23/08/2026
We know we’ve been a little quiet on here lately. 🤍 Social media takes time - and that’s not something we’ve had much of lately.
It’s taken a while to process everything, but it finally feels like we can breathe again, so I thought it was a good time to just be real.
In January, we found what we genuinely believed would be our dream home. Little did we know, we’d signed ourselves into a bit of a horror story.
Unapproved plans. Invalid certificates. Electrical and gas issues. Concealed damp. Termites… the list goes on.
The house transferred, we started paying the bond, and yet we couldn’t live in it, let alone renovate it. It’s been months of inspections, phone calls, legal meetings and an exhausting amount of uncertainty. My mental health took a huge turn.
It consumed so much of our time and headspace that, for a while, I simply didn’t have much left for social media.
So if we’ve been slow to reply, missed a message or been quieter than usual, you’ll know why. We had to triage.
And in the meantime, life kept happening. So many exciting things were happening around us - celebrations, milestones, family moments - and we feel like we’ve missed so much of it because being ‘present’ felt impossible 🤍
The families who kept supporting Happy-Mess were actually one of the things that kept me going. After six electrical inspections (yes… SIX 😩), we are finally compliant. And last week, we finally got the go-ahead to start working on our home. It still feels surreal.
There’s a huge mountain ahead, but after all the fighting and waiting, we’re finally moving forward. We even ended the week celebrating a very long-awaited family event. 🤍 For the first time in a long time, it feels like life is finally moving in the right direction.
One little side note…our realtor was amazing throughout all of this. We genuinely couldn’t fault her. Everyone else involved could probably take a few notes. 😂
So… hi. 👋🏽 Thank you for being patient with us while we’ve been navigating all of this. It really has meant more than you know.
Things are finally looking up, and we are so ready for it! 🤍 Now, let’s get back to m