10/09/2026
She wanted to run up onto the stage with me.
Three and a half years old, in a full Elsa dress, entirely certain that this was her moment too. She was not wrong.
I graduated from UCT yesterday. Catherine was in the crowd with our seven-week-old, our eldest beside her in blue tulle. Crossing that stage and seeing that face looking back at me is the part I will remember, not the certificate.
This is not my degree. It is ours.
Catherine carried these years. The calls, the exams, the nights I was not home. She did it through a stretch I could not have got through alone, and came out of it stronger and happier than before. Every hour I spent studying was an hour she covered.
Thank you to my family, and to the colleagues and consultants who taught me along the way. Registrar training is a team sport. I had the best team.