30/06/2024
Your life is ending one minute at a time. You must live for a purpose; you must die for a cause. You are not here for fun; you are here for a mission. Accomplish it or die trying.
Don't chase s*x, food, and entertainment. You will succumb to them and end up miserable and depressed. "Happiness" and "fun" are femicentric constructs. They don't exist in the dictionary of men.
Chase meaningful purpose, not "happiness and fun." There is no perfect time. Make a move now. Set the date. Set the bait. Win.
At a certain age, you have to think long-term. Focus on your career and goals, savings, and finding someone you'll hustle and pray with. You can no longer afford to waste time. Focus on things that matter in the long run: stability, loyalty, and peace of mind.
Opportunities cost age; take risks while you are young. One day you will go to bed a 21-year-old and wake up at 29, then realize there are things you could have done while younger.
It's easier to fail at 23 and restart at 25 than to attempt at 30. The older you grow, the less support you have. You are on your own.
As a man, nothing is ever going to be given to you; everything is going to be earned. If you don't go out there and put in the work, you will definitely have nothing. Keep working; your day is coming. Consistency will take you to places, so don't stop. Negative energy won't push you forward; it will only make you stagnant.
Nobody believes before you begin. Nobody believes before you start. Nobody believes when you are coming up. Everybody believes in you when you make it. Stop needing other people to believe in you; you need to believe in yourself, and they'll catch up. If you don't give up, you can't fail. Keep going.
Never force anything: conversations, friendships, relationships, attention, or love. Anything forced is just not worth fighting for. If the men in your circle aren't wanting to grow, it's okay to drop them.
Value yourself. Don’t be like a headless chicken. Know your worth.
Not asked = Don't give your opinion.
Not invited = Don’t go.
Not told = Don’t ask.
Late invites = Decline.
You were never part of the plan; you've suddenly become a convenience.
Speak only when your words add value. Develop your critical thinking skills, unleash the potential within:
- Think more logically and creatively
- Master your mental abilities
- Unlock the mysteries of your brain. Master your mind. Master your life.
Go where you are needed, and don't try to force it. You should understand that if you are not called, then there is no need to go.
If you were prioritized, then you would have been called. Don’t chase other people and don’t be anyone's second choice. Know your worth and decline.
I never understood people who invite themselves. I would feel awful doing that. Do it and regret. Respect your time, but more importantly, respect yourself.
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