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04/19/2026

Could Your Brain Work Just Fine Without That Snack?

We’ve all heard it:
👉 “You need to eat to fuel your brain.”

And for kids?
That’s likely true.

But for adults…
The research is surprising.

Even after skipping meals—or fasting up to 24 hours, people showed no decline in:
✔️ Focus
✔️ Memory
✔️ Reaction time

So why do we feel like we can’t function without food?

Here’s the real insight:
It’s not short-term fasting that affects your brain…
It’s long-term dieting.

The constant restriction.

The mental noise.

The “I shouldn’t eat this” thoughts.

That’s what drains your energy.

Fasting, when done simply and intentionally,
isn’t about restriction…
It’s about creating a pause.

And sometimes, in that pause…
you don’t lose clarity—
✨ you find it.

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10/06/2024

When you face challenges in your life, like releasing weight, language shapes how you view the world. Think for a moment about the limitations you place on yourself.

In what areas of your life do you say, "I can't?"

Now, imagine if instead of closing the door with "I can't," you opened it by asking, "How can I?"

Before intermittent fasting became part of my daily routine, I used to gobble down as much food as possible before I started the morning autopsy at work. I was so afraid that if I didn't eat something beforehand, I would get too hungry while working and pass out.

But imagine my amazement the first time I completed a morning autopsy without eating breakfast beforehand and survived. Then I did it again and again, and I continue the practice of intermittent fasting to this day, moving forward with whatever the day brings.

What new possibilities or solutions might be available to you when you shift from a mindset of limitation to one of curiosity?

The shift can transform obstacles into strategy and opportunity, unleashing creativity and opening new pathways toward your goals.

For help incorporating intermittent fasting for weight release, type in the comment section.

10/02/2024

Are you someone who allows past events to stop you cold when considering making changes toward your desired future?

I know this feeling quite well. Often, thinking about doing something I have never done or done poorly in the past makes me not even want to start.

If this is you, then I have some good news….

Start with a small step.

The benefit of a small step is that it does not raise your resistance.

I remember when I applied to medical school. I was not sure if I would get admitted anywhere, but I knew how to fill out the applications. I realized that I had the prerequisites and examinations. All I had to do was submit my examination scores and transcripts. That was easy.

Sometimes, the entire process seems overwhelming, but that first small step is a breeze!

What is the first step you can take today to begin your journey onto your next great adventure?

Post “Yes, I can” in the comments if you need a cheer or encouragement to get started.

10/01/2024

When it comes to weight loss and healthy living, the journey often begins with a question. How might you answer the following: What difference do I want to start paying attention to that will spark a change in my life?

This question is at the heart of creating meaningful transformation. Small shifts in awareness can ripple out into significant lifestyle changes. For someone committed to improving their health, there are a few key areas to consider that can lead to lasting change.

One area to focus on is mindful eating. How often do you eat out of boredom, stress, or habit rather than hunger? You can start making more conscious choices by paying attention to the reasons behind your eating. For example, instead of reaching for a snack during a stressful moment, take a pause to assess whether you're truly hungry or just seeking distraction. The pause allows reflection upon a different action to lead to healthier patterns.

Another impactful difference is in portion sizes. Maybe you eat more than your body needs to feel satisfied because larger portions have become your norm. Paying closer attention to portion control and recognizing when you're full allows you to nourish your body without overeating. The difference can prevent the slow accumulation of excess weight and foster a healthier relationship with food.

If you struggle with emotional eating, tuning into emotional triggers is essential. Stress, loneliness, boredom, and fatigue often lead to overeating as a form of comfort. However, acknowledging these triggers and developing different coping mechanisms, such as walking, journaling, or practicing relaxation techniques, introduces a difference that can break the cycle of emotional overeating.

These examples are just a few ways of noticing slight differences that lead to significant change. By being more mindful of your choices, understanding your body's needs, and responding to emotions in healthier ways, you set yourself on a path toward greater well-being.

The first step is awareness. Then, as you go about your daily routine, ask yourself: What difference can I start paying attention to today?

Whether it's your hunger cues, portion sizes, or emotional triggers, noticing can ignite profound change.

Change doesn't happen overnight but begins when you start paying attention.

If you're ready to make a shift in your life, commit to noticing one area you want to improve. Then ask yourself, What difference will I pay attention to today? Take a different action in one area of focus and watch how your life changes.

09/29/2024

Everyone sees the world through their own lens, shaped by thoughts, emotions, and past experiences. Your personal filter affects not just how you perceive situations but also how you respond to them.

Imagine your mind as this filter, constantly interpreting the world based on your beliefs, emotions, and expectations. The result? You likely experience the situation much differently from other people who experience the same situation.

More importantly, how you experience the situation may align differently from what's actually happening.

Take, for example, the common struggle with food cravings. You might say, "I can't resist junk food," feeling as if you're powerless to your cravings. But if I ask you, "What's really going on when you feel this craving?" or "How do you feel after eating that food?" you might realize that the craving isn't about hunger at all.

Instead, the craving could be tied to seeking comfort or relief from stress. With that understanding, you can begin to find healthier ways to cope with those feelings — perhaps by taking a walk, drinking water, or practicing mindfulness — rather than reaching for the nearest snack.

Similarly, you might feel like you "never have time to exercise." Yet, if you dig deeper and ask yourself, "Why does exercise feel like it takes so much time?" you might discover that you equate exercise with spending an hour at the gym.

But in reality, exercise doesn't have to be that rigid. What if you could fit in a few 10-minute bursts of movement throughout your day? Suddenly, what felt impossible becomes doable.

The key is recognizing that your perception shapes your reality. Questioning and understanding how you view a situation opens the door to new possibilities.

You can shift from feeling stuck and overwhelmed to feeling empowered and in control.

Next time you face a challenge, pause and ask yourself, "How am I interpreting this situation?" Or "What am I making it mean?"

Is your reaction based on beliefs or expectations that might be holding you back? Is your assumption even valid?

By changing your perspective, you can change your experience, actions, and ultimately, your life.

09/28/2024

The Slow Grind of Transformation: Three Practices for Lasting Change

Coaching often centers around growth, change, and transformation. Some changes come quickly -- those quick wins that provide a sense of swift progress.

But at other times, transformation is a slow, arduous grind requiring persistence and patience. At these moments, change feels tough -- yet it is also the space where real growth occurs.

As these slow periods of change are crucial to the practice of becoming, here are three strategies that have helped me during those challenging phases.

**1. Tracking Behaviors**
The first thing I do is start tracking my behaviors. When I recognize that a particular transformation won't happen overnight, I commit to taking small, daily actions.

By tracking these small actions and allowing them to become habits, I can document steady progress before anything manifests outwardly. The actions may seem minor, but over time, they add up. The key is consistency — small steps taken consistently lead to gradual but inevitable transformation.

**2. Finding Productive Distractions**
We've all heard the saying, "A watched pot never boils." When waiting for transformation, focusing too intently on an outcome can lead to frustration. Instead of obsessing over results, I create productive distractions to keep myself engaged.

I find distractions that keep me engaged with the desired outcome but not directly involved with it. If I need to meal prep weekly, I find an enjoyable activity I can do while I meal prep, like listening to an audiobook or podcast.

The distraction is enough to hold my attention while doing a more mundane or less desirable activity.

Thus, I can enjoy myself while still staying busy with the necessary actions and allow the process of time to unfold without constant scrutiny.

**3. Acting As If It's Already True**
One of the most powerful practices is to start behaving as if I am already the person I want to become. For example, I adopt small, healthy habits — such as taking daily walks or choosing nutritious meals — that reinforce the identity of someone who values their health.

These actions can occur immediately, even before my belief aligns with that vision. By consistently acting as if it's already true, I start living into that future self now.

These strategies — tracking behaviors, staying productive while waiting, and acting as if change has already happened — are vital to making transformation more manageable. They remind us that while the process may feel slow, the progress is steady and sure.

If you are facing a challenging transformation, start by taking one small action today. Track it. Keep yourself busy. Act as if you're already that future version of yourself now.

With time, you'll realize that transformation isn't a sudden leap — it's a series of small, deliberate steps that lead you exactly where you want to go.

09/26/2024

In the realm of weight loss, every step can be likened to the art of sculpting a masterpiece. Just as a sculptor carefully chisels away at a block of marble to reveal the figure within, those on a weight loss journey gradually shape their bodies through mindful choices.

One of the most effective tools in this process is food journaling, a practice that invites both self-awareness and intentionality into the daily routine.

Much like an artist pauses to assess their work, pausing to record each meal gives dieters a moment to reflect. It creates a space between impulse and action, allowing a person to ask themselves, "Am I truly hungry, or am I eating out of habit or emotion?"

This brief but powerful pause can be transformative. When you write things down, you invite a dialogue with your habits, and you gain clarity that might not have been there before.

Imagine your body as a canvas and each meal or snack as a stroke of paint. Every choice you make either contributes to or detracts from the overall picture. As you jot down what you consume, you see patterns and possibilities.

Some are surprised by the stark contrast between what they thought they ate and what the food journal reveals. Like an artist who steps back to view their work from a distance, seeing your food choices in black and white can bring a new level of awareness that transforms your eating habits and your relationship with food.

The beauty of food journaling lies in its simplicity. Documenting what you eat encourages mindful eating, one of the most effective ways to promote long-term, sustainable change.

It is not about perfection but about progress. Small, mindful decisions accumulate over time, much like how chipping away at a marble sculpture eventually reveals a stunning figure.

Start treating your body as the masterpiece it is. If you haven't already, grab a pen and begin the practice of food journaling today.

It may be the small, creative nudge you need to bring your health goals into focus, one mindful choice at a time.

09/24/2024

Sometimes, I wonder if the principles that work in weight loss coaching could also be applied to relationships.

Researchers performed an experiment in which they rigged some soup bowls to connect to a pipeline that continuously fed tomato soup into them. The diners did not know that their bowls were constantly refilling.

The diners whose bowls were unknowingly being refilled ate 73% more food than those eating from regular bowls.

I asked ChatGPT how the findings from this experiment could benefit or even strengthen a couple in a relationship.

Here are five possible ways ChatGPT offered that this research could be applied to strengthen relationships:

1. **Awareness of Emotional Habits**: Just as people can unknowingly overeat when their bowls are continuously refilled, couples may remain stuck in negative or neglectful relationship patterns without realizing how much these behaviors "refill" and perpetuate conflicts.

Couples can use this knowledge to become more aware of unhealthy emotional habits that continually fuel tension.

2. **Avoiding Over-Reliance on External Cues**: The soup experiment shows how relying on external cues (like the amount of food in the bowl) instead of internal cues (like hunger or fullness) can lead to poor decisions.

In relationships, couples may rely on external factors (like a partner's reaction or societal expectations) to guide their relationship rather than check in with their feelings.

Couples are encouraged to tune into their emotional needs to prevent over-reactions or dissatisfaction.

3. **Establishing Boundaries**: Just as setting portion sizes helps manage food intake, setting emotional boundaries can manage relationship dynamics.

Couples may need to "measure" or budget how much emotional or mental energy they give in certain situations, ensuring they don't become overwhelmed or drained.

4. **Addressing Conflict Cycles**: The refilling soup bowls could be compared to ongoing arguments that never seem to resolve.

Without clear communication and boundaries, arguments "refill" and escalate. Couples can benefit from creating clear ways to "pause" and prevent recurring conflicts from dragging on indefinitely.

5. **Building Healthy Relationship Habits**: Just like deciding when to stop eating, couples should make conscious decisions about when to stop behaviors that aren't serving their relationship.

Practice intentionally implementing positive behaviors like gratitude, actively listening, and choosing times to discuss issues rather than waiting until frustration or other emotions overflow.

This analogy using an experiment around eating behaviors can help couples reflect on how small changes in behavior and self-awareness can make a significant difference in their relationship dynamics.

09/22/2024

A study where students unknowingly consumed increasing amounts of food simply because it was placed on their plates reveals crucial principles that anyone can implement to manage their weight.

I help my clients to focus on portion control and mindful eating to significantly improve their chances of success.

Here are a few steps that you can implement today:

1. Control Your Environment
One of the cleanest takeaways from the study is that we tend to eat whatever is on our plate, regardless of our hunger levels, demonstrating the powerful influence of environmental cues on our eating habits.

So intentionally controlling the amount of food you serve yourself is a simple fix to prevent overeating before it starts.

Use a small plate or container when serving yourself.

This strategy automatically reduces the portion size without triggering a sense of deprivation.

2. Practice Mindful Serving
Portion control goes beyond reducing how much food is on your plate. It also involves being conscious of the types of foods you're consuming.

Choose healthier options and serve them in appropriate quantities.

Pay attention to the balance of nutrients on your plate. Fill your plate with vegetables and lean proteins while reducing calorie-dense items like breadsticks or pasta.

Being mindful of what and how much you're serving will allow you to eat more intentionally and feel satisfied without overeating.

3. Avoid the "Clean Plate" Mentality
The study highlights how easily we consume more when large portions are available. A key takeaway is to break free from the "clean plate" mentality — eating everything just because it's in front of you.

Instead, learn to listen to your body's hunger and fullness cues. Leave food on your plate when you're no longer hungry. It is not wasteful. It's an act of self-respect and care for your body's needs.

The Cornell study on portion size and overeating shows that simply controlling how much food is on your plate can significantly influence your calorie intake.

The power to manage your weight lies in your ability to mindfully manage portion sizes, recalibrate your environment, and shift your habits around food.

Begin today by practicing mindful portion control — start with smaller servings, choose healthier foods, and trust your body's hunger signals.

When you take these small but impactful steps, you'll almost certainly see positive results on your weight loss journey.

Take control of your portions, and you'll take control of your health.

To help create your strategy, type the word 'strategy' in the comment section.

09/21/2024

In the Positive Intelligence training by Shrizad Chamine, we learn that every circumstance can be converted into a gift or an opportunity.

It got me curious if every circumstance could also become an opportunity to get fit and lose weight. I found an article on how to support yourself while going through a breakup and asked ChatGPT how this could become an opportunity for wellness.

Here is what I got:

Going through a breakup can be emotionally exhausting, but the steps we take to heal from heartache can also be used to build a healthier relationship with our bodies.

The journey to move on from an ex offers a roadmap not only for emotional recovery but also for reclaiming your physical health and well-being.

First -- allow yourself time to grieve.
Just as you grieve the loss of a relationship, give yourself space to grieve any past neglect of your body. Accept that feeling emotional discomfort is part of both heartbreak and personal growth.

Second -- be kind to yourself.
Forgive yourself for any unhealthy habits, both emotional and physical, that may have emerged during the relationship. Releasing regret creates space to build better habits, just as releasing the pain of a breakup allows room for joy.

Third -- Focus on self-care.
Journaling can be a tool for healing your heart and connecting with your body. Record your emotions, as well as your intentions for your health. Track how your body feels when treating it with care, noticing small and big improvements.

Fourth -- Give yourself love.
Embrace the beauty of spending time alone. Independence isn't just an emotional strength — it's a chance to rediscover how your body thrives when you prioritize yourself. Whether taking a walk, cooking a healthy meal, or practicing yoga, love yourself by nurturing your body.

Fifth -- Remove reminders of the past.
Clear your environment of things that tempt unhealthy habits. Take a break from social media distractions that might derail your focus on healing, both emotionally and physically.

Healing from heartbreak offers the perfect opportunity to rebuild your relationship with your body. By following these steps to emotional recovery, you can simultaneously transform your physical health and emerge stronger and healthier.

Start today by committing to caring for your body as deeply as you heal your heart. Your future self will thank you.

Today, take a small step toward loving your body. Whether it's journaling, cooking a healthy meal, or going for a walk, start treating yourself with the same compassion you would give yourself if you just went through a breakup. You are worthy of love —especially from yourself.

Type "Breakthrough" in the comments if you want more information on my ReviveAnew Group Weight Loss coaching.

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