10/08/2026
Things that are completely normal for parents during college planning:
Feeling more stressed than your teenager.
You can see around corners they can’t yet. In some ways, it feels like you’re carrying more of this than they are right now. You want the best for them.
Grieving a little, even when things are going well.
This is a season of lasts. Feeling a little sad underneath all the excitement just means you love them.
Feeling proud and terrified at the exact same time.
Watching your kid step into this chapter is genuinely amazing... AND genuinely a lot. Both of those things get to be true at the same time.
Your teen shutting down when you bring up college.
They are overwhelmed and you’re the safest person to shut down in front of. In a way, it’s a sign of trust, even when it doesn’t feel like it.
Researching everything and feeling more confused than when you started.
There is so much information out there, and most of it wasn’t written with YOUR kid in mind. It’s very easy to get confused by vague information.
Not knowing if you’re doing enough.
Parents who aren’t paying attention don’t ask this question. The fact that you’re asking it says a lot about the kind of parent you are.
Save this for the next time you feel like you’re the only one going through this. 🫶🏼