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13 WAYS TO CORRECT YOUR WIFE WITHOUT HURTING HER FEELINGS

1: LOWER YOUR VOICE
Don't shout at her, she is not your child. You can correct, yes, but why shouting?

2: DO IT IN LOVE
Correction should be done in love. If done in any other way, it turns to criticism and condemnation.

3a: DON'T CRITICIZE
Stop criticizing her, rather correct in love. Most will say it's constructive criticism. But truly, It means disapproval by pointing out errors and mistakes.
Correction is the act of offering better options to mistakes
Correction and criticism are never the same

3b: HUSBAND A SAYS
What manner of food is this?
Is this popcorn or fried rice?
how I wish I marry a more sensible wife with better home training, who can cook better.
HUSBAND B SAYS
sweetheart this rice it too salty and dry unlike the one you did yesterday. I think salt should be reduce any other time because of our health.
Husband A criticized while Husband B corrected his wife in love
STOP CRITICIZING YOUR WIFE

4 PRAISE HER FOR WHAT IS RIGHT
It will be wrong to correct when it's not well done, when you don't praise when it's well done. Form the habit of praising and appreciating your wife for good deeds.

5 DON'T DO IT BEFORE YOUR CHILDREN
Avoid correcting your wife in the presence of your children. Incessant correction of your wife before your children will make them disrespect her.

6 DON'T CORRECT HER IN THE PUBLIC
Avoid correcting your wife in the public, it does not show you as a gentleman, and will affect her self-esteem.

7 AVOID CORRECTION IN ANGER
Stop correcting your wife in anger, shouting, ranting, beating and making trouble. Real men don't do that.

8 DON'T COMPARE HER WITH ANY OTHER WOMAN
In your thought of correcting her, you might have been comparing her with other women.
"Don't you see what your friend is doing?" Can't you learn from our neighbors wife?" "and so?"

9 AVOID REFERRING TO OLD ISSUES
Avoid referring to issues discussed and settled. Stick to the present issue, discuss

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S*X EDUCATION 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼

TOPIC: P***Y LOCKING!!
How to lock your pusy🙄?during s*x🤪

What is p***y locking?

Don't think p***y locking is when you close your va**na 😜. P***y locking is the ability to make your p***y hold hubby's p***s tight during s*x....🤪...

Let's go... .

P***y locking is the process of drawing your p***y in internally, while your husband dick is inside of you, with your legs widely spread out, Locking your p***y will make your p***y to wrap his dick so well that it drives him crazy, he will be able to use his dick to touch all the walls of your p***y, lock up your p***y and allow his dick grip on.

The easiest way to learn and understand p***y locking is when you are urinating and try to stop the urine half way, you know how you hold the urine in with your p***y, that's what p***y locking is.. It's also known as kegel exercise! now, try doing exactly that when your husband dick is inside of you, your husband will never get tired of fu***ng you.

This method also helps people that has loose va**na to feel the dick, no matter the size. You don't need to close your legs for your p***y to be tight, because it won't, you will just be fooling yourself😂 biko spread your legs and lock up your p***y for maximum pleasure..🙄🙄🤪🤪🕺🕺

Most a times when the p***s is inside the va**na,if you still notice any looseness, withdraw and use cold water to wash up....i mean very cold one😍

It makes the va**na shrink in size...

And it reduces the level of secretions that comes out from the va**na....you will still be wet but at a moderate level...👍👍👍

P***y locking is very necessary during s*x
Happy weekend as it approaching, enjoying yourself.

*SLAVERY OF MEN BY WOMEN*

Every Man irrespective of who they are must read the book by a German writer Esther Villar In her book "The Manipulated Man"

This book has caused outrage and *hostile criticism* from women, it explains how women since the earliest times have manipulated men and turned them into their slaves, they have *pretended* to be the oppressed s*x while in the real sense they are the oppressors.

She explains how a woman manipulates a man skillfully by steps like *courtship* and finally *marriage* , hence the saying “ *a man chases a woman until SHE catches him”* .

In her book she explains how the man is *tricked* to care for the woman all his life and her offspring.

He rolls the stone like *Sisyphus* and in turn gets rewarded by a few minutes of s*xual pleasure.

We can, by observing Esther Villars assertions that a man is a slave of his desires and the woman uses and has used it for thousands of years as a stick and carrot to keep the man chasing vanity and commit his life to serving her.

She goes ahead to explain the *rivalry of women* , how each woman feels the powerful urge and need to own a male for herself.

Like a *slave owner* she detests any move the man would make to offer his services to another woman. She uses all means to keep the man to herself and her offspring alone.

Esther Villar's sentiments are captured by Nigerian Poet, critic and writer, Chinweizu Ibekwe in his book, “The Anatomy of Female Power” (AFP) and Will Farrel's, “The Predatory Female”.

They all push the theory that all societies are matriarchal and not patriarchal as we are pushed and forced to believe. *Matriarchy has ruled not through brawn but wits and tricks;* women feigning weakness to be protected etc. Thus the male becomes the most exploited s*x in human history, (in wars the man is always ready to die for the woman; he has been trained to do that).

Chinweizu calls the idea of *dating* and *courtship* , *training* , like that of a horse.

AFTER S*X WHAT NEXT.....MY DEAR IF YOU MISS THIS WRITE UP WHAT WILL YOU TELL YOUR FUTURE......

It's possible for any man to ask for s*x in a relationship, but is left for you to choose weather to give or not,, as a lady you need to know that s*x can't keep a man.. (S*x isn't enough)
NOT ALL MEN NEED S*X
There are two major factors ladies complain about s*x in a relationship:
√ After giving him my body he left me..
√ He left because I refused to have s*x with him..

NOTE: Both those who gave and those who refused to give are complaining...
( Whats the difference)
Ladies Listen, S*x isn't enough, its not the only thing you can offer a man.
If You Don't Have Anything To Offer A Man Outside S*x, Please remain Single...
A man can't stay with you because his having s*x with you....

Relationship is not buying and selling.
There are much to life than Monkey style, Doggy style, Missionary style, Apple n juice style, step pillows style, etc ...
Are you sound intellectually? Spiritually? Physically? Mentally? Emotionally?
Men love intelligent ladies...
Men love ladies with ideas..
Men love respectful ladies...

Men respect ladies that know what domestic work is
Men love and appreciate a woman who is good and excellent in multi-tasking
Men respect and honor ladies that wakes up very early in the morning to make sure that the kitchen is set.

Men respect ladies that keep their eyes at home than those that their eyes are always outside
Men love bravo ladies
S*x is very cheap these days, anybody can buy it.

You need to build yourself beyond s*x.
Leave make-ups and be a productive lady.
Men are looking for ladies with ideas and solution not those who paint their faces with different colours.

*What a man wants is beauty with brain not make ups with b***s or hips. Because all these will fail but what you have upstairs will remain.

Your husband complains because you think that you know it but you don't know it. Just do what your own husband wants and not what men want...
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LADIES, HERE ARE THE FACTS YOU HAVE TO KNOW ABOUT MEN.

1. Every male( including a little boy) has the instinct to detect disrespect and dishonour from your words and actions towards them.

2. Men feed on honour and respect. They value it over food. Do all you like to a man but don't touch his respect and honour.

3. Men hate it when they're talking to you and you are talking back at him. He hates it when he is talking and you are walking away.

4. Men hate to be challenged by their wives. Challenging him is stirring up the beast in him. That is unprofitable for you, woman

5. Men can do anything for their peace of mind, even if it makes them look like a coward. When a man loses his peace at home, his life is about to relocate to another place to seek it with anyone who can give it to him.

6. When a man is complaining about a particular thing, he has reached his breaking point of endurance. Do your best to pay attention to that thing and find a way to help him.

7. When a man is talking to you, he needs you to be silent and pay attention to him by focusing on him. Your calmness can make him reduce the tone of his voice if he is shouting at you.

8. The silence of a woman scares a man naturally, he can do anything just to make sure he finds out what went wrong.

9. A man is never too busy for the woman he loves.
10. What a man wants from his woman after everyday activities is peace of mind. Keep the issues away from him till he has been refreshed with food and a warm/cool bath.

11. Whenever a man gets a gift for his woman, it means he has thought about her deeply before doing so.

12. A man is not always far from his investment. He either carries it in his mind or he goes with it anywhere he goes.

13. Men love s*x. Women love lo******ng.

14. Men shed the most honest tears after children since they rarely show emotions.

15. Every man you see has a baby side of them that yearns for deep pampering and petting. That's why we call them babies.

Cc.

Glory to God

21:9 It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house. Proverbs

Home is the only place where men should find peace after rough and hard day but woe to wives who don't know how to handle their men and houses properly.
Poor communication has destroyed many houses

3:12 Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;3:13 Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.3:14 And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness.3:15 And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called in one body; and be ye thankful.3:16 Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord.
3:17 And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him. Colossians

4:1 I therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are called,4:2 With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love;4:3 Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.4:4 There is one body, and one Spirit, even as ye are called in one hope of your calling;4:5 One Lord, one faith, one baptism,4:6 One God and Father of all, who is above all, and through all, and in you all. Ephesians