self-discovery. And the group is a maximum of 14 people which means the amount of time you get dedicated to your questions, 1:1 with the facilitator and your own breakthroughs is more than anywhere else in Australia!
🔹 Comprehensive Support: Your journey begins with pre-learning materials to prepare you before the in person training, and continues with ongoing online coaching. After the in-person training, you'll receive continuous support and mentorship to ensure your success.
🔹 Huge Introductory Investment Offer: All this for just $4990 — a special offer that includes everything from training, accommodation, meals, pre-learning, and ongoing mentorship.
It's an incredible investment in your future.
Limited Spots Available!
Don’t miss out on this chance to transform your life and career. Whether you're looking to deepen your practice, start a new career, or simply evolve on a personal level, this dual certification program is for you.
Secure Your Spot Today!
📅 Dates: December 2024, February 2024, May 2025, August 2025, November 2025 (dates in image below)
📍 Location: Coochiemudlo Island, Queensland
Learn more and register now! Let’s embark on this transformative journey together! 🌱
https://www.lifebyeight.com/sales-page-6d8c6edc-a837-49cc-a408-bf6323de620e
16/07/2024
I AM
..the two most powerful words in the English language...