05/19/2010
..was discussing the other day how draining, avoidant, and irritated sarcasm can make me and found a good article that makes that make perfect sense: "Too much sarcasm is annoying and hurtful, but can even a minimal
amount be too much?...'What is
essential to sarcasm is that it is overt irony intentionally used by the
speaker as a form of verbal aggression..'" and there is "always a victim."----and: "The
results [of sarcasm study] showed that relative to a direct criticism,
the “person who
utters an
indirect, sarcastic statement is perceived as intending to be more
offensive,
verbally aggressive, anger-provoking, and mocking. The
sarcastic message is also perceived as more insincere,
humorous, impolite, non-instructional, and conveying a somewhat unclear
message” (1470-71). The speaker was
also seen as being smug." [the speaker had a different view, however!!]
����������� Sarcasm is a large component of social interaction and conversation.� To demonstrate a sense of humor, people frequently use sarcasm as a means of �breaking the ice� during initial encounters ...