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08/21/2022

a fully expressed life is a life that is honest, raw, curious, open, connected, present—afraid and unafraid, confused and clear, knowing and questioning, playful and restful, moving and still, loud and quiet.

the journey to a fully expressed life is never complete-it is a life that requires forever tending, forever care, forever questioning.

📸: .photography

08/19/2022

What are you tending?

05/27/2022

felt so good to be back in action in person this week, leading the Ruskay Fellows through their final retreat (and getting to play with .consulting)

06/23/2021

Go to the right people for the right things ✨ ⁣
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06/14/2021

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06/11/2021

you have needs. i have needs. we all have needs.
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even though some of us like to pretend like we don't
even though some of us were taught to silence them
even though some of us were rewarded for not expressing them
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the feelings we feel now - the anger, the sadness, the fear, the stress, the confusion - are often a signal to us that we have a need that is not being met.
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what would happen if we:
﹋gave ourselves permission to have and respect our needs?
﹋felt resourced enough to meet our own needs?
﹋released others from being responsible for our needs?
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06/08/2021

a few daily reminders to put on repeat⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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﹏ my needs are valid simply because they are present.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
﹏ i trust myself to know what's right for me.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
﹏ i will not give up when it gets hard. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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06/07/2021

you have two choices.

you can spend an incredible amount of energy trying to be liked by everyone around you
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you can actually be you and spend your energy bettering the world for yourself and your people.

but you can't do both.

06/04/2021

one of life's hardest and most repetitive lessons.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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we can't control other people's .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
we can't control other people's .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
we can't control other people's .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
We can't anything about other people.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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No matter how hard we try.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

06/02/2021

"jump in before you're ready!"⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
"take the leap and trust yourself!"⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
"fake it till you make it!"⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
"just do it!"⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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have you heard any of these? I have 🙋🏻‍♀️⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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the problems with these statements are not that they're inherently untrue or unhelpful; the problem is that they are used too quickly to dismiss real fear, real heartache, real lack of skill, knowledge or desire.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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there's a pressure that comes with these phrases that is rooted in - that is rooted in the idea that we always have to do more & do it faster.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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i'm not here to let you languish in the daydreams and ignore the need for , but i want you to take - action that feels right for you, your wellness, your mental health, your capacity, your desires, your freedom, your sovereignty. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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06/01/2021

what will you do with the opportunity? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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how will you choose to lead, to show up for yourself, to call your people forward?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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