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24/08/2023

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22/08/2023

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15/08/2023

๐“๐ก๐ž ๐‹๐š๐ฐ ๐…๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐๐ซ๐จ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž: ๐“๐š๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐‚๐ก๐š๐ซ๐ ๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐‹๐ž๐ ๐š๐ฅ ๐‰๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ง๐ž๐ฒ...โฃ๐Ÿ’ช
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Addressing this topic has been on my mind for quite some time๐Ÿ’ญ Many individuals often express sentiments like:โฃ
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"๐˜'๐˜ฎ ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด; ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ."โฃ
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"๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜จ๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜ด๐˜บ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ณ."โฃ
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โžก๏ธ Yes, it's true that the legal landscape can be unjust at times โ€“ more frequently than I'd prefer. But hey, let's not just become hermits in a hermit crab race๐Ÿฆ€ โ€“ that won't get us anywhere. Hereโ€™s the thing: The law tends to align with those who take charge of their situation.โฃ
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"๐˜ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏ'๐˜ต ๐˜ซ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜จ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ. ๐˜ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ'๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ง." - Diana Rossโฃ
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โš–๏ธ If you only contacted one attorney and their fees are too high, or they say that they canโ€™t help you for whatever reason, contact the 1000 other attorneys who may be in your budget and able to assist!โฃ

โš–๏ธ If you really canโ€™t afford legal help, contact legal aid to see if you qualify for their help or ask attorneys in your area if they are willing to assist you on a payment plan.โฃ
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โš–๏ธ If your ex is not paying maintenance, it does not help being angry at them and rolling your eyes. Do your research - see what your options are to get them to pay.โฃ
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Letโ€™s take our lives and our destiny into our own hands๐Ÿ‘
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๐๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐š๐ฅ ๐€๐ฅ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ.โฃโฃParental Alienation is the manipulation of a child into instilling unwarranted fear, disrespec...
03/08/2023

๐๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐š๐ฅ ๐€๐ฅ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ.โฃ
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Parental Alienation is the manipulation of a child into instilling unwarranted fear, disrespect or hatred towards a parent and/or other family members. Parental Alienation can be purposeful or subconsciously. โฃ
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โžก๏ธโžก๏ธ๐’๐—ช๐ˆ๐๐„ ๐“๐Ž ๐’๐„๐„ ๐„๐—๐€๐Œ๐๐‹๐„๐’ ๐Ž๐… ๐๐Ž๐’๐’๐ˆ๐๐‹๐„ ๐€๐‚๐“๐’ ๐Ž๐… ๐€๐‹๐ˆ๐„๐๐€๐“๐ˆ๐Ž๐โžก๏ธโžก๏ธโฃ
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Parental Alienation not only affects the alienated parent, but also the child, who cannot build or maintain a healthy relationship with the other parent. We hope that Parental Alienation will soon be a crime in South Africa.โฃ
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โœจ ๐.๐’. ๐€๐ซ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฏ๐ข๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐š๐ฅ ๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง? ๐‚๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐š๐œ๐ญ ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ๐๐š๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐š ๐‹๐ž๐ ๐š๐ฅ ๐„๐š๐ฌ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง! ๐ข๐ง๐Ÿ๐จ@๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐๐ข๐ฏ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž๐œ๐ก๐ข๐œ๐ค.๐œ๐จ.๐ณ๐š โœจโฃ
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All Our Love,โฃ
The Divorce Chickโ„ข Tribe.โฃ
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๐—ช๐ก๐จ ๐ˆ๐ฌ ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐…๐š๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐€๐๐ฏ๐จ๐œ๐š๐ญ๐žโ“โฃโฃโฃโฃYou may have heard about the Family Advocate when you or someone close to you were going ...
01/08/2023

๐—ช๐ก๐จ ๐ˆ๐ฌ ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐…๐š๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐€๐๐ฏ๐จ๐œ๐š๐ญ๐žโ“โฃโฃ
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You may have heard about the Family Advocate when you or someone close to you were going through a divorce. But do you know who the Family Advocate is and what their duties are in your divorceโ“โฃโฃ
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๐Ÿ‘‰ ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ!โฃโฃ
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The Family Advocate is a legal officer employed by the Department of Justice and acts as legal representative of the children.โฃโฃ
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The Family Advocateโ€™s Offices May Be Consulted In The Case That:โฃโฃ
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โžก๏ธ Thereโ€™s a dispute regarding contact or care of a child.โฃโฃ
โžก๏ธ A parent wants to draft a parental rights and responsibilities agreement or register it.โฃโฃ
โžก๏ธ A parent wants to amend or terminate parental rights and responsibilities agreements registered with the Family Advocate.โฃโฃ
โžก๏ธ There is a dispute on whether the unmarried father of the child has satisfied the requirements which makes him entitled to get full parental rights and responsibilities in terms of the Childrenโ€™s Act.โฃโฃ
โžก๏ธ The Court also orders that the Family Advocate has to conduct an inquiry as to what is in the best interest of the child.โฃโฃ
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The services of the Family Advocate are rendered to the public free of charge, so if you are asked to pay for something, think twice, you may be the victim of a scam! However, keep in mind that parents may need to pay for additional expert reports, like psychological evaluation, and other forensic tests where those are vital to determining the childโ€™s best interests.โฃโฃ
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โœจ๐.๐’. ๐ƒ๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ฅ๐ž๐ ๐š๐ฅ ๐ช๐ฎ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ง๐ž๐ž๐ ๐š๐ง๐ฌ๐ฐ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ? ๐‚๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐š๐œ๐ญ ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐ข๐ง๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ฆ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐‹๐ž๐ ๐š๐ฅ ๐„๐š๐ฌ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐’๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง ๐ข๐ง๐Ÿ๐จ@๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐๐ข๐ฏ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž๐œ๐ก๐ข๐œ๐ค.๐œ๐จ.๐ณ๐š โœจโฃโฃ
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โ€œ๐ƒ๐ข๐ฏ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž ๐ˆ๐ฌ ๐€๐ฅ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐๐š๐ ๐…๐จ๐ซ ๐‚๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ง.โ€โฃโฃWe get so angry when people judge those who decided on divorce and tell them how ...
27/07/2023

โ€œ๐ƒ๐ข๐ฏ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž ๐ˆ๐ฌ ๐€๐ฅ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐๐š๐ ๐…๐จ๐ซ ๐‚๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ง.โ€โฃ
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We get so angry when people judge those who decided on divorce and tell them how big of an injustice they are committing against their children.โฃ
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*๐Œ๐€๐’๐’๐ˆ๐•๐„ ๐’๐ˆ๐†๐‡* โฃ
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๐Ÿ‘‰ Several studies worldwide confirm that fighting and constant bickering in front of your children causes more damage than divorce ever will.โฃ
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In fact, children exposed to constant bickering between their parents are more likely to be depressed, and exhibiting problematic behaviour like aggression and substance abuse.โฃ
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Of course, divorce is a very personal decision and only you can make it. So, if you decide to stay in an unhappy marriage, make sure that you donโ€™t expose your children to your fighting with your ex โ—โฃ
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โœจ๐.๐’. ๐๐ž๐ž๐ ๐ก๐ž๐ฅ๐ฉ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž? ๐Ž๐ฎ๐ซ ๐‹๐ž๐ ๐š๐ฅ ๐„๐š๐ฌ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐’๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐š๐ฒ ๐›๐ž ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐Ÿ๐ž๐œ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ. ๐„๐ฆ๐š๐ข๐ฅ ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง ๐ข๐ง๐Ÿ๐จ@๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐๐ข๐ฏ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž๐œ๐ก๐ข๐œ๐ค.๐œ๐จ.๐ณ๐š ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐ข๐ง๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ฆ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง โ™ฅ โœจโฃ
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Lots of Love.โฃ
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Take note of this.
25/07/2023

Take note of this.

In the realm of family law, misconceptions often cloud understanding and can lead to horrible mistakes. Let's debunk 3 more Family Law misconceptions that some South African have! ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡โฃ
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๐ŸŒŸ If you missed Part 1, have a look at it first. โฃ
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1๏ธโƒฃ ๐ˆ๐Ÿ ๐ˆ ๐‹๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐—ช๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐’๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐…๐จ๐ซ ๐Ÿ“+ ๐˜๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ฌ, ๐—ช๐ž ๐€๐ซ๐ž ๐‚๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง ๐‹๐š๐ฐ ๐’๐ฉ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฌ. โฃ
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Unlike many people think, common law marriages are not legally binding in South Africa. You can live with someone for 20+ years, if you don't physically get married, you will not be treated as spouses. โฃ
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If you don't want to marry someone (for whatever reason ) but decide to live with them, I suggest that you enter into a cohabitation agreement. โฃ
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2๏ธโƒฃ ๐Œ๐จ๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐Ž๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ƒ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฏ๐ž๐ฌ ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐Œ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ ๐ž.โฃ
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Moving out of the marital home or giving back your wedding ring does not automatically dissolve the marriage. If you don't have a divorce decree, you are still married. โฃ
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3๏ธโƒฃ ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐Œ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐—ช๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐€๐ฅ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐†๐ž๐ญ ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐‚๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ง. โฃ
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Not true! The court will look at what is in the best interest of the child when deciding where the child should live. Sometimes, both parents will have shared primary residence, other times the children will live with the mom OR dad and see the other parents regularly. However, there is no rule stating that children should always live with their mom primarily. โฃ
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๐‡๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐„๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐‡๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ ๐€๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐“๐ซ๐š๐ฎ๐ฆ๐š ๐๐จ๐ง๐๐ฌโ“โฃโฃโฃโฃHave you ever felt like you are addicted to your abuser or like you canโ€™t let...
25/07/2023

๐‡๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐„๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐‡๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ ๐€๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐“๐ซ๐š๐ฎ๐ฆ๐š ๐๐จ๐ง๐๐ฌโ“โฃโฃ
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Have you ever felt like you are addicted to your abuser or like you canโ€™t let them goโ“โฃโฃ
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This may sound ludacris but it is unfortunately, what a trauma bond is โ—โฃโฃ
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When your partner/parent/friend goes back and forth between being nice and being abusive or rejecting, it causes you to become bonded to this personโ€ฆโฃโฃ
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If this is something that you think you are a victim of, this post is your sign to do more research on trauma bonds and to consider getting professional help to break out of it.โฃโฃ
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๐.๐’. ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐š๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐ž. ๐‰๐จ๐ข๐ง ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐ž๐ž ๐…๐š๐œ๐ž๐›๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฆ๐š๐ง๐ฌ โ™ฅ โœจโฃโฃ

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๐’๐จ๐ฆ๐ž ๐‘๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐—ช๐ก๐ฒ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐’๐ฉ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐“๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ ๐“๐จ ๐ƒ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ฒ ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐ƒ๐ข๐ฏ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž.โฃโฃ๐Ÿ‘‰ Your spouse (๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ) might try to delay the divorce by abusi...
20/07/2023

๐’๐จ๐ฆ๐ž ๐‘๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐—ช๐ก๐ฒ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐’๐ฉ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐“๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ ๐“๐จ ๐ƒ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ฒ ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐ƒ๐ข๐ฏ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž.โฃ
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๐Ÿ‘‰ Your spouse (๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ) might try to delay the divorce by abusing the discovery process, purposefully changing attorneys constantly, purposefully being difficult and not accepting any settlement offers, or in many other ways.โฃ
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People delay divorces, not realising that in this case, time is money, and the longer you take to settle in your divorce, the more money it will cost. โฃ
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โžก๏ธโžก๏ธ๐’๐—ช๐ˆ๐๐„ ๐“๐Ž ๐’๐„๐„ ๐—ช๐‡๐€๐“ ๐“๐‡๐„๐’๐„ ๐‘๐„๐€๐’๐Ž๐๐’ ๐Œ๐€๐˜ ๐๐„โžก๏ธโžก๏ธโฃ
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If you suspect that your ex is delaying the divorce for any of these reasons, share your suspicions with your attorney. If you are the person delaying the divorce, you might want to reflect on why you are doing it and if the lemon is worth the squeeze. โฃ
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๐.๐’. ๐…๐จ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง ๐“๐ข๐ค๐“๐จ๐ค. โœจโฃ
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๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐œ๐š๐ง ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ค ๐ข๐ง ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐›๐ข๐จ.โฃ
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๐ˆ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐‘๐ž๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ ๐…๐จ๐ซ ๐ƒ๐ข๐ฏ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ˆ๐ง๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌโ™ฅ1๏ธโƒฃ ๐‡๐ž/๐ฌ๐ก๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฌ๐›๐š๐ง๐/๐ฐ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐š๐ง๐ฒ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž, ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐...
18/07/2023

๐ˆ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐‘๐ž๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ ๐…๐จ๐ซ ๐ƒ๐ข๐ฏ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ˆ๐ง๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌโ™ฅ

1๏ธโƒฃ ๐‡๐ž/๐ฌ๐ก๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฌ๐›๐š๐ง๐/๐ฐ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐š๐ง๐ฒ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž, ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐โ€™๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ.โฃ
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โžกYes, you donโ€™t have to be best friends with your ex, but it is also important to not let your children choose between you. It is also not advised to speak ill about your ex in front of your children- they are not your therapist. Rather confide in a friend or a therapist about your feelings towards your ex. โฃ
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โšก We have heard many stories about people trying to cause their ex to lose his job for example to get revenge. This makes no sense to us. If your ex suffers, your children will also suffer! Think before you do something. ๐€๐‹๐—ช๐€๐˜๐’.โฃ
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2๏ธโƒฃ ๐๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐ฆ๐š๐ค๐ž ๐๐ž๐œ๐ข๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ž๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ.โฃ
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Elizabeth Gilbert once said that โ€œ๐˜›๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ.โ€ We agree fully with this statement.โฃ
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๐ŸŒŸ It is very easy for someone going through divorce to, in the spur of the moment, quit their jobs in an attempt to avoid paying spousal or child maintenance. So, before you make ๐€๐๐˜ decision, take a deep breath and take at least 24 hours to think about it before you commit. โฃ
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3๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ช๐จ๐ซ๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž (๐จ๐ซ ๐ข๐ง ๐š๐ง๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐š๐œ๐ž, ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ) ๐œ๐š๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐›๐ž ๐ญ๐š๐ค๐ž๐ง ๐›๐š๐œ๐ค.โฃ
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๐Ÿ‘‰ Many people can remember times when someone said something very hurtful to them or about someone else, but when they tell the person who said the words, that person claims to remember ๐๐Ž๐“๐‡๐ˆ๐๐† about the encounter.โฃ
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This just proves that even if you forget something that you said, the person that you said it to, will always remember it. Words are like bullets, they create damage that you can never fully take back. So, always think before you speak.โฃ
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โœจ ๐.๐’. ๐…๐จ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐“๐ฎ๐›๐ž.โœจโฃ
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