23/09/2026
Fellow term 3 moms (and dads)!
It was on my heart today to share a message with all of you who are about to, or have just completed, term 3 and are maybe in need of a bit of encouragement ❤️
I am someone who regularly works with students with learning struggles (including my own), and one thing I often see is the wide range of emotions on those days when the results become available.
These emotions can be anywhere from relief and excitement, to tears, anxiety and a feeling of needing to work harder next time. And often, without even realising it, we as parents are feeling these same emotions alongside our children. We start questioning whether we did enough, whether we should have pushed more, or whether we need to try and maintain the current pace during the school holidays to make sure those marks don't drop when our kids return to class.
But whatever the results may have been, I really want to let you all know, just the fact that you are reading this post and feeling concerned and worried makes you a good parent. You are not at fault and neither is your child (most of the time ☺️). Anxiety is at an all time high for our students (and parents) and life is so busy. But that is a different post for a different day.
Many parents ask me what they should do during the holidays. My advice is always to relax. Stop blaming yourselves if the results are not what you expected. Encourage your children to take this opportunity to just switch off for a while. Let them sleep late. Let them play. Let them be bored. Let them spend some time outside, play with their friends, or just do absolutely nothing. Let them have a few days where school, marks, tests and what comes next don't need to be part of the conversation.
And to our matrics: no this does not mean you get off (😉). But even for them, it is remarkable what a day or two of genuinely switching off can do for their overall wellbeing. Sometimes, giving these young minds permission to stop thinking about what's coming next is exactly what allows a child to come back feeling refreshed and ready to tackle their problems.
So, whatever your results have looked like this year, please remember that your child is so much more than marks on a report card. It is okay to give them a little time to breathe. And it is especially okay to give yourselves a little time to breathe too. We all need a bit of a break sometimes ❤️
I hope all of you moms and your children have a beautiful, restful holiday, and I wish every one of you all the very best for the rest of the year 🌸
DrLiz
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