01/10/2021
Based on our genetic makeup and vulnerability to anxiety, the build up of stress from any of these four areas, physical, biochemical, social and psychological, can accumulate until we feel anxiety. Once we experience anxiety, we either recognise and address it, or it builds and builds until eventually we have anxiety or panic attacks, get overwhelmed and eventually feel the despair of burnout or depression.
I use two conceptual models that give a cognitive understanding of what might be happening. These maps are both informative, and over time, allow the mind to settle enough to start to meditate and build greater ongoing calm, stability of mind and resilience.
THE FIRST MODEL shows the four main areas that can cause stress.
Physical – Health problems, exercise, sleep
Biochemical – Brain chemistry, hormones, toxins, substance abuse
Social – Relationships, work, finances, leisure, domestic life
Psychological – Personality, self talk, emotions, identity, beliefs, values, passions, purpose, character.
THE SECOND MODEL comes from the Eastern traditions and is about the Two Truths.
Absolute truth – ultimate picture – wisdom
Relative truth – mundane world – compassion
It is about recognising that we see things in different ways at different times. In moments of clarity we recognise that all is well, that people are as they are, that we are as we are, that unpleasant moments pass, and pleasant moments pass. And we are calm and clear.
Meditation will often calm us and allow us to regain perspective (clarity and wisdom) sometimes it is kind and wise to also give the mind information to hold on to, to understand and trust before it lets itself rest and soften into meditation.