Engela Kok Counselling

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Engela Kok is a compassionate Registered Counsellor, supports women and couples through parenthood, relationships, and emotional well-being with a gentle, practical approach that fosters connection and understanding

It’s not just what you say, it’s how you say it.If you and your partner want to communicate with more understanding, cal...
16/10/2025

It’s not just what you say, it’s how you say it.
If you and your partner want to communicate with more understanding, calm, and closeness, this workshop is for you.

We’ll cover:

• How to listen without defensiveness
• How to express your needs clearly
• How to stay connected, even during conflict

🗓️ 27 November 2025, 19:30–21:30 (Online)
🗓️ 29 November 2025, 09:00–11:00, West Coast Psychology Practice

Private sessions are also available. Spaces are limited for a more intimate experience.

Book your spot now by messaging [email protected].

To those who need to hear this today: ✨ You are unique ✨ You are special ✨ You are wanted Take 10 minutes out of your da...
12/08/2021

To those who need to hear this today:

✨ You are unique
✨ You are special
✨ You are wanted

Take 10 minutes out of your day to just sit and be with your thoughts.

✨ WORKSHOP ✨ I am so happy to announce that I am having another communication workshop at the end of August! This worksh...
02/08/2021

✨ WORKSHOP ✨

I am so happy to announce that I am having another communication workshop at the end of August!

This workshop is so valuable and useful in all areas of our lives, not just for our partners.

👆🏻 SIGN UP: link in bio 👆🏻

“It’s too hard” “I can’t do it” “It’s not worth it” “I don’t feel like it” YES IT IS…Marriage is difficult!If it was eas...
30/07/2021

“It’s too hard”
“I can’t do it”
“It’s not worth it”
“I don’t feel like it”

YES IT IS…Marriage is difficult!

If it was easy, then we wouldn’t know of as many divorces

✨Work as hard on your marriage as you do on your fortune!

💭 MINDFUL THINKING 🧠 part 2 Not all thoughts are equal, some are more important than others…Be gentle on yourself if you...
29/07/2021

💭 MINDFUL THINKING 🧠 part 2

Not all thoughts are equal, some are more important than others…

Be gentle on yourself if your thoughts aren’t perfect- you are trying and that is ENOUGH!

✨ Don’t rush the process, light a candle, drink tea and just be…

🧠 THINKING 💭 part 1 My brain sometimes works overtime to the point that I can smell smoke…well almost! I might be thinki...
27/07/2021

🧠 THINKING 💭 part 1

My brain sometimes works overtime to the point that I can smell smoke…well almost!

I might be thinking about what we are doing next weekend and before I notice it, I’m deep, deep down a hole that I don’t know how to get out of!

I find that when my brain just doesn’t want to stop, I need to readjust my thoughts but this is not always easy!

Over the next few posts I will give you 10 tools to help you create an effective thinking environment

💭 Let me know which one has worked the best

🥂 CELEBRATIONS 🥂Are anniversaries special to you? Do you do something different or give each other gifts? I believe that...
23/07/2021

🥂 CELEBRATIONS 🥂

Are anniversaries special to you? Do you do something different or give each other gifts?

I believe that each anniversary is special and worth celebrating! This doesn’t mean that each one should cost money or be extravagant…

Our daily lives are so busy that it’s difficult to find the time for each other and to let your partner know that you love being with them. Putting aside some time for each other once a month ensures that you have a regular check-in with each other…

3 reasons why you should celebrate MONTHLY anniversaries:

🥂 you are reminded of WHY you chose your partner

🥂 your partner will feel WORTHY

🥂 it’s a way to feel CLOSE to your partner

and for the BONUS- popping the champagne and seeing the bubbles makes everyone happy 🍾🍾

Happy cold & rainy Wednesday! 🥶I know I’ve been very quiet this past week as I’ve been spending this time ‘filling my cu...
21/07/2021

Happy cold & rainy Wednesday! 🥶

I know I’ve been very quiet this past week as I’ve been spending this time ‘filling my cup’…

AND my cup is full! 😁

I took this picture last week Friday on our date and this is typical us- sitting on the back of the bakkie with a glass of wine, no-make up, looking at the sunset and observing the beauty of the farm 🌅

✨ May you also take the time to fill your cup! ✨

It was such an amazing experience having these two in one of my previous workshops! They brought such a vibe to the sess...
13/07/2021

It was such an amazing experience having these two in one of my previous workshops! They brought such a vibe to the session and made everyone feel so comfortable.

What happens when your partner has a crazy deadline while you are on holiday mode? 🩴👙What if the one partner needs to st...
12/07/2021

What happens when your partner has a crazy deadline while you are on holiday mode? 🩴👙

What if the one partner needs to study for this crazy final exam and you have already finished all of your exams? 📚

These are sillyexamples but the point I’m trying to make is that we are not always in sync with our partners…sometimes one needs more emotional support or a longer hug than usual…

It is NORMAL to not always be in sync with your partner in terms of everything you feel…

✨ As long as you COMMUNICATE your needs to your partner

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