MysticalCaves&Milkiways

MysticalCaves&Milkiways IBCLC, Mother of 4, BSN helping families find intuitive ways to birth and feed babies in community.

Disgusted
08/22/2026

Disgusted

The system needs to value women and children
08/22/2026

The system needs to value women and children

The U.S.’s largest health insurer will halve payment for skilled lactation care, a change the International Board of Lactation Consultant Examiners (IBLCE), the American College of Nurse-Midwives (ACNM), and the Association of Women’s Health, Obstetric and Neonatal Nurses (AWHONN), warn will limit new families’ access to care.

Learn more about this change beginning September 1. https://iblce.org/2026/08/06/press-release-a-3-billion-problem-cutting-lactation-care-costs-more-than-it-saves/

REMINDERAlso will be determining if we should continue Milk Circle on Fridays 1-2:30 or for Fall/Winter move it back to ...
08/19/2026

REMINDER

Also will be determining if we should continue Milk Circle on Fridays 1-2:30 or for Fall/Winter move it back to Saturdays 9-10:30? Re-visit the possibility of adding dads for help with basic parenting questions…

We will be speaking more about this in the coming weeks. I’m listening to what you have to say.

Feel free to comment on this post and let me know where your thoughts are. We will be reunited real soon and I’m looking forward to it.

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Lactation edition Sometimes I cringe at what mothers are told when seeking answers to their difficult feeding challenges...
08/18/2026

Lactation edition

Sometimes I cringe at what mothers are told when seeking answers to their difficult feeding challenges. I have encountered more times than I can count mamas with these stories:

1. Babies gaining there are no issues
2. If the release is just so you can breastfeed then it’s not worth it.
3. If they can stick their tongue out that’s not a tie

I’m going to review in stories.
When you reach out for a feeding issue there is always a reason. We can find out together. Follow your intuition you know something isn’t quite right.

If you’re new here, WELCOME. I’m Jacquelyn. I’m a registered nurse and IBCLC trained in CST, CFT serving families throug...
08/15/2026

If you’re new here, WELCOME. I’m Jacquelyn.

I’m a registered nurse and IBCLC trained in CST, CFT serving families throughout Rhode Island/southern CT. TOTs aware practitioner who loves collaboration to help your babies feed better.

I am a mom of 4, a lifelong mama that has made birth•babies•breasts her jam🤍🕊️I truly believe parents deserve support without judgment or pressure as they navigate the hood.

My goal is simple. LISTEN. Build confidence. Give them my prayers and my love, and a little less burden on their hearts during the early days of parenthood.

I 🤍babies, but I care just as much about the people caring for them. Mothering is what I do. I recognize mamas need mothering too. Come for the hugs. The conversation. The team efforts. Come for the Milk Circles. Come to make friends. Come to weigh your baby weekly for FREE.

Motherhood is ministry. An adventure. Intuition takes time to feel out. What you gain from me and your circle is a safe place to gain it.

I’m so glad you’re beginning this new adventure with me. With US.

IVF in labor impact birth, babies, & milk supply. This is the truth.
08/10/2026

IVF in labor impact birth, babies, & milk supply. This is the truth.

How you labor matters. Having a IV placed has become a standard with hospital births. They are often set to continuously drip while in labor. These fluids don’t just hydrate you, they cross the placenta and also enter your baby. Why is this a big deal? Research suggests that these fluids can actually inflate your baby’s birth weight. They will p*e this fluid out, usually as the first day progresses. So why does that matter if they’re going to p*e it out anyway? Birth weight is the first data point used by healthcare providers to know if baby is feeding efficiently when feeding from the breast, since there are no markers on breast or baby telling us how much they get from feeding

It’s OK for babies to lose weight after birth!! Long standing research shows up to 7-8% of birth weight in the first few days after birth (while drinking the first milk, colostrum) is acceptable, and then once milk transitions they should regain back to birth weight by 10-14 days. We also expect only 1 (2 at the most) p*e diapers on their first day of life. If they are born with excessive fluids, their weight can be inflated and when they p*e this fluid off, the weight loss can be exaggerated. Once a baby loses 10%, supplementation is always recommended as the standard of care to ensure baby is getting the nutrients they need

This can lead to the assumption that baby isn’t feeding well even if they are. It also puts needless pressure for milk supply to “come in” or increase to volumes beyond what the body would typically make at that stage of lactation. Coincidentally, too much fluids can also delay colostrum transitioning to mature milk and increasing in volume as well as cause excessive swelling in the breasts which makes latch more challenging!! This also results in an increased chance of formula supplementation (with or without initiating pumping) which is often associated with a shorter duration of breastfeeding than what was initially intended by the family

How you birth matters. Knowing what happens to your body and baby’s body is so important to help you figure out your journey

📸 Lauren Archer (she/her)
Midwife pictured: the amazing Faith Free

Music has been known for a long time to have positive benefits🤍🎶🎶🎶
08/09/2026

Music has been known for a long time to have positive benefits🤍🎶🎶🎶

Scientists may have found a surprisingly simple way to boost breast milk production
by Vladimir Hedrih August 8, 2026
"A systematic review and meta-analysis of randomized controlled trials exploring the effects of music on breastfeeding found that women who listened to music produced more breast milk both immediately and over time. Music also improved breast milk fat content and reduced participating mothers’ levels of the stress hormone cortisol. The paper was published in International Breastfeeding Journal.

Breastfeeding provides infants with nutrients tailored to their early development and antibodies that help protect them from infections. It is also associated with health benefits for mothers and can strengthen physical and emotional closeness between mother and child. However, successful breastfeeding depends on more than a mother’s motivation or knowledge, as lactation is a complex process deeply connected to maternal psychological health and emotional relaxation.

The infant’s ability to latch and suck effectively, the mother’s milk production, pain, illness, premature birth, and complications during delivery can all influence the process. Early skin-to-skin contact and skilled guidance from healthcare professionals can help establish breastfeeding and address problems before they lead to the discontinuation of breastfeeding.

Support from partners, relatives, employers, and the wider community is also important, especially when mothers are tired, uncertain, or returning to work. Cultural expectations, access to parental leave, opportunities to breastfeed, and exposure to infant formula marketing can further shape breastfeeding decisions and duration.

These physical and emotional challenges frequently trigger psychological stress, activating the body’s “fight-or-flight” response. This reaction elevates cortisol and adrenaline levels, which constrict blood vessels in the breasts and block the release of oxytocin, the essential hormone responsible for the neuroendocrine let-down, or milk ejection, reflex. Perceived insufficient milk supply often creates anxiety that further inhibits milk flow, while Postpartum Depression, which affects roughly 17 percent of mothers globally, can severely undermine a mother’s breastfeeding confidence and self-efficacy.

Listening to music serves as a psychological relaxation tool, stimulating mood-regulating neurotransmitters like dopamine and serotonin. This shifts the nervous system into a “rest-and-digest” state, lowering cortisol and allowing oxytocin to facilitate milk release.

Study author Shalin Lee Wan Fei and her colleagues conducted their systematic review and meta-analysis aiming to integrate existing evidence on the effects of music on breastfeeding mothers with term and preterm infants. A systematic review comprehensively gathers all existing high-quality studies on a specific topic, while a meta-analysis mathematically combines their data to identify overall statistical trends.

The researchers were interested in how music affects objective breastfeeding metrics such as milk volume and breast milk composition, alongside psychological outcomes like maternal stress and anxiety. Maternal stress was assessed through salivary cortisol levels and the Perceived Stress Scale, a standardized psychological questionnaire, while anxiety was measured using the State-Trait Anxiety Inventory.

These authors conducted a comprehensive search across four major electronic databases: Scopus, PubMed (MEDLINE), CINAHL (EBSCOhost), and Web of Science. For the search, they used combinations of keywords that included terms related to music interventions, such as music, music therapy, auditory stimulation, and lullaby, alongside breastfeeding terms like breastfeeding, lactation, breast milk, and postpartum.

They were looking for studies conducted on postpartum women who were breastfeeding that involved exposure to any form of music compared to standard care without music or silence. The studies needed to be experiments, specifically randomized controlled trials with quantitative outcomes. Qualitative studies, case reports, editorials, and conference abstracts were excluded from the analysis.

The search initially identified 429 studies matching the study authors’ keywords, but a more detailed inspection revealed only six studies that matched all their criteria. One of these studies was conducted in India, one in the USA, one in Iran, one in Turkey, one in Brazil, and one in Thailand. The number of breastfeeding mothers participating in each study ranged between 30 in India and 304 in Thailand, totaling 696 participants across all trials.

The meta-analysis of the results of these studies indicated that music increased breast milk volume, both immediately and cumulatively over time. Music also improved breast milk fat content, as psychological relaxation helped mothers achieve a more complete let-down reflex that thoroughly emptied the breast, yielding milk with higher lipid concentration. Additionally, music consistently lowered maternal stress levels, as indicated by reduced concentrations of salivary cortisol.

The review also highlighted long-term and multi-sensory benefits beyond immediate milk yield. One included trial demonstrated that mothers who received music therapy maintained significantly higher exclusive breastfeeding rates 15 to 60 days after hospital discharge. Another study found that combining soothing music with a visual cue, such as looking at a photograph of the baby while pumping, produced even higher milk volumes and protein levels than music alone.

“Findings suggest music therapy is a promising, non-invasive adjunct to lactation care. By potentially reducing maternal stress, it may improve milk quantity and composition. However, further high-quality, standardized trials are necessary to carefully evaluate its true clinical magnitude and determine its appropriate integration into routine protocols for long-term breastfeeding success,” the study authors concluded. In this context, an adjunct refers to a supportive, non-pharmacological addition to standard medical care.

The study contributes significantly to the scientific understanding of music interventions on breastfeeding, though the authors note several limitations. The quality of measures of milk output varied across studies and their validity was uncertain, with many trials lacking standardized breast pumps or 24-hour volume tracking. Consequently, under the GRADE framework, the overall certainty of evidence was rated as moderate to low.

Furthermore, because participants could hear the music, they could not be blinded to the intervention, leaving room for expectancy effects, which occur when participants experience psychological or physical changes simply because they know what researchers are testing.

The paper, “The effect of music on breastfeeding: a systematic review and meta-analysis of breast milk production, composition, and maternal stress,” was authored by Shalin Lee Wan Fei, Chai Li Sze, and Saloma Pawi. "

https://www.psypost.org/scientists-may-have-found-a-surprisingly-simple-way-to-boost-breast-milk-production/?

Always helpful in first weeks and when babies start sleeping longer.
08/09/2026

Always helpful in first weeks and when babies start sleeping longer.

FREE HANDOUT on a simple technique to help babies latch during engorgement developed by the wonderful Jean Cotterman. Full permission to share. Download "Reverse Pressure Softening for Parents" by scrolling to the bottom: of this page: https://nancymohrbacher.com/pages/free-downloadable-lactation-handouts

03/27/2026

Please note: The link below is the corrected RSVP link for this event. We hope to see you there! 🤍

Thinking about pregnancy or already expecting? 🤍
Join us for Meet the Doulas at South County Hospital and connect with local doulas, ask questions, and tour our Birthing Center. It’s a great way to learn about the support available to you and feel more confident as you plan for birth.

📅 March 28
🕙 10–11:30 a.m.
📍 South County Hospital

RSVP here:
https://form.jotform.com/260284828794168?utm_source=social

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