Modern Intimacy Education

If you are treating others really well, please remind yourself to treat yourself the same 🤍

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2000’s nostalgia has me thinking 🤍

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By being intentional about who we let into our lives, we create space for healthier, more fulfilling connections. Remember, your emotional safety is invaluable 🤍

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My workbook is available to borrow at Shine SA and loved going into visit the library last week to actually borrow a few books myself ( pictured in the post of some books that caught my eye) . I loved that recently my workbook had been borrowed by someone and that was so lovely hear 🥰 & I hope that they got something out of it 🤍

I can’t believe how amazing this library is. It is free to join and sign up and borrow books but you do need a membership to borrow any other resources like V***a models/or games etc

There are so many great books on all topics to do with s*xual health and relationships. This is the only library of its kind in SA. It is part of the Shine SA s*xual health clinic & is open from Monday - Thursday until 2:15pm!

It’s such a cute space and anyone can go and have a look, you don’t just have to be an educator or clinician. 🤍


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***IN PERSON WORKSHOP ADELAIDE*** All about Dating and S*xual Wellness and of course Safety!! 🤍

I have decided to see if there is any interest out there for people to attend a dating and s*xual wellness workshop. As I absolutely love group work 😍This workshop is designed to provide a safe space for open discussions and learning about important aspects of dating and s*xual wellness.

What to expect:
The 3 hour interactive session will foucs on the following:

-Setting realistic expectations for future connections by dispelling common dating myths.
-Assessing your readiness for dating and identify areas for personal growth.
-Learn practical tips for recognizing red flags and setting boundaries in the dating world.
-Discover strategies to understand your desires and avoid being misled by unrealistic portrayals on social media.
-Understanding S*xual Health and Intimacy
-Gain a deeper understanding of s*xual health, including contraception, consent, and STI prevention.
-Enhance your communication skills and emotional safety to express boundaries, desires, and concerns in intimate relationships.
-Explore safer s*x practices and learn how to access s*xual health resources.
-Engage in an open Q&A session to address any questions or concerns you may have.

Head to the LINK in my BIO to see more information & do not hesitate to reach out to me for any questions related to the workshop.
With love GA 🤍

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Can’t wait! 🙌🙌🤍

I am lucky enough to be joined tonight by Greer to have a candid chat about all things emotional safety in intimacy & s*xual encounters as well as chat about Greer's GLORIOUS interactive workbook that she has created!

Join us - we are so excited! Live at 7pm (ACST) via my Instagram page The Alice Green Project

We hope to see you there xx

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Was a guest on ONNA Lifestyles Blog! Talking about my workbook and my thoughts on Emotional Safety! Also a free chapter of my workbook available to read! 🤍

Emotional Safety and S*x with Greer Alexandra Greer Alexandra is a qualified trauma-informed counsellor, mental health educator and founder of Modern Intimacy Education based in Adelaide, South Australia. Greer brings a therapeutic approach to s*x education by bringing awareness to the importance of Emotional Safety. TELL US ABOUT YOURSELF AND....

✿ Be Mindful ✿

Hi there,

I have been a bit quiet on social media, have been studying which has kept me quite busy as of late!

In between studying, I have actually been reading a lot about the harms of the therapy/coaching world online. I have been aware of this for a while but wasn't sure how to articulate it in my mind. I wanted to do a post to highlight a few ways to be mindful which I felt would have helped me when I was on a search for a professional to work with.

Please also see below, some great accounts that I have been following that have opened up my mind even more and thankful I have come across their content.

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You may not resonate with every post on these accounts and that is okay but I do believe that they are helpful and will open your eyes.

I am aware I teach in a space where it is important that qualifications/trust/being trauma informed is absolutely crucial and I don't take that lightly.

Love to hear your thoughts!

With love, GA xo

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✿ Repost ✿

Important Reminder

With love, GA xo

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✿ Boundaries ✿

Sometimes, you will be on the receiving end of a partner setting a s*xual boundary, this is a snippet of the Boundary chapter in the S*x & Emotional Safety Workbook.

It is important that you understand and give them the same respect and care you are after. You both deserve the same care and respect.

Emotionally Safe ways to respond:

• Validate and acknowledge the other person’s feelings even if you disagree.

• Be compassionate and respectful, but know that Emotional Safety comes first.

• Ask and ask again (if needed) what your partner’s boundaries and expectations are.

• Don’t intentionally test or push the other person’s boundaries.

Respect is the foundation of boundary setting; however, you need to understand that people put up boundaries for diverse reasons.

Your partner may not always go into detail about why they set a particular boundary or why they aren’t ready for a specific s*xual act, but their boundaries exist for a reason. Respect your partner’s boundaries as you would your own.

With Love, GA xo

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✿ S3x and Yolo don’t go together ✿

I am currently rolling my eyes and thinking the time, a man I met on a night out used the phrase “You only live once, don’t you want to have fun and let your hair down?!” When I told him 2 times already I didn’t want to be s3xual with him!

To be honest, saying No two times was exhausting enough and then having to say it a third time was very frustrating but I think what was the strangest thing to me, was the "You only live once" comment.

S3x/intimacy should not have to feel like a bargain deal or that you are trying to be convinced, persuaded, manipulated into being s3xual with someone. If the connection does not feel right, it just doesn't feel right.

I know, It’s not always easy saying no, and also feel like you have to justify yourself and seem “less fun” for not “having s*x” "letting your hair down" .

This is where I feel our modern society can be disconnected from intimacy and puts sometimes too much emphasis at times on being “s*xual” “up for it” “down for it” “not vanilla” instead of “ready” “respected” “real connection” “feeling connected”
it’s important to really see the differences of expectations here!

The real point is, I don’t believe the Yolo phrase is the right way to go about initiating s3x with another, at least a healthy respectful s*xual encounter.

Now , I have learnt when I am faced with a phrase that makes me feel less then, manipulated, not fun enough or just not good about saying no!

I would now Say “Yes it’s true I do only live once and that’s why I want to make sure I am making the right decisions for myself”

With Love, GA xo

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