John Robenson Tan Uayan

Late night realization:

Unsa’y mas sakit?
Ang paghigugma sa tawo nga dili nimo makuha?
O ang pag-uban sa tawo nga dili nimo mahigugma?

Apan para nako,
ang pinakalisod,
ang pinakasakit,
mao ang pagbiya sa tawo
nga bisan unsaon nako og likay,
dili gyud mawala sa akong kasingkasing.

Tawo nga dili nako maangkon,
pero permi nakong gihandom.
Tawo nga akong gibiyaan,
pero hangtod karon,
wala gihapon ko kabalo kung giunsa siya kalimtan."**

Late night realization:

“Lisod ba gyud magpaka-mapainubsanon?”
“Murag oo, lisod gyud.”
“Ngano man kaha?”
“Kay samtang ang kalibutan nagsiyagit sa ngalan sa kalampusan, kita hilom lang, nagkupot sa labing maanindot nga bahin sa atong kaugalingon.
Dili tungod kay kulang ta, kundi tungod kay dili nato kinahanglan ipanghambog.
Oo, gusto unta nato isulti sa tanan nga kaya nato, nga lig-on ta, nga duna tay ikabuga.
Pero hilom ra gihapon ta, no? Dili nato buhaton.”

“Oo, tinuod gyud. Pero unsaon man nimo pagpabiling mapainubsanon?”
“Ako ra man tingali ang akong kalibutan.
Gusto ra ko nga malabwan ang akong kaugalingon gahapon.
Kung unsay kulang nako karon, maoy akong kahayag ug kalinaw.
Kay sa matag kakulang, makapahinumdum kini nga ako usa ra ka tawong nagakat-on pa—
ug kana siguro ang tinuod nga pagkamapainubsanon.”

If you spend too long holding on to the one who treats you like an option, you'll miss finding the one who treats you like a priority.

Treat yourself well even if most people didn't🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💪💪💪

RULES TO PROTECT YOUR INNER PEACE

1. Cut off toxic people in your life. Although it is not easy to do it, for you to have peace of mind, you have to.

2. Distance yourself from people who only give out negative thoughts and energy. They will never help you grow.

3. Choose your battles wisely. Not everything requires your energy and reaction.

4. Be careful in letting people be a part of your life. Not everyone is a friend.

5. Unwind. When everything starts to feel tiring, go on a vacation. You deserve it.

6. Learn when to walk away. If it is no longer giving you peace of mind, it is not worth it.

7. Always make time for yourself. Being alone feels therapeutic at times.

8. Have less time for social media and more of starting a new hobby. Be productive with your time.

9. Be adaptable to change. Always brace yourself for endless possibilities.

10. Knowing your triggers is your responsibility. Not all the time people will adjust for you.

Today's update

Bonus ranang handa ang importante naka graduate ka,

Congrats sa imoha ug sa imohang ginikanan

“You don’t have to force something into existence if it was meant for you in the first place.”

Small progress is still a progress!
Best of the Best!
Thank you ILA!

I love you but....
You seem like the type to love 'em and leave 'em
And disappear right after this song
So give me the night to show you, hold you
Don't leave me out here dancing alone

“Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.”― George Bernard Shaw