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Most people live like they have unlimited time.
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“You could leave life right now.”
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Say what matters.
Do what is right.
Stop wasting time on things that weaken your character.

Every day is borrowed time.

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Day 10: Befriending Yourself

Seneca reminds us that being a true friend to yourself is the first step in becoming a true friend to others. When you are deeply confident in yourself, you rely less on external validation and, in doing so, create room to accept others as they are. We can have high standards and still show ourselves compassion wen we, or others, struggle to meet them.

1. Do you treat yourself as well as you treat your friends? Stand in front of a mirror and name five qualities about yourself that you take pride in.

2. Identify one area where you tend to be critical of yourself. Write a message to yourself-as you would write to a friend-showing compassion and encouragement.

Day 10: Befriending Yourself

What pleased me today in the writings of Hecato is these words: "What progress, you ask, have I made? I have begun to be a friend to myself." That was indeed a great benefit; such a person can never be alone. You may be sure that such a person is a friend to a ll humankind.
Seneca, Moral Letters to Lucilius, 6.7

Day 9: Between Stimulus and Response

Marcus Aurelius asks, "who hinders you from correcting your opinion?" (Hint: it's you). When we carefully examine our negative emotions, we see a gap between a negative stimulus (what happened) and our emotional response (how we feel about it). He reminds us that power comes from removing judgment around an external stimulus and realizing that stimulus doesn't control our thoughts-we do.

1. Identify the last negative emotion you experienced. What was the stimulus? What was your judgment about the situation? When didi you start to feel upset? now pry open the gap between the negative stimulus and your emotional response. Was there space for you to change your judgment that something"bad" was happening?

2.You wake up in a bad mood. Explore a different thought pattern that's more expansive or forgiving. How does this thought pattern influence your actions?

Day 9: Between Stimulus and Response

If you pained by any external thing, it is not this thing that disturbs you, but your own judgment about it. And it is in your power to wipe out this judgment now. But if anything in your own disposition gives you pain, who hinders you from correcting your opinion?
Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, 8.47

Day 8: A Second Look at Judgment

Snap Judgments about situations, people, or ourselves are not objective truths. They are opinions, stories we tell about a situation and our projection on it. Sometimes these stories help us make sense of the world, but sometimes they make things worse. Marcus Aurelius reminds us that by curbing our negative judgments, we escape the turbulence of our emotions.

1. Choose a scenario where you've made snap judgments: (a) meeting someone new; (b) entering a job interview; (c) having an argument with a friend or partner. Go back and carefully examine each judgment. Are they factually true, or are they opinions? Could anything else be true?

2.How would questioning your judgments allow you to feel calmer and interact more effectively? Write down one judgment to release. Sit with that writing for 30 seconds. How do you feel now?

Day 8: Second Look at Judgement
Consider that everything is opinion, and opinion is in your power. Take away then, when you choose, your opinion, and like a mariner, who has doubled the promontory, you will find calm, everything stable, and a waveless bay.
-Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, 12.22

Day 7: Respecting Your Essence

When we find an opportunity for progress, do we choose to take the leap or hold ourselves back?

Epictetus says that our beliefs about ourselves play a key role in our choices.

If we decide to align ourselves with excellence, courage, and self-respect, we will rise to (almost) every occasion.

1. Do you ever have unkind or overly critical thoughts about yourself?

Write them down here.

2. What if you learned those unkind thoughts are not objectively true?

What would happen if you substituted different and more helpful thoughts?

Rewrite each disparaging thought from a new, more supportive angle.

Identify one choice you can make today to shift from damaging to sefl-respecting beliefs about yourself.

Day 7: Respecting Your Essence

Since, then, it is inevitable that every person, whoever they be, should deal with each thing according to the opinion which they form about it, these few who think that by their birth they are called to fidelity, to self-respect, and to unerring judgement in the use of external impressions, cherrish no mean or ignoble thoughts about themselves, whereas the multitude do quite the opposite.
-Epictetus, Discourses, 1.3, 4